i've had a few boyfriends, and every time i think he's gonna lean in, i start talking. the problem is that i don't really know HOW to kiss! help!
2006-12-19 05:14:48 · 16 answers · asked by hope 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Nobody really knows how to kiss before they actually experience their first kiss. There is no way to describe it. And some people that have a lot of experience kissing still don't know how to kiss well!
A kiss is something very personal and different people have different tastes when it comes to kissing. Some guys are very soft kissers and some just like to ram their tongue down your throat.
The only thing you can do is to just let it happen and go with the moment. Try not to worry about it and remember, everyone is nervous when kissing somebody for the first time even if they have done it before. Guys get just as nervous as girls.
Also, I think that girls are much more picky when it comes to kissing than guys. I've never heard a guy complain about a bad kiss. They're just happy to be making it to first base! Let it happen and just go with the flow. If his mouth stays closed, keep yours closed. If you feel his tongue on your lips, open your mouth a little to let him explore. If you feel like exploring back, then do what feels good.
2006-12-19 05:28:16 · answer #1 · answered by edawns 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No person really knows how to prior to never kissing someone and the only way to learn is to actually do it. There's really nothing to it & once you stop allowing yourself to get so nervous and actually kiss your boyfriend you'll see that there was so much hype built up over something that pretty much comes so naturally. If you're not ready though, don't do it and wait it out until you feel comfortable enough but if you are and it's just your nerves getting the best of you, stand up and face your fears and know that it will get easier for you to do after the first time. Good luck and I hope that your first kiss will be all that you expected and more :)
2006-12-19 13:20:27 · answer #2 · answered by serenity113001 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it'll happen when it happens. I know it's hard but stop putting pressure on yourself. Stop thinking about it. It's really no big deal. It will come naturally. Whatever you do don't plan it. I sort of planned my first kiss because I had never been kissed before and I felt like I was so old and the only one. So the guy kissed me but it was TERRIBLE. It's funny now but it wasn't then. He practically ate my face. Just relax and let it be in the moment. You'll know what to do when you get there.
2006-12-19 13:27:26 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I used 2 have that same problem!I guess ı used 2 concentrate alot on "kıssıng" scenes on da tv, ı also (when ı was kıssed) dıd what he was doıng ı whent wıth the flow!I thınk u should just do ıt yes,BE CALM coz ıts gonna happen and when ıt does youll be feelıng lıke a dıff. gırl Belıeve me
2006-12-19 13:21:48 · answer #4 · answered by babygırl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no one knows how to kiss before trying it!
Just try...you'll find out how it works!
Or try this page: it's a kissing guide for teens
http://www.links2love.com/teens_kissing.htm
good luck
2006-12-19 13:26:14 · answer #5 · answered by anna 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know how to whistle? Just put your lips together and blow. You know how to kiss? Just let it happen, let him move in, close your eyes, feel his lips on yours, part your lips and let his tongue penetrate your mouth and return the favor...be natural about it.
2006-12-19 13:18:46 · answer #6 · answered by Marilyn C 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just press your lips on his... I guess...
Hhahahahaha I feel stupid. I don't really know either!
2006-12-19 13:17:46 · answer #7 · answered by kagome_kayazikyo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just kiss him
2006-12-19 13:15:49 · answer #8 · answered by Joe 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just go for it and you'll get the hang of it
2006-12-19 13:19:14 · answer #9 · answered by Danny 88 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i thought i was the only one
2006-12-19 13:16:15 · answer #10 · answered by links305 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋