Hello friends, I'm 23, male... my story is very complex to me. I love a girl who was joining with me the same college for the last 5 years. This girl is so special to me, I really respect and adore her.
Now we are graduates and each one of us is working as an engineer in differece place.
My problem is: My shyness. I'm very shy to go to her and confess about my feelings. Our relationship during college years was not that deep. we were just normal friends, she respects me and i respect her, no more no less.
I'm afraid that she reject me, and that could affect our normal relation.
I want a good decision, just tell me to confess or not. I want girls to tell me about what they feel if someone (unexpected to be in love with her) confesses that he loves her.
B.S. She is just fininshed a bad love relationship, and she is now free.
Sorry for my long Question. but i really want to be helped by u.
Thx
2006-12-19 04:48:35 · 10 answers · asked by Mohamed A 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think it all depends on if she likes you really. I mean if one of my guy friends came up to me and told me he loved me it would probably scare, just because I wasn't expecting it. But she may love you back. It's a risk and you need to decide if you're willing to take that risk. If your friendship is strong enough you should be able to make it even if she doesn't feel the same way. I would tell you to confess, but being shy myself I know that's easier said than done. But being a girl I would recommend waiting a while because yousaid she just got out of a bad relationship. I wouldn't want you to end up being the rebound guy, so I'd give her time to get over it first and then tell her how you feel.
2006-12-19 04:58:28 · answer #1 · answered by angelicasongs 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My friend, talk to her. Confess. I had the same problem 25 years ago. I decided to confess, I talked to her. Well, it's a real hardship, I know it. But now, we have a story together, after these two decades and a half marriage, two beautiful daughters and a very good relationship. Could it be another way? Sure, it could. But I'm sure I did the best thing I could when I talked to her. Go ahead, man! Come what may, it's the only thing that will bring peace to you... and maybe more!
P.S.: Forgive my English. I'm a Brazilian, writing from Brazil and my English is not very good!
2006-12-19 05:07:55 · answer #2 · answered by Mr. Tumnus 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm a girl. In any which way, I want to know who likes me,loves me,lusts after me. Then I will decide how I will deal with the guy according to how i feel towards his personality. Take the risk. Don't be shy. Maybe she has feelings for you too but is waiting for you to make the first move. Good luck. Please vote for my answer !!!!
2006-12-19 04:54:59 · answer #3 · answered by mareko 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Confess. If you're afraid to say the right things then write a letter or a poem. Then talk to her to confirm she understood your letter. Good luck.
2006-12-19 04:56:16 · answer #4 · answered by Ace Meridian 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will never get anywhere in life if you are afraid of rejection. You landed a good job, didn't you? Were you afraid that company would 'reject' you at the time? Go get her, and no excuses!
2006-12-19 04:53:33 · answer #5 · answered by INDRAG? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your questions not that long. I think you should tell her, but only if you like her enough to risk your friendship. If you aren't ready try to develop a stronger realationship and tell her later. But don't wait to long because you may miss your chance.
2006-12-19 04:53:24 · answer #6 · answered by Natasha!!!! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok just be there for her until she gets over this realationship.
Just sit down with her and ask her
Do you see us being more then friends?
and just tell her htat you love her or whatever,
do it before hse moves on,
and honelstly if she does reject you then it will affect your relationship for A LITTLE WHILE..
but you have to tell her before its to late
2006-12-19 04:54:29 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is easy to solve.
You have two option: tell her about your feelings or keep asking the same question until the end of days.
It is your choice. You have nothing to lose and everything to win. :)
Good luck!
2006-12-19 04:52:42 · answer #8 · answered by Marcos Canada 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
too long . but i will say confess plz/
2006-12-19 04:50:00 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
CONFESS!
2006-12-19 04:52:56 · answer #10 · answered by R.J 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋