im 22 and he's 25. most of our friends already settled down... lately one of my close friend was engaged with this guy whom she had a mutual understanding with. i really want to settle down soon... i kept on giving him hints but i usually end up crying alone because he just wouldnt get it.
2006-12-19 22:34:35 · 18 answers · asked by Enya 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Why would want to get married at 22 and why would want to marry a man who isn't listening to you before he marries you? Clue if he isn't listening and responding to your needs now what make you think a ring and a party will change that? Your whole life is ahead of you.......Men like babies tend to limit that. If you could live any where in the world would you? If you could do anything in the world would really be get married? If you could accomplish anything would you really feel fulfilled by wedding cake? I think you have to really look what you want and why? Create a person men would beg to marry and stop being the person begging some guy to marry you.
2006-12-19 22:43:29 · answer #1 · answered by ScottishhoustonGirl 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
No,it isnt acceptable. 22 is consider still a young age. Dont rush over it. Marriage is something that you have to think twice as you will be leaving with him through happy and sad moments.Engagement's ring is only an object but not an indication/symbol that he loves and cares about you.Treasure this moment and dont pressure him.You should ask him about his plan and tell him what you wants instead of giving hints.Most guys dont usually understand girls hints.Sorry guys.
2006-12-19 22:46:00 · answer #2 · answered by irah_miti 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
do not settle down for the wrong reasons (most of our friends already settled down)
lately one of my close friend was engaged with this guy whom she had a mutual understanding with...... there you go again!!! doesn't seem to apply to you....and the proof is:i kept on giving him hints but i usually end up crying alone because he just wouldn't get it....therefore I DON"T SEE THE MUTUAL UNDERSTANDING PERIOD!!!!
YOU ARE NOT READY YET!!!!!!
2006-12-19 22:47:36 · answer #3 · answered by schuschtermat 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
"End up crying alone because he just wo....." hahaha dumbass batch. There is no benefit for a man to get married as Tom Leykis tells it; and I would hope this man ends this relationship soon. You want to settle down soon and you're 22. Why are there so many women out there who have no ambition and no plan for their lives? You wanna settle down..... get the *** outta here.
2006-12-19 22:56:30 · answer #4 · answered by Airtight 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Don't rush, some times when a friend gets engaged or married we tend to look at our own situation and wonder why not me. maybe his saving up to buy you one (a ring), talk to him and ask him is this something that his planning on doing in the near future. don't give hints it just confuses them.
2006-12-19 22:40:37 · answer #5 · answered by Lara <:(((>< 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you are feeling as though you are ready to get married. you surely should tell him. And if you are unable to discuss this with him, how are you going to get married and maintain a marriage. You can not go through a marriage hoping he is getting your hints. Conversation and open honest communication is the key. So, if you are ready, you need to tell him. Not by making hints but by simply having this discussion with him and letting him know your true feelings. Good luck and God bless****
2006-12-19 22:55:54 · answer #6 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It may be acceptable, but it smacks of desperation. You're only 22. That's really young to get married, unless you're absolutely sure you want to spend the rest of your life with the person. You only want the ring because your friends have them.
PRETTY SHALLOW if you ask me.
2006-12-19 22:42:00 · answer #7 · answered by ladybugewa 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No you want the proposal to come from his heart, I did what you are thinking about doing just to have my husband tell me 5 months after marriage that he married me to make me happy, which hurt like hell. It's 6 years later and I still feel he may just stop caring about my happiness one day and walk out. So let him propose because he loves you... and if you truly love him be patient.
2006-12-19 22:37:49 · answer #8 · answered by Alicia S 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
No I don't think it's acceptable. Why wouldn't you want someone to ask you because they want to spend the rest of their life with you and love you? Not because you want them to ask you. Marriages don't last with that type of seniaro.
You are young, don't rush things.
How long have you been together? Couldn't of been that long if you are both barely in your twenties. Slow down. If he wants to get married to you he will ask but pressure will drive him away.
2006-12-19 22:39:52 · answer #9 · answered by LC 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You should talk to him about marriage but you shouldn't ask him to buy you a ring. Just because your male friends are ready doesn't mean that he is.
2006-12-19 22:35:57 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋