I'm a xtain & i've bin blieving God for a wife. I prayed a prayer as I was going to church one sunday. I said "God as I go into the church d girl dat seats beside me during d service, dat asks for me to help with my writing pen dat she forgot hers at home let it be a sign dat she is my wife." As I took my seat a girl I already know and have close to for some time(no sexual conection) came & next to me, as d time to write came cos d pastor started preaching she ask me to help her with a pen dat she forgot hers at home. I was confused cos though we've been very good I have never asked her out or being intimate with her &we've just being like brother and sister.
Still not convinced one night I asked God b4 going to sleep dat He should give me a sign . That same night in my dream I was beside my father eating and my mother was in the kitchen when she walked in I stood up to get her a spoon to join me.& she was welcomed by my parents.
could she really be the one should I approach her.
2006-12-19 22:38:09 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
one day she gave me d good news dat someone proposed to her, I was happy for her, since I didn't have such plans 4 her, then this church inicident thing had not happened. I never fantasized or lusted her in my heart, but b4 this church incident, I had 2 similar dreams, I saw myself hugging her passsionately. I wondered why this kind of dream since I have never thought about it. then after d inicident apart from d dream I narrated in my 1st question, I went to her house in the dream with a friend, she now approached me in the dream and asked me to help her adjust her dress around her waist.
Now in real life She brags about our friendship to people and say if it is possible for a man to be a chief bridesmaid for a lady she would definitely choose me, that is how close we are and how she likes me. She is always full of laughter around me.
I don't know how I should tell her all these, how do I approach her and get her to know that it is me and not the other guy that is her husband?
2006-12-20 02:05:43 · update #1
First off, God is not the author of confusion! If you are not sure that this girl is right for you, by all means WAIT! Don't make a move until you know that you know that it is God that orchestrating this. So continue to pray and seek God face! God bless.
2006-12-19 23:02:57 · answer #1 · answered by L. Ann G 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your grammar, spelling, writing style and subject matter has led me to believe that you may be suffering from mild dellusions. You should seek help! Approaching a girl because you had a dream about her and she happened to forget her pen (like people don't do that all the time) is only going to scare her off. It seems like you may be developing an unhealthy obsession with this woman and I wouldn't want it to become dangerous. You need to get help before you turn into that psycho obsessive 'friend'.
2006-12-20 06:41:24 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
first go & talk to her what she think about it & ask ur self is u seriously ready to get married this girl then u definately married her. it's a life time decision don't be fast ,first think & spend some more time with her u really get to know that this the one. belive in god he will show u the way. best of luck be happy
2006-12-20 07:35:20 · answer #3 · answered by simple girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don`t believe everything you see in your dreams; they don`t always hold any special significance or meaning you know.
Just listen to your heart and follow its "instructions", so to speak.
If you really fancy this girl from church, why don`t you try to strike up a friendly, gentle, innocent, non-threatening and private conversation with her and see where it leads to.
If she appears to warm up to you, ask her out on a fun filled date or something, why not?
Xmas romances are so exciting, aren`t they?
Good luck to you & Happy Holidays!!!
2006-12-20 07:33:58 · answer #4 · answered by Lolita Angel Rose Taylor-Kennedy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go for it. Just give it a shot. Make things happen yourself because he is the only one that is gfoing to look out for you.
2006-12-20 06:42:42 · answer #5 · answered by Scott M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u said u knew her before..then why dont u try telling her all this...if she believes u and God,may be she may accept..God ll surely help u sinmce all this long He only had been with u...
good luck believe in God..for he is the Almighty..
2006-12-20 07:50:29 · answer #6 · answered by For peace 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if she is really a good friend and a good girl too, what's the harm in trying?
2006-12-20 06:41:04 · answer #7 · answered by Smriti 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you are reading a little bit too much into this whole connection thing!!
2006-12-20 06:49:42 · answer #8 · answered by gym junkie mummy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go 4 her n give a try!
2006-12-20 07:18:56 · answer #9 · answered by Vashini 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't take the bait. But Its not about how I feel! Its how you feel that matters most.
2006-12-20 06:41:26 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋