i met a lady who was someones gal and we clicked and became an item. i knew about the other guy. a few weeks later the guy found out about me and he threatened the gal. she told me and i told that i was ready to drop it and she kept pestering me. i asked her about the guy and she said they had broke up and i acepted it and we go back together. i later found that she might be still communicating with the guy. and today the guy met someone from my work and asked abou me and he said he would come visit me. the guy is married. should i go on seeing the gal if i have doubts?
2006-12-19 22:52:09 · 11 answers · asked by gentle_thug86 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
So your prospective gf was having an affair with a (potentially violent) married man?
Enough credentials there to give an answer I think.
Start looking elsewhere and save yourself a lot of heartache.
2006-12-19 22:56:30 · answer #1 · answered by philip_jones2003 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know that's a hard one because she lied to you already by telling she wasn't with him when she was, so there alone i would have a little bit of a trust issue.I guess talking to both of them about it would be the smartest thing you can do and if then nothing gets resolved then i think you should move on cause no one needs that kind of drama in there life.She may also be using you to make the other guy jealous..hm-mm talk to her about it and also look deep within yourself and ask yourself if all this is worth it..GOOD LUCK
2006-12-20 01:03:12 · answer #2 · answered by putty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds complicated. Depends on what you are looking for in this relationship. If it is a long term relationship you are looking for...this girl has too much drama in her life. She won't change. She is seeing a married man. Then she starts seeing you, telling you they broke it off. Stay friends with her, but move on. There are lots of women out there that have their lives together and more right for you.
2006-12-19 22:57:32 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think talk to the guy and your gal and ask them outright about their position. I thinking dumping her on a whim will not be fair. At least give her a chance to explain.
2006-12-19 22:54:45 · answer #4 · answered by Smriti 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay, I had to diagram this.
A=you
B=her
C=B's other guy, who is married to D
E=someone from your work.
F=The engineer of a train leaving your town at 75 mph
So you were seeing B (C's mistress), and think she might have fidelity issues? Go see F and board the train.
2006-12-19 22:57:10 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are getting played like a violin! Time to roll and leave all the drama behind!
2006-12-19 22:58:00 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Then you must talk to the her back and you must ask her who is this Guy actually is.
2006-12-19 22:59:30 · answer #7 · answered by Naruto 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you seeing a married girl? Don't see her anymore - she's not available. God Bless.
2006-12-19 22:54:06 · answer #8 · answered by j b 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't have trust then you don't have anything at all.. leave this alone :) :) :)
2006-12-19 22:59:50 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think she is still with him
2006-12-19 22:55:47 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋