My ex and I broke up 6 months ago.I very much still care for him but not sure if he does.He does things a bf usually does and it seems like he cares alot for me as well.We never used to fight when we dated but now we can't stop.He dates another girl back in the Phillipines and I'm not sure whether she really exists cause the way he goes about with me it is like he is cheating on her.He once invited me to go with him and when I asked him where we going he said he is going to buy an engagement ring for his girlfriend.Is he worth it or just a scam?
2006-12-19 19:50:57 · 18 answers · asked by cotto96 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Forget all about him. He can't sort his Sh** out, he can't figure out what he wants, move on. You can find better. I wonder what made you decide to even consider to spend more tine on him. You can have normal relationship with someone who's AVAILABLE because he's certainly not available you deserve better, like a full man, not only 1/10 of him on holidays when his GF doesn't know. He's wasting your time.
2006-12-19 19:53:16 · answer #1 · answered by Snowflake 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I really dun get what you want. You ask if he is worth it, worth what? He is not your bf anymore, so why even bother trying to find out the truth? Does it even matter if he does or does not have a gf in the Phillippines? Is it that you still care for him and unwilling to let go? Or is it just plain jealousy? Calm yourself down and start searching the answers from within yourself, what are you looking for in him? IF you take him as an ex-bf and just a friend, then treat him like one
2006-12-19 20:01:50 · answer #2 · answered by glastnot 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he said he was going to buy her an engagement ring, well he is either trying to make you jealous, or he wants you to know that it's over. The best thing to do is to ask him point blank if there is any chance for the two of you. And if he says no, well you have your answer.
2006-12-19 19:54:36 · answer #3 · answered by Lynn (AzCrazyGirl) 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK I have a couple questions for you....if he says he has a girlfriend...then why are you still interested in this "ex?" If he doesn't have a gf and is just fibber...then why are you still interested in this "ex?"
Why would you want to be involved with someone you can not trust,? Why would you want to be involved with someone who cheats a "girlfriend" whom he plans on making his fiance? What makes you think he wouldn't do the same to you, if by chance you were to become a couple?
What is it about being in love that makes people so vulnerable?
2006-12-19 20:02:06 · answer #4 · answered by kefirasmom 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Obviously he is indulging in a double standards game and on top he is telling you in order to find out if you'd go along.
If you really want someone sincere and trustworthy ditch him...
Unless you love him and feel you can make him change for the better.
2006-12-19 20:07:56 · answer #5 · answered by poncho4u 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
move on. give yourself some time away from him.
when you say he does things a bf usually does, what do you mean? like buying you gifts? picking up the check, opening doors, sleeping with you, calling you every day, inviting you to the staff party...?
2006-12-19 20:02:46 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you broke up, why are you still hangin' around him? You need to move on and get some self worth.
2006-12-19 20:06:16 · answer #7 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you may have feelings for him but you need to move on a little hurting right now is a whole lot better than a bigger one down the road.
2006-12-19 19:57:36 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok let me get this straight, he is either a cheater or a liar?
Either way you look at it you are being used.
2006-12-19 19:53:30 · answer #9 · answered by Dovahkiin 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he alr said he is gonna buy an engagement ring for his gf, so leave him.
2006-12-19 19:58:25 · answer #10 · answered by rachel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋