Ok, I went out with my good friends ex, but i broke up with him becuz...
1. My friend (duh)
2. he was shorter then me by like half an inch
3. I didnt really do nething since, well i felt bad cuz of my friend so it didnt even feel like we were going out.
Well NOW he still likes me and my friend i can tell she is not over him! But she is urging me to go out with him again, like and i told her no but she wont stop telling me to! What should I do! SHOULD I GO OUT WITH HIM OR SHOULD I NOT!
(and yes i still do like him)
2006-12-19 04:21:40 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
First, I think you need to sit down with your friend and have a serious talk. No laughing, joking, anything. It needs to be a serious talk so you both know what each other wants. Tell her that you know she is not over him and that yes you do like him but you don't feel like its worth ruining your friendship. Tell her that you are confused about what she really wants because the last you want to do is hurt her (feel free to add tears and puppy dog looks and make sure you both listen with your hearts to each other) . If you both decide you should go back out with him but you still feel uncomfortable because of your friends feelings, don't go out with him and then sit your friend down for another talk and tell her that. Remember, no boy is worth your friendship. Alot of friends find that out after they have ruined it.
Good Luck
2006-12-19 04:31:24 · answer #1 · answered by Sylvia 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, you sound pretty young so I take it that you must be between 13 and 15 right? I think that maybe if a little time has passed between him and your friend that might be ok if she is telling you it is. However be sure because no boy should come between you and a girl friend. The boy might be gone in a few weeks but your friends that are girls could be forever friends if you are honest with each other. Maybe see if there is someone else she is interested in and help her out there. Once you know she might have another interest and won't feel bad or care that might work out better as far as some hurt feelings might go.
2006-12-19 12:31:08 · answer #2 · answered by tessie452004 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, since he's shorter than you...you need to call the WHOLE thing off...I mean...oh my goodness!
Just trust your feelings and go out and enjoy the time with him. If things 'click" then you can deepen the relationship. Certainly having your friend's encouragement is a good start.
2006-12-19 12:23:55 · answer #3 · answered by jeepguy_2x 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it depends on if you wont go back out with him but if you still like him go for but if he said no don't be hurt. and do it while you friend is right there.
2006-12-19 12:36:06 · answer #4 · answered by hay but b 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol
if ur friend is ok with it
and u still like him
why not go ahead and have fun!
But if ur saying ur friend is not over him,
than i think u should think again and take it slow!!!
2006-12-20 09:12:30 · answer #5 · answered by Pinky 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who decides things in your life? you or the friend?
2006-12-19 12:24:08 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you like him and he likes you and she does not have a problem then go for it
2006-12-19 12:30:41 · answer #7 · answered by loveamouse7767 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no way this guy is a ... ... u know. friend is forever but b his girl friehd sure DIE 1. im sure
2006-12-19 12:30:36 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
do it
2006-12-19 12:24:29 · answer #9 · answered by Crazy ace 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋