Family & Relationships - 18 December 2006

Ok this is my situation:
I have been with my husband for 5-yrs know we are both 21 I talked to him on the endings of September I mention to him I was ready to be a mom if he was ready for us to have kids he agreed we have been trying nothing has happened yet know the last day we tried was Sunday 12/10 I was in the process of ovulation that day only god knows if I will end up pregnant or what! know on Tuesday 12/12 he talked to me and mention he is not prepared to be a father he really hurt me because is something I have been wanting he says I want one because my cousins are having kids and I'm the only one without one which is ridiculous I care less what they do or don't do I'm the one who will raise and support my kid not them, So know everytime we do it he pulls it out and I feel very hurt of the fact that he is not ready
What would you ladies do???
Man why do some feel they aren't ready what goes thru ur mind I ask him and tell him to be honest with me he just says he isn't ready

2006-12-18 06:04:27 · 2 answers · asked by Jazz 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I can understand guys not taking you seriously if you are out at the bar and draping yourself over any body with testosterone, or if you are an excessive flirt. I am neither of these things. I am a responsible, attractive girl who is very down to earth with respectable values. I don't sleep around, in fact I hardly get any sort of action these days because any guy who I have gained interest in doesn't think of me as "dating material". They are attracted to me, would sleep with me, would be friends with me, but would not seriously date me. There are a couple of guys who I know would take me seriously, but I have no attraction to them. So my question is, how do I get a guy to take me seriously in a relationship and not just think of me as a booty call. This isn't geared towards a specific, just in general when I first meet any guy etc.

2006-12-18 06:04:08 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-18 06:03:44 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We were together for 3 years and 4 months ago he broke up with me to go back to his ex wife. These past 4 months have been terrible between us because I wanted him back so badly and didn't know what he wanted to do. His ex was right in town influencing his decision making and lying about me and that has created fights between he and I. I love him despite the bullcrap and don't want him to hate me because she came between us. We had a great 3 years together. They have a son together and for whatever reason, he never stopped loving her despite her divorcing him. She wanted him back and he went.

2006-12-18 06:03:23 · 10 answers · asked by thewhalehunter12 2 in Singles & Dating

I am 35 yrs old, have 3 girls and I am married. My mom still tries to tell me what to do with my children and I can't take it anymore. I am not the type to disrespect her because she brought us up better than that. I am a very emotional person and I don't know how to talk to her about this. For example, my daughter had a christmas concert that my mom knew about a week before time and then the last day she says she can't make it because she had company coming over. 2 days later was my daughters birthday party and my mom calls to tell me she can't make it because it's the only time she can go to bingo. She is sounding so much like her mother was. She takes my daughter to school because I have no one else that can, so how can I talk to her without getting her really mad and then decide not to take her to school anymore. And yes, I give her gas money to do this!

2006-12-18 06:03:00 · 9 answers · asked by DawnC36 2 in Family

2006-12-18 06:02:51 · 3 answers · asked by heartbroken 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-18 06:00:33 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-12-18 06:00:28 · 15 answers · asked by BritterZ 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

There's no proof, no witnesses, so therefore the only sources you have of telling the truth is your own words!

2006-12-18 05:59:42 · 10 answers · asked by Candice C 1 in Singles & Dating

i hav noticed dat my hubby loves me only physically....at times becoz i sum wat feel dat he kind of ignores me in public , not exactly ignore but doesnt give me vibes lke other newly couples does. and he gets romantic oin d bed...how should i no dat whether he loves me only for dat or he really has feelings for me?,,,,,,,i wanted to also no dat how should u keep ur husband in charge ? so pls help.

2006-12-18 05:59:34 · 9 answers · asked by mahveensmum 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I love her and she is about 70 lbs overweight. She has been overweight always since I met her, although she was about 40 lbs overweight then (11 years ago). She really has been about the same for about 8 years.
If she stays this way forever, I am OK with it. However, I would be lying if I said I wouldn't like her to lose it. I would like it and I know she would too. She says she wants to but does not follow through with any real changes in her life. I exercise and all that and I am in pretty good shape, and she doesn't.
I have done everything imaginable to help her - encourage her to work out with me, praise her when she loses a few pounds, and *never* complain about her putting it back on. I'll cook her anything she wants to eat however healthy but it just never works, because she wants me to eat much less too (yet I am not overweight).
I love her to death but I think we would be better off if she lost the weight. What can we do here? Gastric band is a last resort....

2006-12-18 05:58:47 · 28 answers · asked by fucose_man 5 in Marriage & Divorce

about a month ago i broke up with my boyfriend....and i asked him if we could still be friends.....he said yea its kewl and w/e but now i call him and he dont answer.....hes rude to me....is he doing that "ignore her and she'll come bak'' thing? cuz it really sounds like it

2006-12-18 05:58:44 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I cant get him off my mind i miss him so much?
this guy who is my friend he move to my town to go to collage and now he has went home for chirstmas he told me he would be gone for 4 weeks and i thought it would be ok but now i cant stop thinking about him i miss him so much!but we are just friends i didnt even know how much i liked him in till he left! got any words of wisdom? does it matter that he's 19 and in 16

2006-12-18 05:58:18 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

ok, say on our first date...i pick you up and stop by a store and buy a box of condoms and put it on the compartment between the seats without hiding it......would you think the guy is funny and has a wild imagination or would you be mad and leave?

2006-12-18 05:58:03 · 15 answers · asked by Mr. Right 3 in Singles & Dating

the very next day he sends email like he does everyday like nothing has changed..what should i do..ignore him until he gets message or..talk to him again and restate what I said when i broke up with him??

2006-12-18 05:57:52 · 10 answers · asked by wartytoadjody39 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Balancing a certain amount of respect for you the lady but also letting you know he finds you attractive .

2006-12-18 05:56:42 · 1 answers · asked by bolounit1 2 in Singles & Dating

I am more concerned about the size of his BRAIN . I mean does HE use his brain once in a while or not?

2006-12-18 05:56:21 · 2 answers · asked by IT'S JUST ME ! 7 in Singles & Dating

My husband and I have never gone all the way in a public place but we have played with each other. We find it exciting but have not yet taken it further. Have any of you?

2006-12-18 05:55:51 · 27 answers · asked by Alexandra 4 in Singles & Dating

Should you two have separate accts (checking/savings) or shared accts?

2006-12-18 05:55:39 · 19 answers · asked by Frank 3 in Marriage & Divorce

My sister Is trying to hurt herself in so many ways but I don't know what to do. Like she keeps trying to cut her self anytime she gets mad, I wish I knew how to handle it and I can't deal with the fact that hshe is doing it. What can I do to help her and if she doesn't excpet my helping her what do I do next?

2006-12-18 05:55:16 · 7 answers · asked by Country Girl 1 in Family

hi, my husband had an accident in 2001. in 2004 he got compensation. when our friends heard we were getting compensation they were always round. when the cheque cleared he came with us to get some money out and asked for £2000. we said yes as long as he pays it back after a month. when the money had gone we never saw his family for months. he still hasnt paid any back to this day. i went round about 2 months ago and had a word about not seeing them since our money was gone. they have started coming around again but he never mentions the money. we ask but he says he cant afford it. i know we wont get it back but should we stay friends with them? we will never make this mistake again ever.

2006-12-18 05:54:52 · 25 answers · asked by MICHAEL A 1 in Friends

would you mind if I came over and cleaned your house for you?

2006-12-18 05:54:34 · 12 answers · asked by david s 2 in Singles & Dating

Its way less stressful than living with a family member although I don't want to live with my bf or my family. My parents are very spiteful, greedy, and selfish and my boyfriend just needs to grow up. Where am I going to go?? I can't afford to live on my own because I'm in school and pay out of my pocket and I work full time. What am I going to do??

2006-12-18 05:54:04 · 14 answers · asked by Benny 3 in Family

Should I start with Bi*ch, t*at, c*nt, wh*re, or Dear Mom?

2006-12-18 05:54:02 · 14 answers · asked by seahawk 1 in Singles & Dating

I am African-American and I've only dated African-American women in my life. But I'm not sure if I could approach a woman of a different race the same way I'd approach an African-American woman.

2006-12-18 05:53:47 · 6 answers · asked by Sid 2 in Singles & Dating

To have trust in me and get him to relieze that i would never cheat on him? I think he is just insecure... cause i have never done anything to loss his trust, in fact i tell himw what im doing even if its bad

2006-12-18 05:53:46 · 5 answers · asked by sexynurse 2 in Singles & Dating

wat r the first things you look for in gurls or guys??? i mean everyone looks at different things...for instance..i look at hair, shoes, and eyes....

2006-12-18 05:52:25 · 2 answers · asked by ~Ohio State~ 2 in Singles & Dating

for how they treated him. How can I get over this and not judge? I know parents are not perfect,but one thing in particular he told me was just heartbreaking. He shared these deeply personal things with me and said above all he wanted me to support him and I want to,but I just feel uneasy about his parents now.

2006-12-18 05:52:07 · 6 answers · asked by consigliere 6 in Family

It's been 6 months my girlfriend told me that she was lesbian and didn't want to be with me anymore even though she still loved me. I was desperately in love with her and than I accepted to do something that maybe no other guy would ever do for a girl: I subjected myself to a surgery to change my sex and turn myself into a girl so she woud have no reason to leave me. Last month the whole procedure was completely done. Last week she just told me that she doens't want to stay with me even after all I did for her. Now I just don't know what to do. I like girls and I don't know if I will ever find another girl who accepts me the way that I look now. The doctor told me the surgery is unreversable. What should I do?

2006-12-18 05:51:34 · 61 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

If I shaved all the hair off my head would you still date me
and why or why not

2006-12-18 05:51:05 · 11 answers · asked by david s 2 in Singles & Dating