as im working,i feel tried after coming frm wrk.when my hubby tries to make me erotic,i take long time to get?

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as im working,i feel tried after coming frm wrk.when my hubby tries to make me erotic,i take long time to get lubrication.hw can i get lubrication fast and enjoy our sexual relationship.?pls advice

Answer 1

You're working now, so there is no use in asking you to quit your job. You're married, so there is no use in asking you to find a better lover. The problem is in sexual arousal. It is not easy to be aroused when fatigue consumes you, yes, that I agree, even for a man. I think since you are not asking for a better sexual gratification, and the problem now is lubrication, GET lubrication! There are a few brands out there that specializes in this, the most common being KY-Lubricant. You can get it in most pharmacies. Hope that this helps and improves your relationship

Answer 2

Use your drive home from work to unwind and forget the work day. You and hubby need to set aside a time for each other each day away from domestic responsibilities, children, etc. Turn off the TV and have quality time with your mate - cuddle more - massage each other, share the shower. Put out some candles . Make dates, hire a sitter or whatever, and look forward to it - prepare yourself emotionally and physically to feel sexy. A nice hotel get away now and then.....you need to romance each other. (There is a section at the pharmacy for enhancing intimate relations...)

Answer 3

Both of you take your time

Sounds like you are exhausted

it does not have to be so 'rushed'

There are a number of 'jellies' you can use.... fruit, cinnamon, etc
(taste pretty good too)

But honestly take your time and RELAX

Answer 4

quit working. stay relaxed at home, so at the time he comes home from work u will be all relaxed and ready for use

Answer 5

if u continue this way
he is not coming back
and than u will need lots of lubrication
after all is it all about sex

Answer 6

Find a guy that's better in bed.