Me and my girl..we had been together for 2 years, broken up twice, but we were great. Then I kind of got sucked into drugs..not bad, just weed, and this stuff called Salvia. and I did it a few times, and she hated it, but it like sucked me in, i didnt know how to not do it. and She left me because she said i didnt care about her feelings. i Am done with the drugs now, thanks to her, but i feel as if i have lost her forever. she is with someone else, and loves him, and is happy, but she told me she isnt COMPLETELY happy. so im thinking she still has strong feelings, but maybe she just needs time?? Any help would be appreciated...
2006-12-19 22:41:06 · 18 answers · asked by buster_sword_13 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
the fact remains that she loves u still.. but i suggest that be friend to her and prove that you have change.. dont push anything about you and your feelings for her.. just let time decide.. cos in the long run, if you and her are meant for each other, things will turn out that way..
2006-12-19 23:50:16 · answer #1 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I suggest you to let her be with new bf.I would call you wise if you dont interefere into her life again.She is getting all that love and care from her bf which you couldnt give her.You should be happy for her coz she has walked past you and is getting what she truely deserves from her new bf.
At the first place you shouldnt be expecting her to come back into your life.I guess you have learnt a good lesson for taking her easy in the past.If i were in her place i would never love you back fully again.Coz she gave you her precious whole heart.But you broke it into pieces.Nobody would wanna get thier heart broken over and over again by giving you a second chance.
So take good care of the next person that is going to come into your life.Never take them for granted.If you do,you will lose them forever.
2006-12-19 23:19:51 · answer #2 · answered by Sheeth 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think 'recover' is a poor choice of words. You miss them, but remember them. If the loss of someone is impeding your life or you are not able to move on, then you may need a little help from someone, either mentally or spiritually. My father passed away, and sometimes I still get a little teary over it, but I keep going, and live my life as best as I can, because I have other people to care about/for, and I know that that's what dad would want for me to do.
2016-05-22 23:35:40 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she told u she is'nt completely happy then she just needs time to make sure u are off the drugs . I think that maybe if this is true then u have a chance.
2006-12-19 23:04:26 · answer #4 · answered by Shery W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you can let her be and keep talking to her only as a friend. She may have been feeling guilty over leaving you, since you stopped using drugs, but then changing partners is not so easy. Make her feel easy and try to be happy without her.
2006-12-19 22:44:37 · answer #5 · answered by Smriti 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on! Even if you win her back she will never completely trust you again and she will always suspect that you might go back to the drugs. Plus everytime you have a conflict, she would hold this over your head! Find a new GF.
2006-12-19 23:04:05 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
When something like this happens you dont stop loving the person if you raelly loved them in the first place.I think you should talk to her and ask her were are her feelings fo ryouright now.THen take it from there, if she told you she wasnt completle happing maybe she needs and wants you so talk to her and tell her you love her and want her back.......congrats on being clean..and i wish you the best of luck
2006-12-20 01:07:53 · answer #7 · answered by putty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry abt what happen bro well all i can say is she may be havin feelings for u but...
i think u right there i think u should give her some time
just tell her how u feel and then just wait if she comes back
tahts the best u can do bro
cheers and best of luck
2006-12-19 22:55:30 · answer #8 · answered by ghost13 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Man, forget her. You need to date someone else. She's moved on. Good luck with the next one!
2006-12-19 22:44:56 · answer #9 · answered by anonymous 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well u sound nice.u should take her to a nice place a u should talk 2 her tell her how u feel and ask her if she can give u a chance
2006-12-19 22:46:22 · answer #10 · answered by Tinkerbell101 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋