Family & Relationships - 19 December 2006

Well I like this guy in one of my classes, and well we have been friends for a long time. But I always liked him more than a friend. And well he likes one of my friends my I know she's not the one so how can I tell him, without losing our friendship.

2006-12-19 03:58:40 · 2 answers · asked by shenequa t 1 in Singles & Dating

my ex bf wished me a happy birthday and also said that part that i quoted above, but i dont understand what it means. the full message he sent me was "Happy birthday. hopefully you get everything you've asked for on your birthday and more than your innocence could anticipate"

2006-12-19 03:58:40 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-19 03:58:03 · 13 answers · asked by halima 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-19 03:57:05 · 2 answers · asked by newyorkgirl_92 3 in Friends

He's 46 and I'm 16, and I know i sound niave but he isn't a pervert.
His children are older than me, but he has ones younger than me as well.
I am in love with him, i really am, its not just a stupid crush.
It isn't statutory rape its legal at my age in this country.
I want to go public with him but he can't because he has children but i love him so much and its killing me, i only see him once a week and thats if i'm lucky.
he dated my mam about 3 and a half years ago and we always got on very well.
i dont know what to do, please somebody help me.

2006-12-19 03:54:30 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-19 03:54:24 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

when i didn't talk to them they say i ignore them??they say i proud...

2006-12-19 03:53:45 · 1 answers · asked by LotsaQs 1 in Friends

He is sweet, kind, funny , loving ,he loves kids ,I don't know if he is the one , he dose in a way treat his mother nicely ,but then he complains about her all the time , I am starting to get close ,but I am scared to , I do not know how he will treat me in the fruture , what should I look for in him , I have a experience ,with my mother ,my father did every thing nice to my mom when they first were dating then after they where married he started to treat my mother meanly ,I don't want that to happen , so how can I tell If he will treat me the same way , (my friend told me it's a fact that men will be 100 times nicer to me , to try to get me to be there girl , but after they got you, they don't care any more , can someone help me ? They might be nice now ,but how can I tell now that they will act meanly in the fruture ?

2006-12-19 03:53:45 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have been engaged for 2 and the half years with a military guy, and we have been going through a lot changes in the last few months like argugements and name calling, I told him that it is over for good and he said fine as long as I am happy that's all that matter. I am wondering is all of this happing because he cheating or just want the relationship to be over or what, what should I do in this case.

2006-12-19 03:53:31 · 15 answers · asked by wenwen 2 in Singles & Dating

I have a great job, going back to school to complete my masters, Im healthy, good looking 24 year old, with a great band, income, car, apartment, but I can't seem to hold on to one girl. I've been promiscuous and when i finally gave that up for 1 girl, i screw it up, and i lie about certain things so i wont get in trouble, and i just want to finally stop being such an immature prick and be in a stable healthy relationship. What can i do? where can i find this? Does it take time to realize what to do? Im a one woman guy and i prefer to have a girlfriend than to hook up cause hooking up leads to disaster. I miss my ex terribly and im still trying to get her back after dating her for one month, but im slowly realizing there are probably better girls out there for me to date, but I miss her companionship and im afraid I wont find another 'her'....i write songs to keep me motivated and busy, but it only brings back pain of not having anyone,i know it takes time, but i don't know what to do

2006-12-19 03:52:22 · 16 answers · asked by chrisj7682 2 in Singles & Dating

My father recently died and his "wife" of just the last 7 months is totally screwing my brother and I out of his Trust...she told us once that she took all of her mothers money out of the bank so the money wouldn't be spent on care. This way Medicade would pay for it and she could keep the money. I figure I could get her back this way for taking my fathers money...

2006-12-19 03:52:13 · 5 answers · asked by redbull49203 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

My family! :)

Merry Christmas!!!!!!!!!!!!!

2006-12-19 03:51:52 · 24 answers · asked by ? 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

With all the dating sites online and activities that people attend and use, how is it that so many of us can not get one person to date us?
Are the dating sites actually sites that deter people that really want to date, only bring out the loonies and the losers in their minds?

Is there a better way to get a date?

2006-12-19 03:51:03 · 13 answers · asked by Havnoclue 2 in Singles & Dating

Well, I am a latina girl and was raised in Venezuela, South America, and over there sometimes when u go out with a girl and hold hands with her, you are already boyfriends, no need for the question to be asked, but I am at United States now and I've been going out with this man for about 2 months, and we make out, we hold hands. But he hasn't asked me.
I know over here is different, but i'm not sure If I should consider him my boyfriend or not yet.
WE ARE NOT HAVING S.EX!!

2006-12-19 03:50:34 · 13 answers · asked by Latina Hottie! W.Chocolate 2 in Singles & Dating

How do you feel about public affection?...For those that dont know what this means...its those kissing, fondling, and showing affection in public towards one another...are you okay or nay about this...I had one guy I wanted to hold his hand and he pulled away he said he didnt agree with it (public affection)..what do you think?

2006-12-19 03:50:05 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I know a few men who sit down on the toilet.

Does yours?

Are they weird?

Your opinions please.

2006-12-19 03:50:02 · 7 answers · asked by Jen (G cup UK) 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I think they should. I think the test for citizenship should only be given in English. Look at southern Florida and southern California. If you go to many places in these areas you have to speak Spanish to function. These immigrants show no respect to the customs and history of those of us in the USA. If people of their country had done the work and made the sacrifices to make their country better in the past like Americans have then their country’s would not be such s**t holes. They now want to come here but want to keep their culture. Well, that culture has lead to their countries being such poverty and crime ridden places that they need to move. They should at least have enough respect for a superior people and culture to try to fit into our ways.

2006-12-19 03:49:37 · 21 answers · asked by Brian 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

besided the basic depression, i need specific problems.

2006-12-19 03:48:43 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I really dont want ot ask him out either is there any other way?

2006-12-19 03:48:05 · 14 answers · asked by bubbles101 2 in Singles & Dating

The options are Looks or Money.

2006-12-19 03:47:39 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My fiancee's children were moved to another area thats why he hasnt been in contact with thme ......pays his child support every month ....... he has tried to contact them but with no reply.....Is it ok for me to try?

2006-12-19 03:46:34 · 2 answers · asked by l4dy_0f_yah3ll 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-12-19 03:45:29 · 12 answers · asked by ? 6 in Friends

Can someone plz help me out! My husband and I have been married for only a yr and a half and i can already see the end coming..He never pays attention to me i'm just his maid/cook/nanny. I never really see him, he's always gone and when he's home he's always distant to me and our 14 month old son. When we do talk it always turns into an arguement. I love him and want it to work out but I can't save our marriage by myself. I am so unhappy and it's bringing me down. Anyone have any suggestions besides leave him?

2006-12-19 03:45:04 · 24 answers · asked by didomyte 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I am getting married for the second time, my fiancee the first. Who typically pays for the 2nd wedding? It is customary to have a wedding shower?

2006-12-19 03:44:40 · 15 answers · asked by triathlon1979 2 in Weddings

im asking becuase i am trying to be friends with an ex, and he is now in a great relationship, and I believe him to. His new girlfriend is hott, she's 18 yrs old, she seems like a cool person. She's practically moved in with him, he talks about her all the time, says he loves her & she's amazing...and obviously it's a good relationship becuase he has no interest in being with me again. But my question is, why does he still want to have sex with me? We've been broken up for over a year and have hooked up probably 30 times. The sex is amazing, we've both agreed that it's the best we've ever had. I live in Florida and he's in Michigan, so i dont see him or talk to him anymore, but whenever i come to visit he practically rapes me. If he is in a completely fufilling relationship with a hott chick that he loves and the sex is SOOO good with her, why does he keep coming back to me. I hate asking stupid questions like this but i just dont understand...what is going on in his head???

2006-12-19 03:43:37 · 40 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I was riding the bart home yesterday, and of course I was just looking around at everything in general, nothing particular. This disgusting old woman put's her whole index finger in her nose and starts digging. I wanted to throw up yuck!

2006-12-19 03:43:31 · 14 answers · asked by tysexy25 2 in Singles & Dating

Me and my in laws have several issues and differences. Last night I was wondering if I should swallow my pride and spend a couple of hours on christmas over there for my husband. Inside I really dont want to and really scared of them ruining my christmas. Should i go?

2006-12-19 03:43:02 · 10 answers · asked by ivonne 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

My boyfriend keeps text messages me to go shopping and buy him something for christmas.. i'm only 16! i won't get a job until i'm 17.. is he being jerk or he just a spoiled guy? please help me. thanks to all of you.

2006-12-19 03:42:21 · 34 answers · asked by Smiley 1 in Singles & Dating

7 years & 2 kids later I am seeing how unhealthy this realationship has turned. So many reasons to leave only a few reasons to stay. He turns me into the bad guy constantly, tells me I can't stick to a decision including our marriage. And then there I am concerning myself with why he feels that way. I am always thinking of him & can never get him to listen or care about how I feel, and if he pretends to listen or care he won't act on it, or even remember some time later. I'm still stuck with the guilt he makes me feel though, tells me how selfish I'm being. My 4 yr old little girl is so excited about santa & christmas. & I am so sad because I want a better life for them, I want a husband that wants to do things with them & enjoys the time. Instead he is unhappy & grumpy & doesn't even seem to want them around him. We are sleeping in our livingroom for almost 2 years now because that's how long he's been working on building us a bedroom. My house is filled with holes, spiders

2006-12-19 03:41:49 · 20 answers · asked by North of Heaven 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-19 03:41:26 · 17 answers · asked by Special Lady!!! 1 in Singles & Dating