Family & Relationships - 18 December 2006

2006-12-18 05:50:43 · 2 answers · asked by ? 1 in Friends

when someone you are seeing is over his ex gf??

they broke up about a year ago.

and now he is seeing so many other girls.
i like him alot , so i put up with it.

we never actually go out to see a movie, it's always at his house that we actually hang out. like 3 times a week.

he tells me he like s me alot when he sees me and that he missed me. he's affectionate in person

but he is pretty mean to me and non affectionate on the phone. etc.

what should i do??
is he over his ex?

2006-12-18 05:50:37 · 12 answers · asked by ~*SagiTTarius*~ 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-18 05:50:23 · 4 answers · asked by dollface 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-18 05:50:15 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

while seperated from my husband (still am) I meet a guy at work that was having the same problems with his girlfriend and we became really awesome friends, so I thought! Well he told me the other day that he was moving back to NY and I cried for hours, I can't imagine not seeing him anymore! Am I in love with him and should I tell him how I feel? By the way I am getting divorced so none of the "your married" comments please!

2006-12-18 05:50:07 · 12 answers · asked by Tammy R 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-18 05:49:35 · 12 answers · asked by redd 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Okay, my friends ex-boyfriend just broke up with her, because he caught her cheating on him, and I personnally don't blame him for doing that. But this guy really likes me now, and I've always secretly liked him before. One of his friends are saying he's going to ask me out, but I think it would totally KILL my BFF if she found out I was going out with her ex. I know it would be totally wrong to go out with him, but it was wrong of her in the first place to cheat on him. What should I do. I'm totally confused.

2006-12-18 05:49:01 · 6 answers · asked by Nicole Brown 2 in Singles & Dating

ok i really really like two guys one whom i and dating but i really really like his older cousin and he likes me too he says he wants to wait for me if i want to stay with my boyfriend but i have no idea what to do can you help me

2006-12-18 05:48:57 · 7 answers · asked by amy lamb 1 in Singles & Dating

Please don't give the typical answer to "Be yourself". Because if I were to be myself and say what I was thinking I'd say something like "You have a nice rack" or "Nice butt" and I might get slapped. :)

2006-12-18 05:48:21 · 19 answers · asked by Sid 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-18 05:48:17 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

2006-12-18 05:48:03 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

my guy friend gave me a hickey the other day and he is going to alabama friday. and he said my hickey should last for three days and he said that he better not see anymore on me then he made it bigger. why did he say that. he said he isnt the jealous type

2006-12-18 05:47:50 · 5 answers · asked by valreemariecreed 1 in Singles & Dating

I thought I had obsessive compulsive disorder but it turns out to be OCPD. I expect to much from my girlfriend friends and family and I want it to stop especially for my girlfriend. I know Im putting a lot of stress on her and pushing her away and I want to stop. She has put up with it for 5 months now and I know she loves me for dealing with me. Its going to be hard for me to stop because she doesnt make it easy with some of the things she does but I need to get my problem out of the way so I can rationally deal with our problems. Thank You.

2006-12-18 05:46:50 · 2 answers · asked by 1authority 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-12-18 05:45:25 · 1 answers · asked by Jane 3 in Singles & Dating

you fell in love with and slept with your church brother? I'm in that situation now and we are trying to stop but the chemistry is unbelievable between us.. We both love God very much and we know that we need to "get it together". I don't think he is ready for marriage and in someways I'm not either due to other outside factors in both our lives. yes we do see each other as a potential spouse and we have a great relationship outside of sex.. we can talk and relate to almost anything... we make each other laugh and we have a great deal in common.. however we want to do things the right way and are trying but its difficult. if you were in a similar situation before how did things turn out?

2006-12-18 05:45:16 · 7 answers · asked by Mary S 2 in Singles & Dating

I mean if you really liked it:)

2006-12-18 05:44:35 · 31 answers · asked by Vash 2 in Singles & Dating

My husband came home from work late a few nights ago. I mean really late. We had already been fighting for the past week. This morning I went to put his pants in the washer and I saw a dried, white substance inside. (He does not wear underwear.) I looked at it closely and it looks like...well...you know...dried c*m. I always do the laudry and I have never seen this in his pants before. I am afraid to ask him. He usually gets mad at me if I question him about where he has been or what he has been doing. I don't want to start another fight, we just got over the last fight that was about a week long!!! Please help?

2006-12-18 05:44:21 · 25 answers · asked by greenlady 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-18 05:44:21 · 5 answers · asked by Devyn C 1 in Friends

I have a killer job, I am learning to save so I will someday have something to offer, I try to take care of myself. I thought I was semi-hot most of my years, but now after a divorce ( 1year ago) and trying to date at 36, I am finding very CLEAR from online dating sites, I guess by my looks, or??? I am NOT a catch.

1. How to get AROUND this.

2. Are there some possible red flags I am sending?

It is a little sad... 2 dates but 1 was not interested and the other, well I am not a BBW guy.. I am ok with average I just happen not to be into BBW. Now please not trying to be shallow just describing 2 dates.

What can I do that I have not already tried to make myself available.

I tend to respect boundaries but maybe I pay TOOO much attention to them. For example if I am seeing a band and firls *seem* like they are with guys, I stay away, trying to respect boundaries.

I tried lots of things, even ex is re-marrying, and I cant seem to get a date.

2006-12-18 05:44:07 · 7 answers · asked by DanjoHart 2 in Singles & Dating

three girls sittin here tryin to figure out the best way to give one. any ideas? details appreciated
<3

2006-12-18 05:43:14 · 7 answers · asked by Katy kins 2 in Singles & Dating

My hubby and i are seperated two weeks now .He emptied our joint account and canceled all credit cards we shared.I do in fact work actually making more money than him so half of that money is mine.I left because he slapped me across the face giving me a bloody nose he thought i was try to throw away his property.I left all my clothing except what i was wearing.I have been staying at a friends house and he has called threatening to throw out all my stuff can he leagally do this?We also have 4 dogs?

2006-12-18 05:42:31 · 24 answers · asked by Adelina R 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-18 05:42:13 · 19 answers · asked by single girl 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-18 05:42:07 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

this older guy like me and there is no way i will go out with him i am 21 so why do men in there 40s think they can get a 21 yr old to sleep with them

2006-12-18 05:41:38 · 3 answers · asked by palmtreesareheaven 1 in Singles & Dating

I made an awful mistake 4 1/2 years ago. My husband is slow when it comes to any change. I was 30 and needed to know my relationship with him was going somewhere. I gave him the utimatum and he gave me the ring---on one condition--that I get completely fit and trim. Mind you, I was around 165 and 5'5. Now we have a 2 year old and he is pressuring me to lose the baby weight. But I realize I don't want to do it for him. Maybe for me or for my daughter... In fact I feel like staying chubby just to spite him. He says he loves me but that love is not unconditional. I don't want to lose him but part of me will always wonder if he loves me for me. How can I fix this? Can it be fixed? I get the feeling that once I do lose the weight he'll find some other thing about me to hyper-focus on and critique. A marriage relationship is more complicated than "lose the weight" or "kick him to the curb". Any constructive advice on this matter is greatly appreciated.Thanks

2006-12-18 05:41:05 · 64 answers · asked by Mythical Creature 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I have been receiving phone calls, where at the sound of my voice, click! I did mention this to an ex who could be a suspect only because these occurrences take place to similar hours when he used to call me in the past. He got back together with his wife, and some how that seems to eliminate him of my suspicions.

Weeks ago I see him and without sounding accusative I share with him this aggravation and the consistency to the specific time pattern. He replies " Is not me, just in case" this statement bewilders me. I lied, to tell him I had exclude him of my suspicions... since when I attempted to reach him in the past, he never sounded pleased to hear my voice. I wonder why would someone who's innocent, reply in this manner? He then continues: "I have a friend who calls his wife just to check up on her." Wouldn’t he reply showing empathy rather than sounding defensive, is He guilty? Regardless, impertinent calls stop when # is changed, ha!

2006-12-18 05:40:53 · 4 answers · asked by Ellie 1 in Marriage & Divorce

There's a lot of drama concerning marriage right now, my parents are getting divorced, and i just got officially divorced in october (after a long seperation). my mom & her side of the family don't approve of my partner for various reasons that shouldn't be their concern, but i didn't want to tell the rest of my family & not them. So we ended up getting married without telling anyone in either of our families & now i'm worried that my mother will find out on her own & be even more upset at me for not telling her. i know i need to tell everyone, but i don't know how at this point! we just got married two days ago.

2006-12-18 05:40:13 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-18 05:39:56 · 38 answers · asked by eve 1 in Family

My fiance and i dont meet each other very often,we call everyday but the longest conversation wouldn't even last more than 15min on a normal day.

My future sis-in-law gave birth 2 wk ago. Now my fiance is all over his new nephew. He would not be able to talk on the phone with me when he's holding the baby, he would wake up n take care of him if the baby cries at 4am. And when we do talk, he talks abt his nephew. I'm like, hello!! Do i still exist or wat?
I start imagining that the same thing's gonna happen when we're married and have children-his attention will be on the kids and none on me. My eyes are glowin a frickin' green color,and i feel like a terrible person!

Is it even normal of me to feel this way? Or am i just being a drama queen,and there's nothing to worry about?

2006-12-18 05:38:48 · 12 answers · asked by giselle_00 1 in Marriage & Divorce

my ex and i broke up a month ago, she wanted to figure out things in her life by herself, sometimes girls need the space. been going out for 2 yrs. I was thinking should i still get her something for x-mas showing that i still care which i do and that would be the last thing i would do for her. or should i just wait until she makes the move.

2006-12-18 05:37:35 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating