Family & Relationships - 18 December 2006

Are all men potential rapist? (is it a case of have dyck will rape?)

I hear that the suspect was a special constable and also worked as a taxi driver!!! Who can we trust now girls? If men in positions of responsiblity can rape and murder us - what can be done?

2006-12-18 06:21:16 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I still love my husband, he is a good provider and father but my pride won't let me take him back. He has said that he is sorry and wants to go to counseling but I feel that he humiliated me (and himself) and therefore it is done. Is this cutting off my nose, etc., etc.? Pride goeth before a fall, etc., etc.

2006-12-18 06:20:35 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I was going out with my girlfriend for about 10 months. I was at college during the school year, but came home at least once every two weeks. Everything was good until out of nowhere, she tells me not to get mad at her if she starts acting differently. Her grandmother had just passed away, so I thought that was the reason, and I didn't think much of it. One time when I came home to see her, she was definately acting differently. She didn't want to sit right next to me, hold my hand, or anything like that. I just figured she might just need some space, so I didn't think much of it. Then when I came home for the summer, she basically avoided me. She would only call unless she was busy. It's like she was calling just to say she called...I hope that makes sense. Finally, I kept bugging her and eventually she tells me she just doesn't want to have boyfriend. All of this started after I loaned her a lot of money for a car. Do girls justs suddenly not want to have boyfriends? Is that normal?

2006-12-18 06:20:24 · 10 answers · asked by Matt 3 in Singles & Dating

My wife and I made the mistake about talking to other people regarding our relationship. We just needed support but we turned and bitched to family. Never really understood the damage it did. I don’t talk to people anymore about our relationship (even though she doesn’t trust I don’t). However I know she still talks to her family about us but she won’t admit it but every time we fight she’s always on the phone to them. How do I make her realize the damage it does and tell her to knock it off without sounding like I don’t want her to communicate with her family? Why won’t she stop doing that? It’s like she’s too attached to them and it almost feels like she’s having an emotional affair with her family. I don’t want to take the hard road and tell her that if she’s doing it, I’m going to start using other people for support. That wouldn’t be right. It’s interesting to note that her family was nothing to her now it seems I'm nothing and they're great. what the f^%*?

2006-12-18 06:19:17 · 5 answers · asked by survivor 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Everyone is always saying how amazing and beautiful my hair is. It's very thick, curly, brown with highlights. They also tell me how much they love it straight. One professional hair stylist reccomended I hair model. I mean, I'm 13, so I dunno if they want people my age, but do you think I should do it? http://gerardarthurway.myphotoalbum.com

Those are some pictures. The curly ones aren't very good, but I don't really appreciate my curly hair as much as straight hair, so, whatever. And I really don't mean to sound concieted, I'm just really enthusiastic! P.S.-Am I pretty enough to hair model?

2006-12-18 06:18:59 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have a bet going with my brother, he thinks people have aim and that it is better than msn im. I have msn. so which one do u prefer and which one do u have?

2006-12-18 06:18:25 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I would like to hear from those who actually experienced adultery in a marriage, whether you stayed together or not. Or maybe it happend with your parents or neighbors. Thanks.

2006-12-18 06:18:21 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

this guy has been in contact with me for over a year. even when i was in my past serious relationship.

we have only kissed eachother.

he always texts me when hes out in town and i do the same. nothing is planned. if we are not out we always say so.

i was out in town this weekend and i text him to see if he was out. he didnt reply. this has happened before.

once we have met up, i dont hear from him for a while and he ignores my texts. i then dont text him anymore and he comes back texting me again as normal.

what does this mean???

i really like this guy.

he is 29 and single.

i have heard that he has never had a girlfriend before and that he likes the chase.

when we are together he never always wants to be with me and he always pays me compliments.

he does know that i came out of a serious 6 year relationship with my fiance 9 months ago.

2006-12-18 06:17:52 · 10 answers · asked by Pretty Little Girl xxx 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-18 06:16:10 · 13 answers · asked by rebel girl 1 in Singles & Dating

i have between 6 and 10 pints usually

2006-12-18 06:15:31 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I wouldn't mind so much....but, the woman acts completely standoffish to me, and my boyfriend tells me of all this rude stuff she says and does behind my back. I am getting called jealous, but I am more concerned about respect.

2006-12-18 06:15:22 · 17 answers · asked by chicago gal 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm 77Kg (12 stone) 5ft 3 inches (or 176cm)
I am a size 16 just about.

2006-12-18 06:14:17 · 31 answers · asked by N 1 in Singles & Dating

i have this friend named mario i have known him for 6 years and ever since then i have liked him and know i am falling in love with him we sit under the stars late at night and have wonderful conversations he calls my mom mother in law and we are engaged but he keeps asking me how i feeel about him and that is when i get quiet i don't know i love him so much that i cant stand to be without him i dont know but like i say in my journals i am falling in love with my best friend.

2006-12-18 06:14:08 · 9 answers · asked by julie_ismael_123 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-18 06:14:01 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I am just writing this for fun so you guys can write anything you guys want so have fun love ya all

2006-12-18 06:13:28 · 22 answers · asked by Jasmeen 3 in Singles & Dating

Or does that not matter, and its whats inside that counts?

2006-12-18 06:13:12 · 38 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

What do you do when this guy used to flirt with you everyday in class,but was scared to aproach you,so you approach him and give you his number? He calls the same day and ya hit it off. Then during a conversation he mentions that he's not looking for a relationship,he's not ready for commitment.I told him I would make a bet with him that I would win him over in a month and make him change his mind, and he said he not gone bet me because his feelings are increasing for me and he don't want them to,and I may be right. So how do I approach the situation? He's been checking me out along time before we started talking.We had a math class together,and we didn't start talking to the last class day,that's when I worked up the courage.He said he was glad that I gave him my number. We've been talking for about 2 weeks. Should I not label it and try to get closer to his heart? Or should I stop talking to him cold turkey?

2006-12-18 06:12:44 · 4 answers · asked by Confused 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-18 06:11:33 · 13 answers · asked by Alexandra 4 in Marriage & Divorce

Is is true that you have to be attracted to someone in order for them to tickle you?

2006-12-18 06:11:22 · 9 answers · asked by Nathan "Batman" Scott 2 in Singles & Dating

My sister is getting married to this guy who has anger issues. She knows it says shes leaving him but doesnt. Last night, i broke a plate by mistake and yelled sh1t and told me to get the F out of his house if im gonna use that language and when my sister tried to stick up for me, he came after me. I ran out. What do i do to get her away from him? She says he doesnt hit her but almost did numerous times. I (and my family ) strongly beleive he does. what do we do?

2006-12-18 06:11:14 · 22 answers · asked by Baby Jack born 4/5/09 4 in Family

2006-12-18 06:10:45 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Is myspace a bad thing. They say that a lot of people on there get "online rapped" how do you get "online rapped" ? That's so stupid. And the people that are stupid enought to tell the people where they live? Common sence people!! What do you all think of MySpace? Do you think it's wrong or the people that use it are just stupid a lot?

2006-12-18 06:10:27 · 10 answers · asked by Serenity Casablanca 1 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend wants me to lose weight. He has been really pressuring for me to do so. He said he fell in love with my heart and wants me to look more appealing. I have been told by doctors that I need to lose as well. I am not grossly over weight, however I can stand to lose a few.

2006-12-18 06:10:03 · 39 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-12-18 06:08:51 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I knows he love me and I love him. But he has this problem he can't leave crack cocaine alone. Don't get me wrong I know this isn't going anywhere unless he gets help. I know everyone is proabably going to tell me to leave that zero and find myself a hero. I was thinking what if the shoe was on the other feet? Who would be there for me? There are so many addicts in the world, if we turn our back on all of them what would the world be like. I really love this guy. What can I do to convince him, he needs help or lose me? Please be very honest with your responses. I need to hear the truth.

2006-12-18 06:08:02 · 13 answers · asked by Gail S 2 in Singles & Dating

I've never heard any stories about CPS doing anything good for children. Sure I've heard parents complain but more than that I've never met an adult that recieved "help" from CPS when they were a child claim that the help was appropriate. I know one grown woman that swears while two male CPS agents were investigating a false claim of sexual abuse against her father, the male agent not only asked her if she was touched but actually touched her in those specific places. She was seven at the time. She claims she felt molested by the Child protective workers and very frightened. I've met both male and female adults who state that they were taken from their parents because their parents were found to be neglectful only to be abused physically and sexually by foster parents. I agree children should be protected. Who is protecting them from CPS?

2006-12-18 06:07:11 · 3 answers · asked by crazyolecatlady 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Lets assume theres this really hot girl/guy that you want to go out with. Their really nice and perfect except for everything they touch is slowly turned to gold.

Would you want to go out with them and risk being turned into a gold statue or play it safe (boring).

Note: Assume anyone turned to gold is still alive and aware but just very shinny and stiff. (could actually improve love life?)

Most creative and detailed answer will get the 10 points, think about it, would you risk it for love and a good time?...maybe even more?

2006-12-18 06:07:09 · 2 answers · asked by Not a hippie 2 in Singles & Dating

This is for girls really but guys if u wanna answer its welcome :)

2006-12-18 06:05:51 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

By the way there's two of them! 5 month old TWINS who are spoiled to the arms and when i put them down most of the time they cry so bad they start sweating, crying, turning red. Any advise please!

2006-12-18 06:04:51 · 17 answers · asked by lovenatbug 1 in Family

How the hell do i get it in the oven??

2006-12-18 06:04:36 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships