Can men forget bad stuff if they loved you? will we reunite?

Question

my ex and i broke up a while ago. he says hhe loves me . he says his heart is with me n will always be.he sed if u love some one let them go if they come back there always ures. i have been a cow to him since we broke up because i didnt know how to deal with it. threatening him with various things, which i regret totally.
he now says he needs to 'find out who he is', his 'heart is with me but his head isnt' and 'circumstances mean we cnt be together at mo' becaus he cant forget the bad stuff that happened at the end. some explanations please. is he needing this time to forget the bad stuff , if so do u think he ever will? or can if he LOVES ME
the whole purpose of not finding somone knew is thti love him and know it can be gd
i asked if he waNts me to move on , and he sed no he doesnt but knows he cant tell me to wait.
he says his heart is always with him but his head not with me at the moment. dont say move on bcus how can i knowin he loves me and i him. do u think love is enuf

Answer 1

hi there...

Love keeps no record of wrongs...If you love each other, you will be able to accept both of your shortcomings, your mistakes and your
weak points. i believe this applies to both sexes..you said he needed to find out who he is...my advice is to let him be. time and space are the best assets in mending a relationship.

will you reunite, you asked? sweetie, only you can answer that..

Answer 2

he's not worth anything. leave him. he just wants you to wait on him. he says he loves you but can't forget the bad stuff. that's not possible. don't be stupid to wait for him to "find out who he is".

don't settle for less when you can have a man who already knows what he wants and that is to love you fully without any BUTS! the more you wait for him the more you'll feel awful. better leave him now before things gets worse.

and he has not yet fully come back for you just yet, as what you've told us. you may wait if you want. but please don't expect anything. that way it won't break your heart that much.

i hoped my advice helped. more power!!! you can do it girl!! :)