Family & Relationships - 19 December 2006

Me and my boyfriend have been together for almost 3 years. We have a gorgeous 1 year old daughter, and live together in an apartment. We're both in college (he's almost done) and have little crappy jobs. We know we want to get married but we want to be more financially stable and at least one of us done with school...how long should we wait?

2006-12-19 04:23:19 · 11 answers · asked by LydBaBy21 2 in Marriage & Divorce

what should i include in my conversation in order to find out whether he has a gf or not?

2006-12-19 04:23:15 · 12 answers · asked by Physiologist 3 in Singles & Dating

touching my lolipop?

2006-12-19 04:22:34 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-19 04:21:57 · 48 answers · asked by cameronnet2000 2 in Friends

at work and at home. how do i change that. I've tryed tell my husband and my boss but its like they don't hear me. I do so much for them.

2006-12-19 04:21:54 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Ok, I went out with my good friends ex, but i broke up with him becuz...
1. My friend (duh)
2. he was shorter then me by like half an inch
3. I didnt really do nething since, well i felt bad cuz of my friend so it didnt even feel like we were going out.

Well NOW he still likes me and my friend i can tell she is not over him! But she is urging me to go out with him again, like and i told her no but she wont stop telling me to! What should I do! SHOULD I GO OUT WITH HIM OR SHOULD I NOT!

(and yes i still do like him)

2006-12-19 04:21:40 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

or S.L.U.T. for short?

2006-12-19 04:21:29 · 8 answers · asked by cryingrainbow 2 in Singles & Dating

looking like an idiot infront of you bf/gf's family. now matter how much you try its JUST NOT GOOD ENOUGH for you bf/gf's mommy or daddy. and all you can do is just sit there and feel like an idiot because you can feel there judging eyes on you and there fake smiles on there faces, and in side you know they just want to hang you. throgh there money , and wealth in your face and education and yet you just sit there with a stupid smile and agree to everything they say. and then it comes down to the point that you do everything in your power to avoid them.
You love your bf/gf but your to confussed if this is what you want, if this is what you want you child to be raised in, in that invironment
have any of you had this happen to you please tell me i dont want to be the only one with this problem, your opinion matters, and what can i do, coz im ingaded and his family is nutzzzzzzzzzz, money hungery silly monkeys aahhhhhhh help!!!!!!!!!!!!1

2006-12-19 04:20:49 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

What makes a man sexy enough u want to sleep with him....... his abs, chest hair, budging pants, wallet etc. without talking to him first.
Not really sleeping with him just want too.

2006-12-19 04:20:06 · 2 answers · asked by drewdog65 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-19 04:19:35 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I was with this Jimmy since Jan'05 until this Oct. He started to treat me badly starting from May'06 so i left him in Oct. That time i caught him smoking secretly & even ask me to leave his house cos he rather smoke than be with me so i left him. Now He keep pestering me to be with him again. I'm confused & lost.
Should i forgive & be with him again? But after the break up, i also dunno if i still like him or not? Headache...

2006-12-19 04:18:30 · 55 answers · asked by Jing 3 in Singles & Dating

My best friend's younger stepbrother is my dream. To me, he walks on water and can't possibly sink. I'm stuck in Limbo. We both are in a bad relationship (actually, I am just out of one), and I don't get to see him that often. Is there any way I could turn the tables in my favor, and not scare him away? (men seem to find me intimidating)

2006-12-19 04:17:51 · 9 answers · asked by Nadia 2 in Singles & Dating

be concrete dont tell me a story :P

2006-12-19 04:17:20 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

If you like a boy, but he is totally clueless, how could you tell him without freaking him out. I gave him a note, but he lost it. Which is totally great. Now though I'm wondering what if he had totally read the note. SO anyway help me please.

2006-12-19 04:17:09 · 9 answers · asked by Daniela15 2 in Singles & Dating

ok my friend is dateing this guy and i doent think that they should be together (which i have no control over)he treats her like sh it and she doesnt see it . also she is going out with him and doesnt evan know his last name . she is my best friend !should i tell her she deserves a lot better?

2006-12-19 04:16:43 · 6 answers · asked by jew 1 in Friends

when ever i get to know a boy well, i always get fellings for him - even if i know i can go out with him.
if i tell him this - things usually get screwed up for ever. even when things are alright for a while - they end up sour.

2006-12-19 04:16:27 · 5 answers · asked by Cynthia S 3 in Singles & Dating

Ok well theres this boy at my school named Cameron. I found out for sure that he liked me. So I told my friend Kayla I liked Cameron and she told Sam (cams best friend) and Sam told Cam. So then I gave him a Christmas card asking for email and giving him mine. But when the day was over I had no email address of his. So Kayla talked to Sam again and Sam said Cameron was going to email me and ask me to be his girlfriend. But my inbox is empty!!! What do you think is up?

2006-12-19 04:16:19 · 25 answers · asked by 619ILOVEREYREY619 2 in Singles & Dating

He is my friend.He knows that I love him.He never ask me something about that.I want that he feels in love with me.How difficult that can be?Has someone any idea?

2006-12-19 04:15:45 · 12 answers · asked by Jelena 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-19 04:15:02 · 6 answers · asked by yumna 1 in Singles & Dating

yeah well . wut r u suppose to do while being fingered?

2006-12-19 04:15:01 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i find it hard to trust someone when in a relationship.i always blow it because i have a hard time trusting.

2006-12-19 04:14:48 · 10 answers · asked by be_nice_to_me_1970 1 in Singles & Dating

I have been married to the same man for 12 years. Our marriage like others has had it's ups and downs. But in the last 3 years it has been hell. I do try for my children, he says all I do is ***** I try to explain to him that what he is doing is not healthy for our children. All his friends children are grown, or they have nothing to do with them.
I have delt with lies, dranking, coming home when he wanted to. But i looked over all that and said that we got married for a reason so we can work it out, And so we did and for a year it was good. HE works construction and when he works he is gone alot. Now he is laid off and all I ask for him to do is spend time with his children they are 2-9 (girls). But he has been back to hanging with the guys who are drankers. Nice guys! but Drank a lot, He is back to dranking and driving again. Not spending time with the girls. Said that I made his life miserable. OUCH that hurt. I try to be understanding, and deal but it is hard.

2006-12-19 04:14:42 · 24 answers · asked by freebirdat2002 2 in Marriage & Divorce

i have a husband he's a Libra,things are not working out,he has left me three times.we have been together 20yrs.i like this Aquarius guy i could never love him,because iam older than him but i can spend some very serious quailty time with him. the only problem is he has a girl,that cheats on him. what should i do?

2006-12-19 04:14:39 · 6 answers · asked by curious 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-19 04:13:24 · 10 answers · asked by Suzanne P 1 in Singles & Dating

she did stab my brother

2006-12-19 04:12:39 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

ok so i fell in love with this guy and he started to not talk to me and then i asked him why and he said that he has been going through a lot of stuff right knw and he didn't want to hurt me but every time he says that he wants to hang out he ends up not coming over.. yet he tells me that he fell asleep or somthing came up that he couldn't tell me about and knw he is saying that the reason that he stopped showing up was b-cuz he is going into the army and didn't knw how to tell me what should i do is he telling the truth?? or is he just playing mind games with me?

2006-12-19 04:11:51 · 20 answers · asked by lizzie_08 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-19 04:11:41 · 17 answers · asked by done dirty 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I am a very emotional person ... an educated beautiful person. I cannot seem to get my ex-husand out of my head and my life. As a bit of background, we still talk and spend time together. Our relationship is very passionate and extremely intense. For most of the relationship, I have been seeking his acceptance and understanding of me ... I have had an eating disorder and I am on medication for anxiety. I need someone that at least can understand that life can be difficult for me. We have been in many fights - I cry and he wants to fight- pushing me away. I am doing crazy things to get his attention and I feel as though I am out of control - I cannot get away. The more he pushes me away the more I want to be with him - complettely backwards. I am looking FOR KIND BUT CONSTRUCTIVE WORDS that can help me break this terrible cycle. How do people get strength to leave a destructive relationship? I want self-power! How can I build up my will?

2006-12-19 04:11:39 · 15 answers · asked by allyinminneapolis 4 in Marriage & Divorce

I only met her once, seems nice, they've been dating about 6 months (I think!) and all I know about her is that she teaches yoga and aerobics, and competes in fitness competitions. We draw names for Christmas, and my husband got her. I asked my brother for suggestions-no help there. Ideas?

2006-12-19 04:11:17 · 5 answers · asked by MARYN B 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

What kinds of things are you doing to help your kids get a Christmas gift for their mother? Did you take them to the store? Help them make something? Other creative ideas?

2006-12-19 04:10:58 · 6 answers · asked by Qwertius 2 in Family