Family & Relationships - 19 December 2006

my ex and i broke up a while ago. he says hhe loves me . he says his heart is with me n will always be.he sed if u love some one let them go if they come back there always ures. i have been a cow to him since we broke up because i didnt know how to deal with it. threatening him with various things, which i regret totally.
he now says he needs to 'find out who he is', his 'heart is with me but his head isnt' and 'circumstances mean we cnt be together at mo' becaus he cant forget the bad stuff that happened at the end. some explanations please. is he needing this time to forget the bad stuff , if so do u think he ever will? or can if he LOVES ME
the whole purpose of not finding somone knew is thti love him and know it can be gd
i asked if he waNts me to move on , and he sed no he doesnt but knows he cant tell me to wait.
he says his heart is always with him but his head not with me at the moment. dont say move on bcus how can i knowin he loves me and i him. do u think love is enuf

2006-12-19 21:07:03 · 2 answers · asked by lola f 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

My son is severely mentally challenged. He is 17 with the mind of a 5 to 6 y/o. He has bi-polar disorder and anger problems.

My ex-wife has custody of him at the present time.

He has been taking Rispirdal for two years to help with his condition and my ex just stopped giving him his Medication w/o consulting his Doc!

He's having a difficult time controling his mood swings and seems to be very agitated.

I've tried talking with his mom but she won't listen to reason!

What can I do to help him?

2006-12-19 21:06:35 · 10 answers · asked by fnytms 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Not important where are you from.

2006-12-19 21:04:43 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I'm a smart girl, not ugly, not a supermodel, average, and i keep falling in love with guys, who don't appreciate me. They don't respect me, and always choose a girl, who's not smarter or prettier or kinder than me. (i'm not conceited, everybody tells me those things, i've just written) But unfortunatelly i'm not smart enough to figure out what is the problem, it's something about me, that scares them off, and i have to say, good for me, because eventually it turnes out those guys weren't for me after all. But who is? And where can i find a guy, who appretiates me, for who i am? Nowadays i find it hard to look at a guy, because i fear, he's going to be a jerk too.

2006-12-19 21:04:42 · 22 answers · asked by wendy 3 in Singles & Dating

as im working,i feel tried after coming frm wrk.when my hubby tries to make me erotic,i take long time to get lubrication.hw can i get lubrication fast and enjoy our sexual relationship.?pls advice

2006-12-19 21:03:12 · 6 answers · asked by cute mary 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I don't often find myself agreeing with Muslims but this is a partial exception - why shouldn't people be able to have multiple marriage partners? Certainly children would not be without a father/mother-figure if one of the husbands/wives leaves the mother/father. Where I differ with Muslims though, is that I would also allow a woman to take multiple husbands. What you think?

2006-12-19 21:02:58 · 9 answers · asked by Paranormal I 3 in Marriage & Divorce

what is the best kind of underwear for your girl to wear?

do guys even notice that there are different kinds, or are they more interested in what happens next?

for example, is less better?

2006-12-19 21:00:34 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have today five days before xmas . It stinks

2006-12-19 21:00:22 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

http://www.friendster.com/photos/14191089

2006-12-19 20:57:35 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Earlier I was asking what to do about a girl fancying my fella of six years - so I hope you same guys are still on??
My partner doesn't feel comfortable mixing work and private life - I can't just go to his office - he would hate that. Also, he hates public displays of affection. So how can I show we are close?
I am insecure here, I know!

2006-12-19 20:57:01 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i'm looking for any randy movies or shows with manatees shagging on tv. any suggestions?

2006-12-19 20:54:07 · 4 answers · asked by tmdkshaft 2 in Singles & Dating

I have been close friends with her for about two years now! I like her but not like that! I Cant even look at her today. and it gets worse........ its the Christmas party tonight!!!!! What do I do?

2006-12-19 20:53:43 · 45 answers · asked by Nigi-magic 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-19 20:53:37 · 13 answers · asked by farah l 1 in Singles & Dating

my dad as just died.. my aunty said he as i will i was told i cud see it monday just gone.. but never.. yesterday she said i wud ave to wait till after the new year.. i believe there is somethin in it she doesnt want me to see.. wud it b wrong to ask her.. to see it b4 xmas..

2006-12-19 20:50:42 · 11 answers · asked by tracey d 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Hi all,

I'm going on hols at Christmas because my mum and dad are away too. My brother has to work.

I keep getting the blues after thinking i'm spending Christmas alone...

I'm not happy about it and i know i will hate it not having my family around!

My Xmas dinner is pizza on the beach!

Help me??????????

2006-12-19 20:50:12 · 9 answers · asked by Jen (G cup UK) 2 in Family

ok here's the deal I've been friends with a girl now for a few years at first I thought she was alright looking but after getting to know her I realised how beautiful she really is we've been throught a lot of bullshit and still manage to saty friends I know she thinks I'm good lookin but friends don't have probems coplimenting eachother we make eye contact all the time she faces me when were sitting and I've heard of the whole palm and wrist showing are submissive gestures and she replies to me saying babe or babygirl when I'm talking to other girls in the room ahe also has a boyfriend and sometimes she calls me by his name we also spend a lot of time alone or with other people weve never hels hands or kissed and the only hug we give are goodbye hugs I'm afraid that if I tell her she would feel uncomfortable and not talk to me ever again and the whole if you love some one let them go and if they don't return it wasn't meant to be I don't think I can bare with out her friendship I'm so confused

2006-12-19 20:48:42 · 4 answers · asked by myheartbeatsforyourlove 1 in Singles & Dating

I just want to collect the quick answer from you. Thanks :)

2006-12-19 20:48:35 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Is it her Eye's, Is It her Lips, Is it her Body type, Is it her come her stare, Is it her Smile, Is it her Hair, The way she walks, talks or smells or is the over all aditude of the woman?. What do men find sexy about women? and be honest and give discribtions of the perfect woman for you. Thanks Men From a woman that want's to know.

2006-12-19 20:48:12 · 22 answers · asked by outlawprincess5321 3 in Friends

My teenage daughter is a bigger handfull than her brother which is 17 months younger than she is. They have the same rules, same raising, same enviornment, same treatment. I have noticed this same thing with friends who have a teen daughter and son.

2006-12-19 20:44:56 · 8 answers · asked by fishinchick69 2 in Family

My mate is grest til hes had a few, then he starts banging on about his beliefs on the world and how he could run it better (thinks hes a right cleverclogs!) He is quite smart
So i just love it when he screws up like when i asked him to pass me the chives and he gave me a blank look and i had to say you know the pointy ones that looks like bristles. I take the p1ss out of him, i know but he shouldn't drive ne nuts

still love him really

2006-12-19 20:41:34 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Friends of ours 12 year old son, got a hiding from his father 3 nights ago. I happened to see bruises on his calf, and asked him about it. He showed me his thigh, which was black and blue and more bruises all over his legs from the hiding he got. His dad used a slipper. Is this allowed and what do I do. He doesnt often get hidings but this is bad.

2006-12-19 20:40:15 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

for about 4 month now my wife has been make alot of phone calls that only last for a min. she does this right after i leave for work.she has white stains on her cloths.i fine t.p ..paper i my car,like some one has had a cold.then my cell phone bill has a lot of call made to me that i have never got ,i have a cingular phone.then someone call my phone it a man .with my brother phone number on the caller id minits later i call it back and its the same guy.duma..tell me his name .then said that he was returnig a call.i told him to stop calling my wife.one min it late i call back.then i ring to my brother home and my brother is right next to me the whole time. can this really happen some can hack on my phone like that just to hide there secert phone calls

2006-12-19 20:37:07 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-12-19 20:36:11 · 9 answers · asked by ? 5 in Singles & Dating

or the pleasure of a woman's company?

2006-12-19 20:35:17 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-19 20:35:08 · 7 answers · asked by ♥♥happening♥♥ 2 in Singles & Dating

what do you do when someone ur so devoted to suddenly stops loving u? and it seems they haven't got a clue, of the pain that rejection is putting u through?
that's such a true song.

m. carey and bone-'breakdown'

2006-12-19 20:33:13 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i have 17yr step daughter, she stopped school when 12, she takes and sells drugs, abusive, we have reported the matter to police to arrest her bf dealer, they wuldnt coz they said they need to catch them in action, which is impossible cz they go places to do it, she comes home at 5 in the morning, and starts slamming doors, im 8 months pregnant and worried how i will raise wen she is this house, the dad has told her to go to her mother's she refused cz she wont leave her bf, and they say we cant trow her out, what can i do, im so depressed, she makes amess in the whole house, and will never clean, she burnt me with cig wen i told her, and i cnt beat her, coz they say i will arrested, so i just live in ahouse that im scared of raising my coming baby, how would i protect my baby if the police wont do anything? i live in asmall town in spain, and police are not helpful at all.please help me.what can i do? we have found coccaine and other drugs, police still wont arrest them.

2006-12-19 20:33:12 · 10 answers · asked by penny 1 in Family

Ok so I snooped through my boyfriend's e-mail. He signed on to my computer and never closed it. I'm sorry!!! I know it's terrible, but I couldn't help it!
Ok i found two things that kind of bother me. One-he belongs to a porn membership site. He pays money and yet he always complains about money.
Two-he talks to his friend about how hot some bartender girl is and how they need to go "chat her up" next time he's in town (thank god his friend lives two states away).
Ok what do I do? Confront him or not? I feel like I can't confront him because I invaded his privacy yet how can I just keep quiet? I feel horrible. Help!

2006-12-19 20:29:48 · 12 answers · asked by Nicole83 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-19 20:29:43 · 6 answers · asked by Vocal Prowess 4 in Friends

Was a radio contest with a trip to Disneyland and a chance to win $10,000 at Disneyland. Well at Disneyland they said that your group of 4 over age 18 could all be in for the chance of winning the money. You take your friends and you and another friend are over 18 and have the chance for the money. Since you're the winner that brought every1 there you say "if i win or u win we'll split the winnings" and each agreed. Well your friend wins the $10,000 and Bigboy the radio announcer says to the winner what are you going to do with your winnings and shes up there telling every1 everything but giving me my half. This happened last wed. and she hasnt said a word since that day about the money. What would u do?

2006-12-19 20:28:40 · 4 answers · asked by ms_socali 1 in Friends