ok so ive been dating this guy on and off for about a year. we recently have agreed to start seeing other people. well ive tried but it seems like none of the guys i meet are what im looking for and i cant be my self around them. well then i get a call from Ben(the guy ide been dating for a year) and he tells me thats hes been dating this girl but shes nothing like me. he calls me when shes not around and tells me he loves me and wants me back. he broke up wih this girl but all my friends say that hes just messin with me but when i talk to his friends....they tell me im all he talks about and he cant go anywhere with out sayin i remember when she... or stuff like that. my parents dont really like this guy but im in love with him...what should i do? stay friends with him or continue dating him?
2006-12-19 04:23:28 · 12 answers · asked by samijo 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sounds to me like its time to get a little more serious with him. Keep dating him, but start talking about making more of a commitment with him. I think you both know what you each want now. Its time to take it another step..... Good Luck.
2006-12-19 04:31:23 · answer #1 · answered by Speedbuggy43 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have been dating on and off it means that something is wrong. If your parents dislike your friend there must be a reason. My only advice is take a good look and your relationship do not deny his flaws because you like him then make your decision based on facts and not the opinions of others.
2006-12-19 12:34:31 · answer #2 · answered by Ans 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't let others be the judge of your life. if you love this guy and you know in your heart you want to be with him then go for it. after that the pieces will all start to come together. life short live it to the fullest. if you set around looking for the perfect guy you may lose out and not realizes he's right in front of you and that would be a life wasted
2006-12-19 12:30:24 · answer #3 · answered by megan b 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well sounds to me like you are in head over heals for this guy friends or parents shouldn't seperate you and the one you truly love love is the best feeling that anyone can ever experience and i knw this from experience and if your friends tell you things that are bad just ask him find out from him if it is true but no matter what love over powers all and always will if yourlove is true then go for it and hav fun love is not great with out fun
Good luck
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2006-12-19 12:29:57 · answer #4 · answered by lizzie_08 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why did you two agree to start dating other people? You sound perfect for each other. Now that you tried it, and neither of you are happy, get back together....you're just wasting time away from each other.
2006-12-19 12:28:03 · answer #5 · answered by INDRAG? 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Try to keep dating him. But personally from my experience it never works out after the first time you break up with them like that. Good Luck!
2006-12-19 12:29:20 · answer #6 · answered by Odes 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you love him, what is the harm in trying to get back together? The worst thing that can happen is it does not work out. Good luck.
2006-12-19 12:27:39 · answer #7 · answered by Free Girl Now 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Seems like your mutual decision to see other people showed you that you actually want each other. Get back together! It seems like all you two ever think about is each other.
2006-12-19 12:28:35 · answer #8 · answered by Enceladus 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Go for what you want and need. You can't let other people tell you who to pick for a mate in your life. What do you mean when you say you love him? Are you emotionally addicted to him? Is he what and/or who you want in your life?
2006-12-19 12:31:33 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like you too love each other. i say give it another shot. take it slow though
2006-12-19 12:28:48 · answer #10 · answered by renosgirl2006 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋