Family & Relationships - 19 December 2006

Hey mates . i have been married for one year now and the bedroom scene has taken a nose dive let me add and there is nothing being given from my wife when it come to conjugal rights . how i have the pleasure of having quite a few lady friens who are willing to come to my aid . And they are not ladies of ill repute . Now ladies and gentalmen who are sober minded .... what does a dude do . Man its been like four months of anguish i feel like i will burst . what say yee

2006-12-19 22:26:17 · 20 answers · asked by Ukoo fulani 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I am a 20 yr old male in the final year of college..I went around with a girl for 2 years and i got really close to her..In the first two years she proposed to me but i was never sure and did not give an answer..After 2 years she joined a co-ed college and she completely changed..her attitude changed and she started making new guy friends..she started changing and she wanted me to change my thinking as well..But my possessiveness started increasing..I could not give wat she wanted and so she dint even mind to ditch me out of her life..We both know that we cant get married cus we had family problems..But still i was with her for two years and am jusn not able to forget her and the worse thing is that we both are in the same city and same college so it gets tougher for me..she says that its not a good idea to talk anymore cus she is scared that ill not be able to give her the undersatnding she wants..she behaves very rudely and keeps hurting me and i have begged her so many times..

2006-12-19 22:25:41 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-12-19 22:25:30 · 37 answers · asked by St.gaz 2 in Singles & Dating

tall and white

2006-12-19 22:23:14 · 1 answers · asked by sexylad 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My frnd is in luv with one if the boys in my class ,how can i make her say that 2 me ? i'm sure she is in luv , what 2 do ?

2006-12-19 22:22:43 · 4 answers · asked by devu m 1 in Friends

his name is chad hes really cute

2006-12-19 22:22:32 · 6 answers · asked by lulu2009 2 in Singles & Dating

my friend has been given a love bite by someone and has to hide it from everyone. any help?

2006-12-19 22:21:01 · 36 answers · asked by St.gaz 2 in Singles & Dating

i want to get this guys attention!!

2006-12-19 22:20:53 · 6 answers · asked by Chrissy 1 in Singles & Dating

I am traveling thru Dallas and Los Angeles en route to Manila and beyond. Need to buy an engagement ring and would like it to be a one carat solitaire (Round-Brilliant or Princess). Don't really care if it is certified or not. My options are:

1) Jewelry Exchange, Dallas
2) Jewelry District, Los Angeles
3) Somewhere in the Philippines
4) Your Suggestion Here...

Ideas, pros, cons?

Best prices seen for a decent ring of this type?

Thanks...

2006-12-19 22:20:02 · 10 answers · asked by Steven H 2 in Weddings

My friend, Sara loves this guy, Tom And Tom asked her out recently. But Sara's mom doesn't allow her to get into relationship nor going out with guys alone. So Sara rejected Tom. Tom was rather down after the rejection. He knows Sara loves him too. They used to chat using messenger online. They longed to go dates, but Sara is afraid of her mom's knowing. She doesn't want to take risk. Yet, Tom is kinda crazy over her. He knows that they cant keep continue this great relationship they hav till her mom become less strict.It will be a long time before things changes. He can't wait.
So he chosed to keep a distance away from Sara. Yeh, sara was sad too.

Folks, what do you think they should do? Or rather, Sara should do? She really dont wish to lose Tom yet she can't forbids her mom's words.

2006-12-19 22:19:45 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I can sense it
Something important
Is about to happen
It's coming up
It takes courage to enjoy it
The hard-core and the gentle
Big time sensuality

We just met
and I know i'm a bit too intimate
but something (huge)is coming up
and we're both included

It takes courage to enjoy it
The hard-core and the gentle
Big time sensuality

I don't know my future after this weekend
And I don't want to
It takes courage to enjoy it
The hard-core and the gentle
Big time sensuality


Do you agree with me that this song justify oral sex?

2006-12-19 22:18:48 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am 21. On chat i found it amazing to log in as a girl. I got many good friends through IRC chat. I have come across a girl whom I like very much and it seems she is the right type of friend I could have. The problem is how can I tell her that the person with whom she is talking is not a girl but a boy and is interested in her?

2006-12-19 22:15:57 · 17 answers · asked by Habeas 1 in Singles & Dating

Now I have my own family I am slowly trying to enjoy it for my children's sake anyway. However this year seems worst! I have recently had a new born baby 5 weeks now and is recoverying from a c-section. The problem is my hubby's nephew wants to spend xmas with us as he has done for the past 2 years. I have not got a problem with this, but he wants to bring his 5 months pregnant girl friend who i have only met once for 1 hour. I do not feel comfortable about this and have spoken to my hubby who agreed at frist, but feeling pressured from is family- he has now done a u-turn saying that he can understand his nephew wanting to spend xmas with her. I am not at all comfortable and I have told him that if they come I will spend xmas at my mother with our two kids. Do you think I am going over the top? No doubt I will be the one doing all the cooking and cleaning. I know nothing about this girl other than her age. I am now feeling extremly depressed and do not know how to deal with this.

2006-12-19 22:14:25 · 27 answers · asked by fire 2 in Family

Mostly wanna see what the woman's point of view is on this from this worldwide demographic. But it seems sometimes like I'm the only one talking about f***king and everybody else is talking about finding relationships and sht. Wether it be going out to a club; internet dating; going to the gym; meeting friends of friends at parties-- whatever. You can find me on page 69. Exactly what page are u on?

2006-12-19 22:09:28 · 10 answers · asked by Airtight 2 in Singles & Dating

He's the father of my son, we'd been together for more than 5 years. He CHEATS on me whenever he gets the chance but aside from that, he seems fine (i.e he cooks for me, cleans the house, very responsible, sweet)... and now he wants me back... what should i do? honestly, I have now learned to live without him. Would you think I will be selfish if I won't give him a chance and not glue "our" family together for the sake of our son?

2006-12-19 22:08:51 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I had for the last few years found some of my long lost friends who has passed on in the orbituary of the newspaper. What do u do?

2006-12-19 22:06:40 · 7 answers · asked by The Babe 2 in Friends

Why are people getting married and getting divorced in a short time later? I do not alow my emotions to ever go that far. I don't date and have never been married. I've seen too mush **** happen in my lifetime. It seems like these days people feel like they "have to be married". Or they have to be in a relationship. Its too much drama for me. I would rather be single for the rest of my life. So the Idea that you have to be married or be in a relationship is very much an illusion! I'm not gay and I don't date or marry. I have no reason to. People think they are too weak to make it on their own. Which is obviously not true!

2006-12-19 22:06:27 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

im chattin wid him ryt now...gimmie sumthin really sweet tht wiill make his heart beat..you rock!thxx

2006-12-19 22:01:16 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i went out with this girl last year only for a couple of months, she dumped in october last year, anyway she has a new bf of 12 months now....but this year she has messaged me four times and the last time she was saying that she thinks about me, going into the past when i was with her plus saying that she wants to catch up but it wouldnt be appropriate....whats your opinion?!?

2006-12-19 21:59:44 · 3 answers · asked by scotty84 2 in Singles & Dating

I like one I saw online that is a cubic zirconia, does it matter if my fiance buys me that? I know the diamond is supposed to represent your love being eternal, but... is a rock just a rock?

2006-12-19 21:58:57 · 32 answers · asked by Geek Girl 3 in Weddings

i'm not trying to be all emo on you guys, but i've been reading irvin d. yalom lately (founder/expert on existential psychotherapy).

the idea is that because we all know that we will die, that there is no obvious meaning to life, and that we must go through it all alone, people often find romantic love to ease existential pain.

but when this happens, the love "caves in on itself."

My question: how do you tell the difference between regular love (which seems to have its share of heart-ache) and love which exists to ease existential pain?

2006-12-19 21:58:42 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

hehe think about it and be truely :P lookuing for the best answer¡¡

2006-12-19 21:57:15 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

He says he found someone and is going hiking with them in the morning. I have not been the best wife eighter. Sould I just let it go?

2006-12-19 21:57:10 · 21 answers · asked by Marie 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Hey, Christmas nearly here, season of goodwill and all that kinda stuff. I have had a bad year, breast lump, blood clots, husband leaving, car blowing up, daughter leaving for Uni to name a few but I just want all us nice people to have a group hug, have a smile and be thankful for all we have got. No bad comments please, good or nothing, lets unite and be god damn happy. Love to all of you....awwwwww

2006-12-19 21:55:12 · 21 answers · asked by Andrea 2 in Friends

2006-12-19 21:51:26 · 54 answers · asked by A True Gentleman 5 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-19 21:51:01 · 1 answers · asked by AnswerGeek 4 in Singles & Dating

What do you think of people who marry in McDonalds?

2006-12-19 21:50:28 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

since then I cant eat or sleep. I kicked her out of the house when i found out. I know it sound odd but i miss her but when she calls i get angry at her for what she did. Any help out there?

2006-12-19 21:47:53 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Yesterday my boy friend asked me of doing sex,
but i dont know how 2 do it. onlything i know is that this is sumthing 2 with a girl and a boy.
i wonna know is it paining 4 da girl when they do it and does this include anything 2 do with da girls breasts and da boys penis.
can anyone tell me how 2 do sex......

2006-12-19 21:45:53 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Doesn't have to be celebrity, can be a relative....
Mine would be my Dad, he died 6 years ago, but I still really miss him, and he loved this time of year!

2006-12-19 21:44:14 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships