Family & Relationships - 19 December 2006

kissing someone that isn't suspecting one. And dosn't really know that you feel the way you do about her...well she sort of does possibly. Like on new years I just want to suprise her and kiss her, how should I do this?

2006-12-19 04:52:34 · 11 answers · asked by Kurt 3 in Singles & Dating

I'll keep this as short as possible: love my gf dearly and know she loves me but she can't always show it. asked her about it, we talked; occurs to me (w/out her going into detail b/c she just freezes) she has unresolved issues (given to her from what I can tell) that are pretty big. She knows she needs to change: I have seen her attempts; she is so strong and strong willed that she tries to do it by herslef but I now realize she can't do it alone and probably needs pro help. I want to be there for her and I try to be. I seriously know I can't do it for her, just want her to know I am willing to travel this road w/ her to the end. So what do I tell her? Anything? Lead by example? This is extra tough b/c no one I know has any practical experience to advise from.

2006-12-19 04:52:32 · 6 answers · asked by randyken 6 in Singles & Dating

What happened is that last tuesday, I was at my boyfreind's house we were talking and after that he told me to go with him and see his baby nephew at his sister's room, i told him no, not today. He was telling me a lot to go and see him and i told him "you just what me to do what u want" he got mad and told me that he wasn't asking me to do something wrong, just to see his nephew, but i think that when u say no the other preson has to respect that. Well he started telling me that day that when i have a problem he's always there and that i should be concerned for that. I want to talk to him and i miss him. I don't know what to do? to call him or wait for him to call me? i feel like he's not going to call me no more We opened an account together and also he has one of his car parked on my apartments, so that still a reason for him to call me and take his belongings, but the thing is that he doesn't call me. What i want to know from him is if he still want 2 be with me or not??

2006-12-19 04:51:48 · 18 answers · asked by adol2618 2 in Singles & Dating

Im a single mother of a beautiful 4 month old baby girl and I actually don't have time to date now but Im just curious to know how many guys out there could handle dating a woman with a baby.

2006-12-19 04:51:24 · 15 answers · asked by Kokolicious06 3 in Singles & Dating

and kissing someone, whats the deal on that. Why is kissing someone such a priority?

2006-12-19 04:50:46 · 15 answers · asked by Kurt 3 in Singles & Dating

i have nothing to do but sleep and it gets kinda boring

2006-12-19 04:49:55 · 6 answers · asked by negress07 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-19 04:48:41 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Hello friends, I'm 23, male... my story is very complex to me. I love a girl who was joining with me the same college for the last 5 years. This girl is so special to me, I really respect and adore her.
Now we are graduates and each one of us is working as an engineer in differece place.
My problem is: My shyness. I'm very shy to go to her and confess about my feelings. Our relationship during college years was not that deep. we were just normal friends, she respects me and i respect her, no more no less.
I'm afraid that she reject me, and that could affect our normal relation.
I want a good decision, just tell me to confess or not. I want girls to tell me about what they feel if someone (unexpected to be in love with her) confesses that he loves her.
B.S. She is just fininshed a bad love relationship, and she is now free.
Sorry for my long Question. but i really want to be helped by u.
Thx

2006-12-19 04:48:35 · 10 answers · asked by Mohamed A 1 in Singles & Dating

i have a friend well hes alomst more than that, but he has his boy bff right, but im friend at the same time with his bff and whats funny is that when i talk with my future bf's bff he gets kinda jealous is because he feels something for me???

guys help!! i wanna know. =)

2006-12-19 04:48:03 · 11 answers · asked by brit_avyltth 3 in Singles & Dating

Like for my birthday, I made plans to go out Saturday night (with everyone of course), but I planned it b/c I knew he wouldn't plan anything. Then Sunday we spent with my mom and brother and my mom took us out to dinner... but my real birthday was Monday. My husband didn't have to work until 10 AM and I had to work at 8 and we only have one car. So I had to get up per norm at 5:30 and take the bus to work to be there by 8. He didn't even offer to drive me and then he called in sick to work and stayed home all day. He didn't call me to see if I wanted to have lunch or anything. He didn't give me a card or get me a gift.
We have never celebrated an anniversary and he hates Christmas. Are all men like this? I just want to enjoy something and celebrate... help!

2006-12-19 04:47:58 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Hi all I ended up rd with a guy on a drunken night out had sex etc then he asked to see me again so I gave him my number as he asked but he wanted to come up to my house which I felt thats not what I expected I expected for him to take me out for a drink etc s I told him how about going for a few drinks so he did take me out and it went fine following week he asked to come up to mines again I said no as I felt he was getting to familar too quick so he asked to come up to mines again & I said I would like to go to pictures or sumthing so he said "I'l need to see what the cash flow is like but hes always got money to go out with his mates every Sat and to buy is dope so as u can imagine I feel I'm being used & want to call it off meeting him again anyone any ideas feel hes just wanting to sleep with me and hes tight with his money when it comes to women pls help as sometimes i'm too quick to judge

2006-12-19 04:47:52 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My god sons mother always comes to me when she is in any kind of financial trouble. She and I used to be roommates but we each got our own apartments almost 2 years ago. She has come to me asking for money to assist with her rent. Money to buy groceries to feed her self and my god son when she is out. Just last night she asked me to pay her cell phone bill of $57 dollars because she took the money to buy her son a nice christmas present that was on sale. I realize that she is a single mom and is trying to do the best that she can do to raise her child. I am single and I do not have any kids and I know how to save up my money for rainy day expenses. I have tried talking to her numerous times about the importance of saving up money, especially with her being a mom. She will not listen, she says that we are not promised tomorrow and money is meant to be spent. Am I obligated to assist her everytime she asks just because I have the money?? Would I be wrong if I said no once?

2006-12-19 04:47:03 · 8 answers · asked by Cheryl J 2 in Friends

Can I have a court decide if my ex-husband should pay support payments? I was given no choice but to accept a locked in rrsp withdrawing approx 6 percent a year, half the income my ex receives. We were married 32 years. Iam forced to invest this lump sum in order to maintain the principal amount, otherwise it would be depleted. I am unable to invest conservatively, but forced to be more aggressive through a financial institution. Fees and commissions must be paid to them as well. Although the government insists the military pension was a 50/50 split, the numbers do not reflect this. Where can I obtain a lawyer who charges are contingent on winning in court?

2006-12-19 04:46:20 · 2 answers · asked by leigh 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i have 5 kids all the loves of my life and i have custady of 4 the other child is with her dad,im a waitress and make min wage tips suck because its a small town not to many jobs.and my kids are happy here.so,the child that i dont have her dad is a big "big time" cop and makes a good living.and when i had her he never paid me a dime for the whole time i had her and never even helped with doctor bills.he dumped me when i was 4 months pg.after about 1 1/2 he gets married and files for custady,and WON.now i have 4 kids i support ALONE,there dad has never paid support ive tried he changes jobs and names like underwaer.after they take support for her my check is 40.00 biweekly thats 80.00+tips a month to support 4 kids is there somthing wrong with this,ive asked them to lower it they said 230.00 a month isnt alot to pay.but when it comes down to it it is alot.when ur supporting 4 more alone.what can i do about this?plz help.

2006-12-19 04:46:17 · 10 answers · asked by joannluna1974 1 in Family

I've been with this girl for 6 weeks now, things started off great, the intimacy and chemistry was there, and I was very excited. We had one bad date after she heard some news about her sister that she won't talk about (and whom I have not met) and since then she has been very distant, disinterested, and moody. The last 3 dates the kisses have been simple pecs, the hugs have been light, and the compliments and conversation scarce. I try intiating things, but she distances herself, yet when I ask to see her she still wants to see me. I am confused. I am in the middle of my grad school finals and am unsure if she is still interested or if she is planning on breaking up with me once my exams are over. She doesn't always return my calls, in fact, I am the only one calling most of the time. Our last date she was more open intimacy wise, asked if she could give me a massage. Am I worrying over nothing? Her change in behavior since the news has made me nervous, what should I do?

2006-12-19 04:45:38 · 8 answers · asked by MichiganFan 1 in Singles & Dating

Ok, so, I was talking to a friend the other day, and I caught a little sentence which made me think.

Question: why do the nice guys never have the girl?
Answer: because they're boring

I feel like a nice guy, and if boredom is death sentence, how can I work against it? Surprise my mate after we've been living together for a while? The idea would be to have her wonder all the time "what is he up to this time?".

Except I'm not very creative and have no ideas. And little money.

So, how do you keep her on her toes, surprise her, prevent her from getting bored?

2006-12-19 04:45:31 · 6 answers · asked by ruijoel 2 in Singles & Dating

getting married but have feeling for man

2006-12-19 04:45:26 · 1 answers · asked by kvndor 1 in Weddings

I have a close friend that touches me a lot and kids about me being her boyfriend and other friends of mine being competition. A few weeks ago I made a comment about some dancing girls, and she shot back a snippy comment. Also, she asked me what I thought about relationships, and she has been asking about girls I call and old girlfriends I still talk to. She also asks about how many girls are in my life. And she makes comments all the time about how everyone deserves to get married. Why do ladies do these things?

2006-12-19 04:45:23 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-19 04:44:15 · 22 answers · asked by Joe 2 in Singles & Dating

is it Advisable to do, Anal with your partner and to do doggie style?

2006-12-19 04:44:14 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

This guy I am chatting to keeps tlking about death... he is agood friend so I don't want to let him go I just want to know how to make him stop?

2006-12-19 04:44:10 · 20 answers · asked by Carol A 2 in Friends

my mother in law to be is getting on my last nerve! I really care about her I know she does it as a MOTHER, but hello its not her resposability anymore! My Fiance and I have been together for a while now, but when we are invited to a party or gathering they show up. We of course are having a good time drinking socializing and the next thing I know is ...you all better stop drinking. Telling me I should tell my fiance to stop. She keeps saying when you all get married all this is going to stop...WTF??? We don't have kids we don't have anything holding us back from PARTYING!! We are still VERY YOUNG (EARLY 20's) and want to continue to have FUN!! How do I take care of this?

2006-12-19 04:43:32 · 14 answers · asked by JAG 2 in Family

My guy friend is always emailing me things telling me he loves me but he has a girlfriend!! but i still wanna be friends!!

2006-12-19 04:42:54 · 13 answers · asked by Cherry 2 in Friends

So I was taking out this fat chick,who had money to burn,[well her mom does anyway] but no one else asked her out too often.We would go to places that were nice ,and they always had lots of good food.She just kept getting fatter and fatter.It got to the point where I had to shove her into the Prius with unprecedented force.Besides all this, I can only "hit it " from behind,which is okay I guess,it helps me to avoid her sweaty armpits.She also has more chins than a chinese phone book. Where should I go from here"?

2006-12-19 04:41:55 · 33 answers · asked by getnabargain 2 in Singles & Dating

One of my reletives had gone her friend.Her name is NARGES MAYAMEY and her friend`s name is NADIA DEHGHANPOOR(maybe POORJAVAN).She is from IRAN but she is in DENMARK now. You will make me happy if you find her.

2006-12-19 04:41:38 · 4 answers · asked by foxkoorosh 1 in Friends

2006-12-19 04:41:00 · 10 answers · asked by ? 1 in Friends

i have this guy and i like him and i dont know if he likes me i am buying him a xmas gift but i dont know if he is going o buy me one!!!! So what do you think i should do??

2006-12-19 04:40:34 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i am happily married and in love with my husband, i keep dreaming of guys i dated before of guys i never even seen befor e and it's like i dont know im married in my dream and im liking these guys, sometimes i am sad to wake up. what's wrong with me i love my hubby, it's just exciting to have a different guy in my dreams am i crazy or what???

2006-12-19 04:40:33 · 8 answers · asked by call_me_LaLa 6 in Friends

i am a quiet person - but i am willing to try and be chatty

2006-12-19 04:39:57 · 11 answers · asked by Cynthia S 3 in Friends

i need help in finding out whether this girl who i think likes me is trying to be my friend or more than that. she said hi to me 4 times in the hall when i passed her between classes and she talks to me a lot. she tries to find out more about me n she asked me for a ride home yesterday n i didnt bring my car so she was like u better bring ur car tommorow!! she is a junior n i am a senior. wat do u think...friend or more than a friend n how can i find out? should i ask her?

2006-12-19 04:39:14 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating