What is the best way to approach a woman that I find attractive?

Question

Please don't give the typical answer to "Be yourself". Because if I were to be myself and say what I was thinking I'd say something like "You have a nice rack" or "Nice butt" and I might get slapped. :)

Answer 1

Depends on the setting. If it's a social environment (i.e. bar/club) then I like using eye contact. Not psycho-staring, but a confident look, followed by a smile. If she smiles back, approach or motion for her to approach you. Then, say, "Hi..." Human nature tends to take over from there. Nonverbal communication (tasteful) works best in this environment.

If it's a less social setting, such as the workplace. You'll just need to talk to her and find out her interests. If you share common interests, that's your "in". Verbal communication works best in this environment.

Answer 2

It depends...I don't know how old you are, or what the circumstances are where you two see eachother....is this in a professional atmospher or school environment? At any rate, just catch her one day and ask if you can have a minute of her time....surely she will say yes.... tell her that you have noticed her, and you can't help finding yourself thinking that she is a very attractive woman, and that you'd be very interested in taking her to lunch sometime if that would be ok...let the conversation go from there....she will probably smile and say that it would be ok....so then you just ask for her number and call her to set up a time for lunch....

You're probably right about the nice rack or nice butt comments.....Good Luck...

Answer 3

The hardest thing is determining whether or not the girl you find attractive is interested in you. Watch for signs... such as her returning eye contact or holds her gaze for a few seconds and then smiles.

But NEVER EVER assume she totally digs you.... is sexually interested in you... etc. Just go up and say hello. Be yourself. You can comment on her appearances.... by telling her how beautiful she looks. Or just say that shirt really looks nice on you.

And continue from there. Don't expect anything. Just be confident and brave. Be yourself.

Answer 4

You can always learn some easy pick-up artist tactics. They're great because they work, even if they seem retarded. For instance, approaching them with a slightly oddball question ("Excuse me, but could I ask your opinion on something? My friend says he wants to buy a pet eagle") and similar things are a good way to get them interested. And more. Visit the link if you feel like it. Most guys can master them in a few months.

Answer 5

Smile, walk over, introduce yourself, ask her if she is going out with someone and if she isn't say that you think she is beautiful and you would like to go out with her sometime

Answer 6

hi dude..
its really easy n believe me i m telling from my experience.
just befriend her. be good frends for some time. understand each other better. and very soon, take my word for it, she will understand ur liking. if she reciprocates in a simialr manner, then take the relationship ahead, else remain good frends.
all the best frend.

Answer 7

Your making it hard fella...just relax. Walk up to her and say "hi" ..if she runs away screaming...well...feel free to tell her she has a nice butt. (just kidding) She won't run....most girlie's are sensible and easy to talk to....it's us guys that make it awkward. Make small talk....weather

Answer 8

Smile--be friendly--say something innocuous at first, and see how she reacts--most of all, don't frighten her. If she seems unreceptive, back off graciously. If you feel wounded by rejection, don't show it.

Answer 9

Go to her and say " you are pretty and i wanna marry you do you accept or no"? and thats it if she says no then that means no if she says yes take her to a hotel

Answer 10

Try stalking. The ladies really go for that sneaky, creepy stuff.