My best friend's younger stepbrother is my dream. To me, he walks on water and can't possibly sink. I'm stuck in Limbo. We both are in a bad relationship (actually, I am just out of one), and I don't get to see him that often. Is there any way I could turn the tables in my favor, and not scare him away? (men seem to find me intimidating)
2006-12-19 04:17:51 · 9 answers · asked by Nadia 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Simply continue to talk with him, laugh with him, and enjoy being around him....he will soon see that wonderful personality of yours!
2006-12-19 04:20:21 · answer #1 · answered by jeepguy_2x 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are just out of a bad relationship why not take some time to heal and get yourself square on the ground before jumping into another situation that you seem to want to control. Stop trying to control or manipulate things and you'll be alot happier
2006-12-19 04:22:39 · answer #2 · answered by idiot 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you mean boys find you intimidating because a man like me like women who can handle their selfs. ANd I an one of them. to start when you see him next just tell him how you feel and if he feels the same about you he will get out of that relationship to be with you, but if he's a boy and does what the girl tells him well move on. What to chat with a real man IM me anytime I will answer all your questions.
2006-12-19 04:26:32 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if he's in a relationship (bad or good), he's not available to you, and that's a mess you don't need or want. If you know him well enough, just be blunt. Tell him that you're sorry to see he's in a dead-end relationship, and you feel so carefree now that you're out of yours. Tell him that if and when he's ever available to get into a good relationship, you are available and interested.
He'll either move on that real quickly ... or he isn't interested in you.
2006-12-19 04:21:58 · answer #4 · answered by Rvn 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh please no man is that perfect stop kidding yourself. If he likes you there will be a connection. Just be cool let him make the first move don't expect too much either. Don't ever put men on such high pedestals, they tend to disappoint, always let them earn points don't perceive them to be a full 10.
2006-12-19 04:26:43 · answer #5 · answered by Ans 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Spend time with him, show intrest, but dont be needy Its a complete turn off!
2006-12-19 04:23:52 · answer #6 · answered by ♥JENN♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go to your friends house to 'see her' and have him go to a private location that no one can hear you talking and tell him what you feel, maybe he feels the same way about you?
2006-12-19 04:24:07 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
try backin off a little?
2006-12-19 04:21:06 · answer #8 · answered by wrfab 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im confused......: (
2006-12-19 04:24:39 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋