Family & Relationships - 19 December 2006

A long time ago I dated this woman who treated me very well until about a month into our relationship. I guess she thought I was easy prey. So I rejected her from then on out. I would not answer the phone and I refuse to have any communication with her whatsoever. About 6 months goes by and she tells lies like: I'm gay and stuff like that. Well, that only gave me more reason to hate her with the passion! Its been 6 years now and I haven't talked to her sense and never will! I've been single for most of my life and like it that way! I need nobody. At this point I am much more happy being on my own.

2006-12-19 22:54:07 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

what signs do they give?

2006-12-19 22:53:46 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i met a lady who was someones gal and we clicked and became an item. i knew about the other guy. a few weeks later the guy found out about me and he threatened the gal. she told me and i told that i was ready to drop it and she kept pestering me. i asked her about the guy and she said they had broke up and i acepted it and we go back together. i later found that she might be still communicating with the guy. and today the guy met someone from my work and asked abou me and he said he would come visit me. the guy is married. should i go on seeing the gal if i have doubts?

2006-12-19 22:52:09 · 11 answers · asked by gentle_thug86 1 in Singles & Dating

Yesterday,
Me , J , And D Walked Together..
J Brought A Camera...
We Want To Take A Pic With J Favourite Girl
But J Favourite Girl Not Coming..
Then I Asked J .. " Did You Told Your Favourite Girl About Our Planned Yesterday ? You Saw Her Before I Came ?"
And J Said " Yes " ..
After That.. J Went To Bought Some Candy...
Then I Ask D " Derrick Did You And J Saw J Favourite Girl Before I Came ? Did You Told Her To Come ? "
D Said " Yes We Saw Her... But We Did'nt Told Her To Come "

....
What Should I Do Now ?
J Is My Bestfriend
And D Is Not My Bestfriend...

Before This Me And J Promised We Wont Lie Each Other...
* Thank You For Your Guys Help *
Sorry My English Not Sooooo Good =P

2006-12-19 22:51:15 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Name: Aisha
Age: 21
Two sisters, Henna and Maliehah, mum named Ruby, Dad used to work for a renault dealership, but don't know if he still does!
She used to live in Hampton, in Wembley road, but moved to Richmond, Surrey with family.
I think she went to Strode College, as she went in Egham, and that is the only college I have been able to find!


IF ANYONE KNOWS ANYTHING THAT CAN HELP, PLEASE CONTACT ME!!

2006-12-19 22:48:52 · 8 answers · asked by KATIE B 1 in Friends

haha give me a clue plizzz. body is or not important? i keep on gym or no? :P

2006-12-19 22:47:01 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My ex-boyfriend (we broke up 8 months ago) called me all of a sudden and said he had a christmas tree for me (he works as a lumberjack). He then brought over a beautiful tree which is taller than me (and I am tall).

Do you think that this is his way of telling me that he wants to make love under a christmas tree or is it just a gift without any meaning?
In other words: do you think this means he wants me back or is it just a nice gesture?

2006-12-19 22:46:31 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Iam 16

2006-12-19 22:46:15 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2006-12-19 22:45:59 · 12 answers · asked by elaine.patton 5 in Family

we have been going out for two years nearly and all he ever wants to do is have sex since i lost my viginity to him he is just a little bit younger than me and has an attitude problem, he has ADHD if anyone knows what that is it a function of the brain that causes him to act a lot violently and hyperactive, it is our first serious relationship, he never treats me or suprises me to dine out in a restaurant, What do you think i should do because talking doesn't help he never talks back u nless he can get something from me as a reward. HELP!!!! he doesn't know how to communicate

2006-12-19 22:43:43 · 10 answers · asked by sam s 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Me and my girl..we had been together for 2 years, broken up twice, but we were great. Then I kind of got sucked into drugs..not bad, just weed, and this stuff called Salvia. and I did it a few times, and she hated it, but it like sucked me in, i didnt know how to not do it. and She left me because she said i didnt care about her feelings. i Am done with the drugs now, thanks to her, but i feel as if i have lost her forever. she is with someone else, and loves him, and is happy, but she told me she isnt COMPLETELY happy. so im thinking she still has strong feelings, but maybe she just needs time?? Any help would be appreciated...

2006-12-19 22:41:06 · 18 answers · asked by buster_sword_13 1 in Singles & Dating

my boyfriend of 3 yrs ended it out of the blue this our 3rd week apart and ive since found out he left me for someone else, he is now going through solicitors trying to buy me out of our house, i know i wasnt perfect and neither was he but he was my entire world, we are both 22 and im a right mess cant stop crying havent eaten in 4 days (not punishing myself just feel sick cos ive lst him and everything we had) i keep imagioning him and her back at my house (i moved out back to my parents house) it upsets me that he could throw away 3 yrs for someone he hasnt known long. i feel so alone

2006-12-19 22:39:10 · 3 answers · asked by sweetness 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

Im a white guy. I have personally known many Chinese people over the years, both male and female. I've always liked them, they seen friendly and decent people. Ive had work colleagues who are Chinese. The problem that Ive had is that Ive had all the signals they want to be friends, but then suddenly they dont want to know.

For example a chinese colleague asked me to stay in touch with her. I email her then get no reply. I ask her if she got the email and she said "Yes". Then later on, I get an email asking for me to meet her and she had booked a place for us to meet. I met her we had a great night out, no probs. Then I emailed her and thanked her for arranging everything. Then I got no reply. I havent heard from her since.

Ive got relatves and friends who have experienced the same problem in that they think they are great friends with a chinese person, then they suddenly dont wanna know.

Is this because Chinese prefer not to mix with white people? Id like to know.

Thanks

2006-12-19 22:39:00 · 8 answers · asked by seacow12222 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I'm a xtain & i've bin blieving God for a wife. I prayed a prayer as I was going to church one sunday. I said "God as I go into the church d girl dat seats beside me during d service, dat asks for me to help with my writing pen dat she forgot hers at home let it be a sign dat she is my wife." As I took my seat a girl I already know and have close to for some time(no sexual conection) came & next to me, as d time to write came cos d pastor started preaching she ask me to help her with a pen dat she forgot hers at home. I was confused cos though we've been very good I have never asked her out or being intimate with her &we've just being like brother and sister.
Still not convinced one night I asked God b4 going to sleep dat He should give me a sign . That same night in my dream I was beside my father eating and my mother was in the kitchen when she walked in I stood up to get her a spoon to join me.& she was welcomed by my parents.
could she really be the one should I approach her.

2006-12-19 22:38:09 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I have been in a rocky relationship for the last 17 yrs. I have cheated on my husband over 6 times and each time I try and leave he begs me to stay and says things will be different. I need some encouragement and support at this point to finally stand up to him and tell him no, I am not staying. I dont understand why he even wants me to, because of my infidelity. Asking if anyone has been through a similar situation and can offer me any advice I would really appreciate it....Happy Holidays

2006-12-19 22:37:54 · 22 answers · asked by sillyjo67 1 in Marriage & Divorce

my best mate and I, male and female - both married. Have both comment that each other are attractive, lovely etc - but both love our partners - we text everyday, speak most days - once drunk, walked home hand in hand, had long hug - nothing else, was that wrong? what is crossing the line?

2006-12-19 22:37:40 · 43 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

What is the differance between being in love with someone and loving someone?

2006-12-19 22:36:28 · 11 answers · asked by NONAME 1 in Singles & Dating

why dont guys treat you like a princencess

2006-12-19 22:36:20 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My brothers would be 37or38 and 33or34 my mother gave them up at birth. We (me and my sister) started looking last year with no luck. They were born in Toledo Ohio in a cathlic hospital. The Cathlic chursh says we can look for them but I thought as long as we were 18 (which both me and my sister are well in are 20's) and they were 18 we could look for them.Any suggestions on a different way to find them?

2006-12-19 22:35:52 · 4 answers · asked by sabledane 2 in Family

2006-12-19 22:35:09 · 13 answers · asked by cia 2 in Singles & Dating

im 22 and he's 25. most of our friends already settled down... lately one of my close friend was engaged with this guy whom she had a mutual understanding with. i really want to settle down soon... i kept on giving him hints but i usually end up crying alone because he just wouldnt get it.

2006-12-19 22:34:35 · 18 answers · asked by Enya 2 in Singles & Dating

i am a 14yr old guy and there is a girl that i like and i dont think im going to find out if she likes me if i dont ask her, but the problem is i dont know how to ask her out, l, she is pretty shy so i dont know what to say. she is currently a prety good friend ,

2006-12-19 22:34:05 · 4 answers · asked by Mark K 1 in Singles & Dating

i have been seeing a nice bloke for a few months now, but it doesn't seem to be moving anywhere. he is quite a bit younger than me. we are very different which is cool. he tells me he loves me greatly, but he hardly ever replies to my texts, we never speak on the phone & he never arranges to see me(thats always done by me) never suggests places to go. he wants to know everything about me and has stepped into my world(uni, friends, family) and has shown no interest in introducing me to his friends/family. i don't know!!?? i was single for 6 years(so maybe its me) and he has never had a serious relationship before. he says all the right things but his actions paint a different picture?? future or no future for us?please help!!

2006-12-19 22:32:55 · 20 answers · asked by zoezeph 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-12-19 22:32:05 · 11 answers · asked by zahid d 1 in Singles & Dating

will you?......please tell me your e-mail address...

2006-12-19 22:32:02 · 11 answers · asked by cyle*xie 2 in Friends

anyone will begin ******* / making love as much he can last time in his life? huhu

2006-12-19 22:31:40 · 10 answers · asked by peyosuss 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-19 22:29:40 · 9 answers · asked by hala hashim 1 in Friends

abusive living situation........wife without a job and no saved money...asap.......how much to live at the YWCA?

2006-12-19 22:28:14 · 4 answers · asked by non-curious 2 in Marriage & Divorce

nice thought?

2006-12-19 22:27:38 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

It's not like there's something wrong in my life. i have a place to live, clothes to dress with, food to eat. i will start working next month so i'll have an income. i share a flat with my childhood friend and she's great, we get along well.
No reason to be unhappy.
But still this is exactly what i am. 90% of the time i feel strangely supressed and alone. i dream about dying and don't have anything to offer to life that it could work on.
It's always been there but these last years i haven't been able to cover for it, so my friend knows bit about it, not much though.
Now it is starting to show TOO much, i'm afraid i might put off my new acquaintance with my negativity. This is the last thing i want cuz i think very highly of him.
And that is why i'm asking.
How do i get rid of this stupid feeling? Or at least how can i keep it to myself when in times it seems too big?
What i want is to be positive, so people would feel comfortable around me. i don't want to loose my new friend.

2006-12-19 22:27:30 · 10 answers · asked by Did i just say something silly? 3 in Friends