2006-12-19 20:22:52 · 16 answers · asked by sugarbabe 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
It's unfortunate that we can't truly know our partner without spending years in the relationship. I was married for 6 years, but when we got married, I didn't know him as well as I thought I did. Over time, things came out about him that weren't right, and had I known about these things beforehand, I wouldn't have married him at all. You just never know. People aren't honest about who they are, and I think that is the #1 reason marriages are so short these days.
2006-12-19 23:04:31 · answer #1 · answered by Heather C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes I wish I had stayed single. Its like I maried a 13 year old. Just the other day we were fighting and he threw himself on the floor kicking his feet because he did not get his way. I made him go out and get a job. I am so tired of men. They either do not want to work or they just take my money I earn. Yes a marriage is shared but not when they dont work. Plus th fits he throws when I speak to my ex. I have 2 children that live with my ex while I travel. So I call to talk to them and aslo speak to my ex on how they are doing. My husband acts like I am setting up a date him. Hell my ex husband and I have been friends for 20 years. He was there before my husband and will be there after.
2006-12-19 20:31:05 · answer #2 · answered by Char 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Hi Sugar, I was marry,and i will be single here shortly. Yes,in my case i wish that i had never marry this jerk. But there are still some men who are very sweet,and caring. If i do find someone,i will never marry again. I will live together as a couple,and if something gos wrong,i will grab my hat,and run,not walk.
Clowmy
2006-12-19 20:31:20 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I wish that marriage had a 5 year renewable contract. That way, my husband, who by the way, won't have sex with me, would have to worry about staying together. It's too easy for laziness and neglect to be a part of the marriage.
Would I have stayed single? Only if I could have my children. I don't know if I would marry again.
2006-12-19 20:29:14 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
I am SO happy I said yes it is unbelievable. We "click" so well we know when we need each when one is is in one place and the other is somewhere else. My man is an angel in disguise I think. Not all men are jerks. You have to give them a chance. Some are diamonds in the rough. Some like a girl and "get stupid" just because he doesn't want to hurt her. Be patient with guys. They have feelings too so don't flip them off just because they make a silly mistake. Being kinder to them brings out their better qualities.
2006-12-19 20:32:06 · answer #5 · answered by greylady 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Never get married. There is no reason to other than to make everyone else satisfied. If two people love each other, and make that known to one another, it is just as important and wonderful as saying it in front of a bunch of family that is really just there for the party anyway!
2006-12-19 22:43:13 · answer #6 · answered by Katt 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When things go smoothly, everything is heaven. When there are some unresolved conflicts, u feel that u are better off single. So it depends on how u view it. Some men are but some are not. Depends on ur luck.
2006-12-19 21:21:14 · answer #7 · answered by disgruntled 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
the only reason I wish I had stayed single I am married but am living single ... he is always busy and rarely mentally around... I have less rights but am still alone...
2006-12-19 20:27:54 · answer #8 · answered by LostInTheCrowd 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Not all men are jerks, it is just the ones you have chosen. Make changes to your choices of men companions. If you keep doing what your doing, you will keep getting what you have gotten. Good luck and God bless****
2006-12-19 21:39:13 · answer #9 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not all men are jerks just the ones you seem to choose and marry.
2006-12-19 20:24:30 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋