2006-12-19 05:07:41 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Give them MONEY!
2006-12-19 05:10:00 · answer #1 · answered by lee911 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its not your right to change anyones life. People get married and women think they can change their man. A story is told of a bride who reaches the church. SHe is led into the building and the first thing she sees is the aisle (I'll) the next thing she sees is the altar (alter) then she sees the groom (him). (I'll alter him!) Big mistake. Time and experiences change people but people have no right to try moulding others into what they think the person should be! You accept the partner warts and all just as the partner accepts you warts and all. Otherwise leave well alone.
Trust me this is so true.
If however a person has a bad habit and needs counselling I would encourage that but to change someone, thats not your department. That is God's department! Hands Off! God made each of us to be just what we are. You are not meant to change what he created but you will go through the refiners fire so that you can be purified. Then its you and the refiner not you and your partner! Think very carefully about the choices you make.
2006-12-19 13:20:30 · answer #2 · answered by uniquechild 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are so many ways in which you can change someone's life. My advice is simply to be kind to people. Even smiling at a harried check-out operator can lift their spirits and help them through the day (i.e. they don't wind up saying something horrid to some customer/co-worker/friend/relative, and hence, avoid a horrid argument that may cost them their job/frienship/etc.). As they say, a butterfly flapping its wings 1000 miles away can have far reaching effects. Good question, by the way. Hope I've helped.
2006-12-19 13:12:56 · answer #3 · answered by The Mad Shillelagh 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You cannot change someones life unless they are willing to make the change. You can make suggestions and be there to assist. People must accept people as they are. Would you like someone to change you?
2006-12-19 13:11:35 · answer #4 · answered by Feline05 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think the best thing that you can do to change any ones life is to show that you are there for them to support them not necessarily what they do but them as a person. That will motivate them to be a better person in general.
2006-12-19 13:13:59 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
WOW. Loaded question. OK, here is what I thought of:
1. Kidnap them and sell them into slavery
2. Sell their body parts on the black market
3. Get pregnant with their kid
4. Set them up in a bad car accident (death or permanent injury)
5. Win the lotto and give them the winnings
6. Ship them off to another Country across the ocean with no money
7. Take away everything they ever had so they are forced to rely on you
8. Kill his family
9. Kill his 'true love'
10. Kill his kid
2006-12-19 13:24:54 · answer #6 · answered by FruitLoop 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be the example! Love and give of yourself unselfishly. Watch the movie "Pay It Forward". It's an older movie.
2006-12-19 13:20:11 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Offer them suggestions and support them people tend to do things that people allow rahter then demand to do think about its true right support
2006-12-19 13:14:55 · answer #8 · answered by Confused 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Show them yours changed... for the better.
2006-12-19 13:10:40 · answer #9 · answered by mareko 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can do whatever you like but they won't change unless they are ready to.
2006-12-19 13:11:57 · answer #10 · answered by Sunflower 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it depends on the situation really if its some one you are courting then show them how much you love them by simply just telling them so
2006-12-19 13:10:01 · answer #11 · answered by pink_n_purfect1 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋