I'll keep this as short as possible: love my gf dearly and know she loves me but she can't always show it. asked her about it, we talked; occurs to me (w/out her going into detail b/c she just freezes) she has unresolved issues (given to her from what I can tell) that are pretty big. She knows she needs to change: I have seen her attempts; she is so strong and strong willed that she tries to do it by herslef but I now realize she can't do it alone and probably needs pro help. I want to be there for her and I try to be. I seriously know I can't do it for her, just want her to know I am willing to travel this road w/ her to the end. So what do I tell her? Anything? Lead by example? This is extra tough b/c no one I know has any practical experience to advise from.
2006-12-19 04:52:32 · 6 answers · asked by randyken 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just do what you have been doing, be there for her whenever she needs you & tell her exactly how you said it " I am willing to travel this road you to the end" treat her good & take good care of her as if she was a precious gem. Keep her alive with your love, compassion & companionship!
2006-12-19 04:59:45 · answer #1 · answered by $D*Da*Spoild*1$ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe she doesn't really know how u feel!u said from the sounds of it shes had a tough time.Maybe she only needs 2 see u mean what u say.Maybe her whole life the men she loved broke her trust& now she can only get by .by being strong.Its always good to go by actions speak louder than words.in her case maybe she just needs your support,becuz you r the 1 she has set her goals on.Lead by example would b to be with her.....Support her Dont tell her she needs pro help Thats giving up on her...
2006-12-19 05:12:09 · answer #2 · answered by lilly l 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you love her then go with it son it will be for the best unless your young to be honest cause there is goin to be a stage around 19 20 that they are gonna change out of nowhere and want to experience things like bars ant etc so be careful
2006-12-19 04:56:01 · answer #3 · answered by Confused 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her you love her and will be their for her no matter what. only try to get her help if she wants it tho. ive had trust issues and i am really happy that my bf stuck by me.he basically told me what i had said first and that really meant alot to me i hope this helps...good luck..love is grand!
2006-12-19 04:56:37 · answer #4 · answered by impala400sb 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Point her in the directon of a therapist and see what happens.
2006-12-19 04:58:24 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her "its not you, its me" or " i love you i am just not in love with you" and move on, chick sounds like a whack job.
2006-12-19 04:55:56 · answer #6 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋