what do you do when someone ur so devoted to suddenly stops loving u? and it seems they haven't got a clue, of the pain that rejection is putting u through?
that's such a true song.
m. carey and bone-'breakdown'
2006-12-19 20:33:13 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hold your head up high,girl! I know this kind of pain,it sucks,but unfortunately,it's a part of life.These so called men turn into little boys when things get serious.Why? who knows You are absolutely right they don't have a clue.The funny thing is after you go through all the pain ,the lonliness,the fear,you realize it was all for nothing!Trust me I'm probably a bit older than you and there is always someone better,the pain will lessen each day that goes by.I promise.So remember he is the one with the problem,you are obviously way too perfect for him.One last tip:Live Well!!! that is the best revenge of all. ALANNA
2006-12-19 20:43:27 · answer #1 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You become a stronger person and learn from the experience, you start new hobbies you meet new friends you change your life so that he/she is not needed! You ignore them because they willl always hurt you, if you ignore them and act like your not bothered they will probably regret leaving you. You dont think about them, dont have lttle memories like presents or pictures get rid .........become stronger!!! or go out n get wasted and cry for the rest of your life.... which is a very bad idea!!!!
2006-12-19 20:45:10 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd give up praying, return into the Bible and browse and research and believe to listen to from God in His Word what I am doing flawed. Praying is us speakme to God. His Word is God speakme to us. Ecclesiastes three:one million (KJV) one million To each and every factor there's a season, and a time to each and every cause beneath the heaven: There is a time to hope and a time to not pray. For EVERYTHING there's a season.
2016-09-03 14:50:47 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it hurts.
It also takes two to tango.
Maybe you were too much in love, to the point of smothering, and he could not respond to it, so instead of using you and being fake, he just pulled away emotionally and physically. that's a theory.
or,...
he is just a cold fish and his true colors are just now shining through.
2006-12-19 20:44:53 · answer #4 · answered by iroc 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the best thing is to communicate, if their is communication gap in the relation ship it dont survive long, so better talk to him straight that what is the reason for his behaviour, if u r hesitant to talk then write all your feelings on the paper and let him read infront of u, i think from his expression also u will get the answer plus he will give u the answer also.
2006-12-19 22:17:48 · answer #5 · answered by daisy d 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if they have suddenly stopped loving you that sound like their was much there to start with. you need to dust yourself off and move on it will be hard at first because you are hurting but in the long-run you'll be better off without him.
2006-12-19 20:40:28 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
focus your energy on starting a band that's better than maria f'ing carey
2006-12-19 20:42:19 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would not blame yourself for it. live your life and most important love yourself. men r built differently in the brain. they don't see things or feel like us women. (NO OFFENSE TO THE NICE GUYS)
2006-12-19 20:46:30 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
the love-fading syndrome..... he is not that worthy for you. but look on the brighter side at least you finally realized that early.
2006-12-19 20:40:26 · answer #9 · answered by AutumnMemoirs 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
find the reason first, then make up you mind to fall into another relationship. http://go2-url.com/aaazea
2006-12-19 20:42:55 · answer #10 · answered by rose s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋