This is for a "special friend of mine". He already knows how I feel about him but we don't talk about it because we are both in relationships with other people as well. He and I are exchanging gifts this year and he says I have to write something in the card. HELP!
2006-12-19 04:33:39 · 9 answers · asked by Sassy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
You have to thank him for being such a good and loyal friend. Wish him happiness for the holidays.
You can't mention your feelings. If you both are in relationships, and you have feelings for one another, then what the heck are you doing with other people.
You have to decide if you are unhappy, then get out of your relationship.
You can't dream and fantasize about a relationship with someone who is committed to another person.
i know you Love him, but he isn't available.. You would be cheapening your friendship if you acted on impulse.
you would destroy your own self respect and you would regret it.
Take a cold shower and be real.. either love the one you are with or get out of it.
Don't make your decisions on what he is doing with his life. Be smart and act like a responsible mature person ....Don't play games, someone is going to get burned.....
2006-12-19 04:44:01 · answer #1 · answered by doclakewrite 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Send him a Friendship card and tell him thanks for being a friend!
Either that or get out of your relationship as this sounds like it is leading to somewhere you don't want to go!
Trust in a relationship is the one thing that often you can never get back. Lose it, and you have lost your relationship! If you set your boundaries, your friend will respect them and you more than if you did not! If the day comes when you aren't in a relationship things may change. You have to remember that there are 2 other people involved in this that have no say, and everyone could end up being hurt!
Be friends!
2006-12-19 12:43:36 · answer #2 · answered by cantcu 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
remain the way you have because if you write something too suspecting in a card that could get you caught up in the event he misplaced this card and his partner found it. keep things on the down low till you two figure out what it is you want to do.
2006-12-19 12:45:56 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you like him what are you doing with some one else. How would you like it if the person you were with felt this way. In the card just say marry x-mass. If you need a friend I am here.
2006-12-19 12:36:54 · answer #4 · answered by karli 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
write your true feeling if you want him to know or else write like your his friends but for more advise go slow on him and if you want to leave your boyfriend then tell him the truth. and remember im always here to help dont worry n gudluk
2006-12-19 12:36:15 · answer #5 · answered by Gudluk! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How about:
"Its been fun, but I think I will try honoring my marriage vows this year"
Cheaters are the lowest! Grow up!
2006-12-19 12:38:41 · answer #6 · answered by Bev 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
to a special friend, signed xoxoxo
2006-12-19 12:48:21 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him that he is the best friend you haven't never had ,he is very important to you and if you can once upon time would be bfs tell that you want him to be your best friend
2006-12-19 12:47:15 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whatever you want to tell him!!
2006-12-19 12:36:18 · answer #9 · answered by ballman4425 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋