What happened is that last tuesday, I was at my boyfreind's house we were talking and after that he told me to go with him and see his baby nephew at his sister's room, i told him no, not today. He was telling me a lot to go and see him and i told him "you just what me to do what u want" he got mad and told me that he wasn't asking me to do something wrong, just to see his nephew, but i think that when u say no the other preson has to respect that. Well he started telling me that day that when i have a problem he's always there and that i should be concerned for that. I want to talk to him and i miss him. I don't know what to do? to call him or wait for him to call me? i feel like he's not going to call me no more We opened an account together and also he has one of his car parked on my apartments, so that still a reason for him to call me and take his belongings, but the thing is that he doesn't call me. What i want to know from him is if he still want 2 be with me or not??
2006-12-19 04:51:48 · 18 answers · asked by adol2618 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
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2006-12-19 10:37:38 · answer #1 · answered by Oliver T 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Couples have minor disagreements all the time and this sounds like just that. It doesn't seem like he's anxious to break things off or you would know that by now. So, offer a sincere apology (tell him you realize you over-reacted or something) and make amends. It's okay to call, leave a message if he doesn't answer, but don't keep bugging him if he doesn't return the call. He may need more time. Good Luck
2006-12-19 04:56:23 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am kinda going thru the same thing its like a waiting game,but you have to allow him some time to sit with his feelings ,im sure he'll come around you just gotta be patient,its hard I know cause I am also concerned about my man and if it is over for us but only time can tell.
2006-12-19 04:58:25 · answer #3 · answered by lainey 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to call him. You are still in a relationship with him because not all things are final. He should have respected your decision of no however, this is a small thing compared to what you could be dealing with.
2006-12-19 05:09:59 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well u should had been concerned about what he like to do and u should support it even if u don't want to do it . Well u should call him say your sorry and he will most likely take u back . So i hope for the better . God Bless!!!
2006-12-19 04:57:25 · answer #5 · answered by marlon G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hes acting like a boy. he should have respected the fact that u said no so he should call u but if he doesnt call in a couple of months i would call him but dont say ur sorry, u didnt do anything wrong, thats prolly what he is waiting for
2006-12-19 04:56:11 · answer #6 · answered by Kaitlyn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What was the big deal of going in a seeing a baby? You sound stubborn (for NO reason), that's a BIG turn off. Lighten up.
2006-12-19 04:56:31 · answer #7 · answered by INDRAG? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, from what you describe he is right. You are being a little selfish and it isnt just your way or the highway. There is give and take in the relationship and it sounds like you are doing all of the taking..so give a little. Be there to support him or he will look elsewhere.
2006-12-19 04:55:21 · answer #8 · answered by Marilyn C 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
He might of justed wanted you to met his nephew. He is right about being there for you.
2006-12-19 04:55:45 · answer #9 · answered by grismar d 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
and the reason you did not want to see the baby nephew was what?
2006-12-19 04:56:46 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋