I was with this Jimmy since Jan'05 until this Oct. He started to treat me badly starting from May'06 so i left him in Oct. That time i caught him smoking secretly & even ask me to leave his house cos he rather smoke than be with me so i left him. Now He keep pestering me to be with him again. I'm confused & lost.
Should i forgive & be with him again? But after the break up, i also dunno if i still like him or not? Headache...
2006-12-19 04:18:30 · 55 answers · asked by Jing 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
forget about him to be with someone you should be worry free
2006-12-19 04:29:45 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You made the choice to leave him because he was treating you badly and you decided that you were not going to take it anymore so you left, and you have caught him doing something he knows he should have not been doing and knows it but ultimately he won't admit. It seems that if he really cared anything about you he would have not treated you he would have not done that in the first place. It is not anyones place to really tell you to forgive it is for you to do, you have to figure out if you want to go back with him and make it work. If you don't just tell him and move on with your life. you know what you want and you know what will work for you and what won't.
2006-12-19 04:28:40 · answer #2 · answered by gordonflames242003 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To break up for a trivial reason - smoking looks funny. How many evil element can you discover from a person? Many are camouflaged. They do not surface until at a later time. Many a time it takes a cover call LOVE to conceal them. You have to broaden your outlook and be a little matured. Real love cannot call it a day because shortcomings are always bound to be there. Are you hopeful of finding a better guy? It would be better for you to patch this relationship. Sow love and you will reap love.
2006-12-19 04:27:25 · answer #3 · answered by hanger23 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're not sure, then you don't really like him. Stay away from him and tell him you've moved on. He obviously doesn't really like you either if he'd rather smoke than have you with him. I mean what a jerk. Do you want to be with someone like that? I think you still care about him as a friend, but you dont' love him.
2006-12-19 04:22:13 · answer #4 · answered by lilmama 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Since you said you are not sure if you like him or not I would take that as a sign of not getting back together with him because your already healing. You already know what his character is like so why take the risk of going through the emotional hurt he put you through again? Don't waste any more time with him. Find someone who will treat you what you are worth.
2006-12-19 04:30:11 · answer #5 · answered by daydreamer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't want to be caught up in those dynamics. What is there to be confused about? You had it right the first time! Being confused is a malady everyone has but you still have to make decisions and the one you made seems to be a good one!
2006-12-19 04:23:12 · answer #6 · answered by cantcu 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DITCH HIM. No one deserves a boy like that. Find a boy who will treat you with the respect you deserve. I don't think that guy will change again, if you get back with him you will just have the same problem again. So if I were you I would move on, and fast.
2006-12-19 04:22:04 · answer #7 · answered by Sally 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I suggest you continue on the new journey you've started and not lose ground. You've probably learned by now that you are going to be okay on your own. Why revisit bad relationships from the past? Good Luck
2006-12-19 04:20:19 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you hvae doubts about liking him, so would you want to. HE should have chosen you over a cigartte. Becasue I know for one you smell better. and I would rather put my hands on you than a cigartte. HE is a loser so kick him to the curb. Because how do you know he don't do it again. HE had his chance and blew it. But it's up to you though.
2006-12-19 04:23:17 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No way!!! That's ridiculous to choose cigarettes over a person. This guy doesn't have life's priorities in the correct order. You'll find someone else.
2006-12-19 04:20:44 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
forgive hI'm but set guide lines BEFORE the forgiving see whats going on and then let him smoke but not near you that way you r with him and he still has a crutch if he has a bad day let im smoke smoking calms addicted smokers down try see if it works it worked for me
2006-12-19 04:24:46 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋