i find it hard to trust someone when in a relationship.i always blow it because i have a hard time trusting.
2006-12-19 04:14:48 · 10 answers · asked by be_nice_to_me_1970 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
People usually have a hard time trusting someone because they were hurt before. You need to look at each person as a new situation and realize that the old person has nothing to do with the new one.
2006-12-19 04:17:49 · answer #1 · answered by Karma 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's kind of hard trusting someone if you've been dogged out so to speak in other relationships but sooner of later your gonna have to learn to trust someone because that can drive a person away from you pretty quickly. So honey it's a choice and your gonna have to make the choice to trust someone and move on with your life. Every man isn't gonna be the same and sometimes we make the mistake on assuming he's gonna be like the a**hole from before. But take a chance you could be missing out on your true love if you don't give someone a chance to show you that you can trust them. Good Luck!
2006-12-19 12:24:02 · answer #2 · answered by 2sweet4u 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, I think all that comes from past bad experiences. I've had people I thought I could trust lie to me and try and hide it. I think once you get hurt a few times you become more wary of it and you try to prevent it because you expect someone to lie. I think the only way to overcome something like this is to just get to know a person better. I try and stick with the friends approach, because getting to know my real friends has made realize the kind of people I can trust. I think you just have to find that person that you trust no matter what and you can't really explain it, it's just a feeling that you can trust this person.
2006-12-19 12:30:38 · answer #3 · answered by angelicasongs 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you probably had past relationships that made you start to not trust others. put these other rlelationships and the mistrust in the past where they belong. have some confidence in yrself and start a new relationship with an open mind and trust until they give you something to not trust them. read tips on love and relationships to help you more on this site
2006-12-19 12:18:05 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im the same way as you. I just think it's the continual getting burned by someone you care for. So in your mind you choose to not trust so you don't get hurt in the long run.
2006-12-19 12:16:47 · answer #5 · answered by KemPer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I HAVE BEEN HURT REALLY BAD BY MY EX-HUSBAND SO IT IS REALLY HARD FOR ME TO TRUST ANOTHER GUY. I AM CURRENTLY WORKING WITH MY COUNSELOR TO GET OVER MY MISTRUST IN MEN.
IT IS SO VERY DIFFICULT TO TRUST ANOTHER GUY IT'S UNBELIEVEABLE. BUT I KEEP ON WORKING AT IT & SOME DAY I HOPE TO MEET A VERY NICE & KIND GUY.
MY COUNSELOR HAS TRUST IN ME & MY KIDS WANT ME TO DATE SO BADLY SO I AM WORKING VERY HARD AT IT.
BEST OF LUCK TO YOU BECAUSE TRUST IS ONE THING THAT I VERY DIFFICULT TO GET OVER.
2006-12-19 12:20:09 · answer #6 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hear ya loud and clear!! I feel the same way. Maybe, you've been burned just as badly as I have!! :-(
2006-12-19 12:17:39 · answer #7 · answered by Md_gal 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did adults lie to you when you were a child? (Specially the opposite sex parent)
2006-12-19 12:17:31 · answer #8 · answered by morganna_f 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats your gut instinct. follow it always.....
2006-12-19 12:17:07 · answer #9 · answered by renosgirl2006 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its ok me to
2006-12-19 12:16:21 · answer #10 · answered by Xtina12 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋