Family & Relationships - 19 December 2006

I told her a while back that I want to be just friends, and I still mean it somewhat. The problem is she is flirting like crazy with me, and the more she flirts the closer we get. The closer we get the more I am starting to like or even love her! I am at the point where I want her to know that I care for her, but I do not want to just say I like you. That is tacky! How should I let her know?

2006-12-19 05:17:08 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm a girl, but I'm going to ask this from a guy's perspective to see what my guy friend should do with his gf.

My girlfriend flirts with other guys in front of me, and we don't flirt as much as we used to. We've been dating not too long. Two months? Well, I know I've kinda distanced myself from her and we haven't talked too much. She isn't meaning to flirt, she just has a TON of guy friends and is a very outgoing girl. I know she really likes me, she's just felt hurt that I haven't been talking to her as much, so she has been spending more time around them. She says she isn't flirting, it's just her personality.
I've also been avoiding her recently, I haven't let her talk about it with me, even though she wants to talk about it and work it out.

I still like her, it just annoys me that she is hanging around & being playful with those guys so much.
Should I break up with her? Or stay with her & talk it out?

We've already talked some, what should I expect her to say to me?

2006-12-19 05:16:39 · 13 answers · asked by CAlifORniABABBAYY 2 in Singles & Dating

Im in love with a guy and this is what happened plesae can you help me with your wise advice?
What does it mean if someone says they would love you if they were single?
after saying they thought you were gorgeous and thought that at the start of the ear and still do now. if they were staring you right in the eye when they said it and placed their finger on your lips when they said it and said they thought you were lovely what does this mean i kinda feel on instinct he is in love with me but he is a good loyal sometimes ones body language can say more than word it this a fair assumption he has only been dating this other girl long distance for a month. Also when i talked about n ex he got jealous and said 'what about us' im confused help me out. no abuse please i text him he has not replied my house mate says i need to see him face to face because that is completely different

2006-12-19 05:16:28 · 11 answers · asked by racheal m 1 in Singles & Dating

Well, I knew this would happen I have a girlfriend well an Awesome girl friend.. Well here's the story.

Im 34 shes 21 we just started going out been with each other a week. We get along wonderfully Already met each others parents and things so far are wonderful.

So my question is what do I get and how much is the right amount to spend on her.

I was thinking jewelry... about maybe $100-$200 dollars?

I need help please answer this.. Quick

Thanks Eric

2006-12-19 05:16:16 · 18 answers · asked by whatrweselling 1 in Singles & Dating

I just started talking to this guy, i not that into him as much as he is into me, last night we had sex, now i feel as if he is getting to serious, i dont want a relationship with him,if possible i just want to have sex every now and then. should i tell him i dont want a relationship or just make him believe its something when its not between us. guys do it to girsl all the time.

2006-12-19 05:16:05 · 2 answers · asked by TE TE 3 in Singles & Dating

I go to an eating disorder recovery support group once a week for 2 hours. Only one other person knows I struggle with an eating disorder (although others speculate) and I don't feel like it is anyone else's business. However, I have a very tight-knit group of friends who hang out all the time. Whenever they do something while I'm at my meeting, which is pretty much every week, they always ask where I am or ask my roommate where I am. They won't let up about it. I try to joke and say something like booty call, but they think something is up with me. How can I get them to respect my privacy without acting suspicious or shady about it?

2006-12-19 05:16:03 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

My son told me I need to reschedule Christmas Eve for late morning ( instead of 3:00 ) because my ex is having them at 3 and then they are going to his side at 5. I said no, we're keeping it at 3 and now I'm being chastised for it by my son. Just because it woud be more convenient for my ex, should I have to put the rest of my family out ?

2006-12-19 05:15:26 · 13 answers · asked by momof5 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

i've had a few boyfriends, and every time i think he's gonna lean in, i start talking. the problem is that i don't really know HOW to kiss! help!

2006-12-19 05:14:48 · 16 answers · asked by hope 2 in Singles & Dating

Okay so im dating someone but i still have feelings for my ex, i really like him but i've been with my boyfriend now for 10 months what do i do ignore the feelings or say something?

2006-12-19 05:13:54 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My Girlfriend and Me were having a pretty heated argument last night and when it got to intense She ran into the bathroom and locked the door, She was crying throwing a fit a still screaming at Me through the door, when I relized that She was not coming out I went into the living room and sat down, after about thirty minutes later here She comes out of the bathroom and into the living room and throws not one but two big ole steaming turds at Me, telling Me that is the closest that I will come to dinner tonight! I have had enough of this Woman!

2006-12-19 05:13:41 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok this guy i met on myspace that i would talk to all the time and he lived in colorado, but moved utah where i live. and i went to hang out with him and ya we did some stuff and now he only wants to hang out when its at his house,he dont ask to take me out to dinner or nothin, but then again he dont have a job right now. what should i do???

2006-12-19 05:13:36 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok, firstly it's not a big deal but i got really jealous. My boyfriend is staying with his mom and cousin. His cousin, Kari's best friend Beth also stays there. Well like 4 years ago maybe 3 my boyfriend and Beth hooked up. She was his first. Now they live in the same house. He don't like her like that and it was a one time thing. He has never lied to me and never given me a reason not to trust him, so I trust him but i am still jealous over her. and she's fat and ugly. But the fact of my boyfriend whom i am going to marry and live with is living there while she's there. She see's him more than I do. He says it's nothing and he loves me and i know he does, but why am i so damn jealous of her when she's got nothing on me? I know he don't care about her because he has already asked me to marry him and move in with him and we are trying to have a baby, but still why am i being like this?

2006-12-19 05:13:13 · 15 answers · asked by Fresca Jesca 2 in Singles & Dating

I dont know how

2006-12-19 05:12:05 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

In the city where I live people are very in approachable, the only exceptions I make to this rule are unless they are drunk, being employed 2 speak 2 u, on drugs, homeless ( cos they want your money).
All I know is nite clubs, pubs, are bad places 2 meet people, unless u are very socially confident.

Plus, uni students are the most unsociable group of society i know of. (UNLESS U ARE A UNI STUDENT).
u get back, what u give out.
So, what am i doing wrong ?? any ideas????

2006-12-19 05:11:53 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I think slippers are too personal..

2006-12-19 05:11:51 · 39 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I hear that if you break up with someone and you at first beg them to take you back that all it does it push them farther away. Also that once you stop doing that to them they will start seeing other things about you rather then you just annoying them and realize that they still do love you what do you think it makes sense i think if you keep demanding someone to do something they usually dont do it in any situation but if you just let it go it usually works better i really want her back

2006-12-19 05:11:40 · 8 answers · asked by Confused 1 in Singles & Dating

i like this guy that i've dated before. we got back in touch and started to "date" again. His mom and sisters tell me all the time that he talks about me non stop and that he misses me... A LOT!! I really like him and miss him too but i don't want my heartbroken again but the man i thought i was going to spend the rest of my life with. we're the same age and like the same things. He's a great guy, he's going to college to become a teacher and he has great family skills. What should i do should i take him back, or should i shun him like he did to me? I'm really confused. We went on a date last friday and we kissed. I thought i felt something but he acted like it was no big deal. Am i blowing this out of preportion or is this really what it is...? PLEASE HELP....

2006-12-19 05:11:09 · 14 answers · asked by sweet indifference 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-19 05:10:32 · 2 answers · asked by stuart r 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I'm 15, and I met this guy off of myspace. He is 20. I liked him last year on myspace. He lives in CA, and I live in Vancouver Washington (above Oregon). I let him go last year due to a guy at my school that I liked. Doing that, was one of the biggest mistakes I have ever made. He's a record labelest and him and his band (This City is Burning) is on tour. And in March they are going to be pretty close in my area. In Tacoma, Spokane and Seattle. The closest one is Tacoma. I REALLY want to go and see him for the first time. I know he's 20 and I'm 15. I still have feelings for him, and he's starting to get his back for me. I told my parents that if I go see him, they are coming. Just to be on the safe side. But for some odd reason my mom is turning around and saying no.
I understand I am young, but hey I'm only going to be a kid ONCE. Who knows, this guy that I've known for almost a year, I might spend the rest of my life with him.
IF MY PARENTS SAY NO, I'M GOING TO MEET HIM EITHER WA

2006-12-19 05:10:22 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I will be getting married in our local courthouse in February.
I just wanted to know if my last name will automaticcaly be changed after i get my marriage license?
If not, where and how do i change my last name after the wedding?
I want to have my future-husbands last name.

2006-12-19 05:09:53 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

How many times would you like to?
How many times would your other like to?

2006-12-19 05:09:02 · 48 answers · asked by Eponymous 2 in Marriage & Divorce

He sits next to me everyday and tries to kiss me. I think hes gay. SOmeone help!

2006-12-19 05:08:29 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

My girlfriend bites her nails down to nothing and then says her hurts. For the past 3 yrs I have tried to et her to stop. I tell her stop when she is doing it, i tried to get her put on fake nails but she bit those off, and she says she will not put the bitter tasting nail polish on her nails. What do I do to get her to stop, she says it is a bad habit she has had all her life, and when she gets nervous she cant help it. What do I do, what do I come up with to make her stop, I even offered to put the bitter stuff on my nails (as I tend to put my nails in my mouth but not bite them). I just dont know any ideas?

2006-12-19 05:08:26 · 9 answers · asked by NDK35 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

phone number and he hasen't call. Did I move in to fast or what? I don't know?

2006-12-19 05:08:21 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am thinking of getting an "erotic" board game as an anniversary gift for my husband, but dont know anything about them. Can you reccomend a good one, preferably with web link? Thanks ;)

2006-12-19 05:07:46 · 12 answers · asked by Delphine F 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-19 05:07:41 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I was a spoiled brat & a real bad boy, allmost a ****. I had been like this since last so many years now. A girl came into my life, changed my life completely. I loved her more then anything else in my lifetime & she use to say the same thing to me, I cud feel that looking in her eyes. Now after 1 year, she has left me for no reason. She suddenly started not talking to me, from last three mnths I was trying to find reasons & she use to fight on every possible reason but I still sticked to her coz I cud'nt imagine myself without her. NOW, I ve come to know that I am not the only one or the first one who is suffereing coz of her, she had done this with few more guys as well. I am still not able to blv that I am being ditched coz when I recollect THOSE few moments, I cant blv that was not love.She said her mom dsnt like me but she dint even tel the truth to her mom that whts going on frm last 1 yr, she just said that she likes me. What the hell was she doin, was she looking for any guy ??

2006-12-19 05:06:58 · 5 answers · asked by luckykom83 1 in Singles & Dating

i have been wondering what percentages etc.

2006-12-19 05:06:42 · 45 answers · asked by Lucy Chik 3 in Singles & Dating

There going threw a divorce as we speak. I'm happy with him we dated for a long time in high school and 10yrs later we decide to get back togethe. The pregnancy was not planned it just happend I already have a 5yr old son who's been buggin me about a sister or a brother. I just dont know what to do i'm not sure if he wants me to keep it or if I want to keep it. What should I do? I no we will be good parents. What do we do?

2006-12-19 05:06:21 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Please everyone say yes as the wife is taking the highest score..

2006-12-19 05:06:11 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships