Family & Relationships - 19 December 2006

Okay so I know this guy and he is always staring at me but when I look at him he turns his face really fast. When I talk to him he never looks directly into my eyes or my face when im looking straight at him. And sometimes like when confronted in the middle of class he pretends he doesn't know my name and calls me that girl in the pink shirt or says the wrong name. I know he knows my name because when where in our lab groups of only 4 people he has no problem remebering my name.Why does he do that??

2006-12-19 04:38:59 · 15 answers · asked by Natasha!!!! 3 in Singles & Dating

Ladias I need advice. My husband and I have been married for 5 and half years. Just recently about the ending of June we seperated for about 3 months during the 3 months he meet a girl. I gave him another chance and got back with him. He told me some details about the relationship but one question i kept asking was where they meet. He always said at a bar but i knew in my heart that they meet at work until yesterday i got it out of him he told me the truth he did meet her at work. We've been together for about 3 months now. I am so pissed. The girl no longer works there but what should i do? What i really want to know is if we should get divorced or should i make him get another job?

The girl now moved out of state but has family in our city and still talks to girls at work. Iam just worried that when she comes down that she might go visit him at work since she would go visit the co-works. PLEASE I need advice from both females and males.

2006-12-19 04:38:59 · 35 answers · asked by love 2 in Marriage & Divorce

i moved to te Uk the same time as some of my friends from back home. theres a site where people keep in touch and put up pictures of themseleves. when i see my friends with their new friends i fell jealous because blended in easily. they go out and have loads and loads of friends but i hardly go out with friends.
i hang out with them at school - they are really nice but how do i get them to go out with me outside of school to the pictures or something? how do i stop being jealous of my old friends?

2006-12-19 04:38:58 · 3 answers · asked by Cynthia S 3 in Friends

im mad on my husband cause he shared the info i asked him not to tell to his mum. then i had unpleasant conversation with her. now i wanna break up with him cause i cant trust him anymore. he betrey me. answer me what to do???

2006-12-19 04:38:10 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I really haven't heard from a girl who I met a few weeks ago. The odd text, but nothing much was said. I've just realised that I fancy her but prob won't see her for a few weeks. Should I just text her out of the vlue? and what should I say?

2006-12-19 04:37:08 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

If you like a boy and you want to getr him alone at school? If any1 is reading this could you give me an answer quickly, because I'm going to see him soon and I don't know what to do. Please help me. I really like this boy.

2006-12-19 04:36:55 · 19 answers · asked by Daniela15 2 in Singles & Dating

He thinks he's a good liar but he stinks at it. Some he's admitted to, but the real whoppers he still denies even though I know the truth. I love him but even though he says he's changed, as far as his lies, he hasn't. Is there any hope for a future with him or should I just move on?

2006-12-19 04:36:49 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i gave some people presents yesturday (as you do) but not this girl as she is not particularily close and i could not afford one. Later she was with a friend who i gave a gift, i asked the one i gave the gift to if she liked it cos i was curious. Then later she was in form room crying and today i find out that it's cos i was excluding her? Is she bullsh!tting? or am i bitchy?

2006-12-19 04:35:52 · 9 answers · asked by Lucy Chik 3 in Friends

2006-12-19 04:35:36 · 42 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-19 04:35:31 · 34 answers · asked by Mr.X 1 in Singles & Dating

This is for a "special friend of mine". He already knows how I feel about him but we don't talk about it because we are both in relationships with other people as well. He and I are exchanging gifts this year and he says I have to write something in the card. HELP!

2006-12-19 04:33:39 · 9 answers · asked by Sassy 1 in Friends

Feeling Guitly about cheating??????
Cheating and Guilty behavior?
Boyfriend came to see me today, he not in a long time because i always go to his place. He was VERY affectionate and asked me to "just hold him a while" he then said he had to leave cause he had something to do. He got a haircut that day and was looking really nice. however when he was leaving i noticed that his clothes had become wrinkled from lying on the bed, if he was going to see a girl would he have done this???......what is going on with him, why was he so affectionate, he was then asking me if i would ever cheat on him i guess because i told him about this guy that asked me out the other day. What do you think is going on with him? I asked to see him on certain days and he is like " i will let you know that day" rather than just making plans in advance....

2006-12-19 04:33:18 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-19 04:32:53 · 25 answers · asked by Physiologist 3 in Singles & Dating

I am currently engaged to a great guy EXCEPT for one thing that has been causing me to re-think getting married. The plain truth is he's tight with his money. Christmas is just around the corner and he hasn't bought one present for either me, my mother or my son. He's currently unemployed but receiving a paycheck and is making roughly the same as I am (employed). He says Christmas is not about presents and he doesn't have the money but he doesn't buy birthday presents either (he will buy something for himself if he wants it). I've pressed the issue with him and have asked if he is going to buy presents but he keeps telling me will, eventually. I still have his parents to buy for but am unwilling to do so if he doesn't buy for my side. His tightness is not just limited to holidays and birthdays but to who drives, paying household bills, buying food, etc. Am I being too picky???

2006-12-19 04:32:43 · 17 answers · asked by paleea 1 in Marriage & Divorce

my friend copies everything i do, she buys exactly the same clothes as me and even if i say i like something she will buy it before i get the chance. its really annoying and frustrates me!! i cant tell her to stop because she will get really upset, and people keep telling me I should be flattered.. im NOT i just feel like shes trying to be me !! what can i do to stop her?

2006-12-19 04:31:33 · 35 answers · asked by Sarah..XO 3 in Friends

ok like my homeboy i was talking about well like the other day i was at his house n like he would leave my ex best friend to check on me n stuff see if i was ok n like i was a bit down that day but it didnt stop my day well like we would be outside n he would flirt with me n like you know how a homeboy would go get you a jacket if your cold well he hugged me n like would just hold me to warm me up well like he told me if i need a place i have his place if i need a car he let me borrow it if i needed money he would give it to me n like after all this time we spend with eachother it just makes me fall for him more n idont know if i should n i dont know if he likes me back but he goes to my house all the time after work n chills there till 11 or 12 then goes home n still talks to me!! do i tell him how i feel bout him?? or do i keep it a secret but i dont know how to tell him??

2006-12-19 04:31:25 · 10 answers · asked by *W3D@* 1 in Singles & Dating

I am trying to plan my son's baptism and a gathering after the service. I don't know how to cut my guest list down because my husband and i have both have so much family and friends. I don't want to hurt anyone's feelings, but we can not afford to invite everyone. Who should be invited? I know godparents and grandparents. But what about friends and family?

2006-12-19 04:31:23 · 7 answers · asked by micah z 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-12-19 04:31:21 · 28 answers · asked by JOSEPH A 2 in Family

I know this girl that is 21 going on 22 with a 2 1/2 year old son and is now dating a 16 year old boy! He is still in high school and she has her own apartment, car and works. What can a 16 yr old high school student still, living with his mother and no job. Do you think she should still stay with this little boy and keep robbing the cradle or snap back into reality?

2006-12-19 04:31:16 · 11 answers · asked by ♥Mizz.Purdy♥ 2 in Family

2006-12-19 04:30:55 · 15 answers · asked by ash 1 in Singles & Dating

What does it mean when you dream about someone that you haven't been with for 1 year? plus dreamong about someone you have never met?

2006-12-19 04:29:43 · 10 answers · asked by a2jreed 2 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend and I have religious and personal beliefs about sex before marriage so we don't do it. I am a virgin and he told he was too but lately I dont know anymore. He mentioned to me on the phone that he still needed to work on "his rythmen"? he said he was joking cause he knows that I am very jelous about other girls and was just messing with me, how do i know if he has had sex or is having it now? what would be the benifit to him if he tells me he is a virgin and knows that i am too??? how can i know if he really is seeing other girls behind my back and/or sleeping with them, and I have already asked him and he said no.

2006-12-19 04:28:57 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I like this girl but she broke off with her bf 6 months back. Though i didnt really date her out, we text each other a lot. I bought her gift and her fav food stuff whenever she has the craving. I did hint so much to her and i like her.

Recently the texting gone short. It seem she got some problems. She did told me 3 months ago she got over it and she is alright ( I did help her get over it during her sad period). I got a feeling she is unsure about love now. From her character i know she is a very devoted lover. How long should i wait before i make my move? because if i goes in too early i may suffer a rebound.

2006-12-19 04:28:39 · 17 answers · asked by Eddy W 1 in Singles & Dating

I need some help on how to deal with this situation. Over the Thanksgiving holiday, I brought my boyfriend with me to my family function. Everyone loved him, and I'm glad because we're kinda on "serious" terms. The only thing that bothered me about him was that sometimes he was a real "joke killer." I'm planning on bringing him along with me to my family function (where he'll meet the other side of my family) for Christmas, and I was just wondering what I needed to do with this situation...??? He's a real people person and he gets along with everyone he meets. I kinda want to say something to him about his "jokes" but I dont know if that's a real good idea, because I know that it would hurt his feelings... what can I do...?? Please Help!!
Maybe someone could give me some tips on how to back him up whenever he says something and gets nothing but crickets....

2006-12-19 04:28:15 · 18 answers · asked by Aimee 2 in Singles & Dating

something that is not really expensive
(this present is for my sister)

2006-12-19 04:26:38 · 16 answers · asked by staceyweller13 1 in Family

We are high school sweethearts. There is nothing really wrong with our relationship. Its a little boring, and I want us both to see whats out there. If its going okay, should we just work out the kinks, or take a break?

2006-12-19 04:26:11 · 22 answers · asked by Punky B. 1 in Singles & Dating

He feels that I dont contribute enough to our household after the fact he already made a decision on adding more credit card bills to our debt.

2006-12-19 04:23:34 · 26 answers · asked by sunshine_mackenney 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I am tired of meeting all the wrong types of men. Been set up even, and still not found "Mr. Right." All these fellows want a sexy model type--who can compete? So where are all the unmarried, nice fellows, who like kids (but not "that way") hiding at?

2006-12-19 04:23:29 · 37 answers · asked by shy skye 1 in Singles & Dating

ok so ive been dating this guy on and off for about a year. we recently have agreed to start seeing other people. well ive tried but it seems like none of the guys i meet are what im looking for and i cant be my self around them. well then i get a call from Ben(the guy ide been dating for a year) and he tells me thats hes been dating this girl but shes nothing like me. he calls me when shes not around and tells me he loves me and wants me back. he broke up wih this girl but all my friends say that hes just messin with me but when i talk to his friends....they tell me im all he talks about and he cant go anywhere with out sayin i remember when she... or stuff like that. my parents dont really like this guy but im in love with him...what should i do? stay friends with him or continue dating him?

2006-12-19 04:23:28 · 12 answers · asked by samijo 1 in Singles & Dating

The recipe calls for 2 cups....should it be the equivalent or just a little less seeing it will bond more then milk or water?

2006-12-19 04:23:25 · 8 answers · asked by Paul M 3 in Singles & Dating