while seperated from my husband (still am) I meet a guy at work that was having the same problems with his girlfriend and we became really awesome friends, so I thought! Well he told me the other day that he was moving back to NY and I cried for hours, I can't imagine not seeing him anymore! Am I in love with him and should I tell him how I feel? By the way I am getting divorced so none of the "your married" comments please!
2006-12-18 05:50:07 · 12 answers · asked by Tammy R 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Let him know how you feel, maybe he feels the same deep down and is too scared to say anything. What do you have to lose?
2006-12-18 10:44:00 · answer #1 · answered by xquis81 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would just put it on the back burner for now. You said a good friend, keep that, they dont come along very often. There is something that is called the phone. I know its not the same thing. But if you 2 are meant to be a couple it will happen. Get your own life together before you start something new up.
2006-12-18 14:25:43 · answer #2 · answered by crazzzy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
YOu're not in love. He's the rebound guy, only you did not have sex with him.
Or did you???
I had a friend. She did the same thing with this other guy, and when he moved on she didn't exactly colapse, but she got over it. You will too, don't dwell on rebound guy for long
2006-12-18 13:59:49 · answer #3 · answered by stn1225 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You made a connection with this guy, when you needed one the most. if you were truly in love with him, you wouldn't need to ask us, you'd be running over to him & telling him how you feel. what you're upset about is most likely the expectation of the loss of that much needed connection the two of you created when you were both coping with the loss of connection in your respective relationships. you will get over it. Out of curiosity, did he & his girlfriend split up also?
2006-12-18 14:13:13 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't tell him anything. You really miss your "marriage" and you wished that it didn't have to end up like it did. You felt comfort in this relationship with this man which is normal, but let him go. Pick up your head and don't be afraid to love.
2006-12-18 13:58:29 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You're taking the same 'ol in love feelings directly into another relatonship. Those feelings are always gonna be there. Do you know how to make yourself happy? Be in love with yourself.
2006-12-18 13:54:49 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I just think you will miss him because at the time you could relate to him and he was a good friend....I don't think you are in love with him...
2006-12-18 14:11:26 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave him alone. He knows what he wants dont spoil it for him. You need time alone. He was there to fill your void. You dont love him.
2006-12-18 14:12:26 · answer #8 · answered by daprty1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you may have been in love with him, but unfortunately he wasn't in love with you. go cry. sleep in your pajamas all day. get a pint of ice cream and watch some girly movies. you will get better. i promise.
2006-12-18 13:56:55 · answer #9 · answered by Bella 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
let him go, dont say anything... you sound really confused and the best thing for you is to be alone for a while and sort your feelings...
2006-12-18 13:53:00 · answer #10 · answered by ~♥Jade♥~ 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋