My husband came home from work late a few nights ago. I mean really late. We had already been fighting for the past week. This morning I went to put his pants in the washer and I saw a dried, white substance inside. (He does not wear underwear.) I looked at it closely and it looks like...well...you know...dried c*m. I always do the laudry and I have never seen this in his pants before. I am afraid to ask him. He usually gets mad at me if I question him about where he has been or what he has been doing. I don't want to start another fight, we just got over the last fight that was about a week long!!! Please help?
2006-12-18 05:44:21 · 25 answers · asked by greenlady 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Keep your eyes open. If it happens again ask him about it.
2006-12-18 05:54:53 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that he has been cheating. You have to ask..or you can just leave it alone. BUT if you do that are you willing to go the rest of your life wondering if the man you are married to is a cheater? The man is hiding something. He is getting mad at you so he can use that as an excuse to stay out. This is something that I would pursue if I were you. I am sorry if it were my man I would first go get tested for and STD and confront him. He could have given you something that momma's spit and Clorox can't get rid of. It is sad that he has put you in this situation.
2006-12-18 05:56:00 · answer #2 · answered by LaReyna 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
C*m inside the pants means it didn't end up inside another woman, so at least be thankful for that. My only theory as to why he had it inside his pants is that he must have went to a strip-club and gotten a very good lap dance.
2006-12-18 05:48:28 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems like what it is. Your marriage sounds troubled and he might be seeing someone else.
If you can't discuss your personal affairs and life with your own husband, try couple's counselling together if you want to save this marriage. otherwise it looks like you two are heading into divorce court,
Trust, Honesty, loyalty and respect must be the basis for any relationship especially marriage. Do not stay in a bad situation. you both deserve better.
Good Luck.
Irene
2006-12-18 05:53:03 · answer #4 · answered by artist-oranit.com. 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'am sorry but i really do think he's cheating. I've already been through a relationship w/a cheating man. And when I questioned his where abouts he would be pissed off. Sure enough it was because he had plenty to hide!!! If I were you I would find a way to find out what's going on.
2006-12-18 06:28:14 · answer #5 · answered by Fiesty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree, he probably went to a strip club and got a really good lap dance. However, the fact that he gets angry when question might mean either he is up to something or he just gets angry because maybe he takes your questions as acusations. Maybe a good heart to heart talk is in order.
2006-12-18 05:57:00 · answer #6 · answered by mglee1966 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to tell him about that wether you think that your going to fight our not. You need to no and if he gets mad at you from asking that, thats not a good sign its guilt what gets them mad. You need to tell him and found out what that is and why its there, and what in the world he was doing out so late that night. And find out don't give up until you no. Good Luck!
2006-12-18 05:49:37 · answer #7 · answered by amanda b 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would walk out that door so fast , he wouldn't know what hit him. That on his pants , as old people call is just leavens. That would make me so mad, I would be at my ATTY,. door as soon as he opened that office to get a D I V O R C E, with those pants as evidence. I'd file for him to pay for that divorce, also. I wouldn't give a damn how mad it made him for me to question him, he could kiss my a**.
2006-12-18 06:29:05 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i opt to recommend asking him properly,after copying it down. a guy could in no way shop a woman's extensive style in his pocket until there substitute into no longer something happening. he's in all possibility naive yet no longer stupid. Be advantageous approximately this. believe is a 2 way highway and to be disillusioned will instruct which you do no longer believe him. Now you nonetheless have the call/extensive style. while you're no longer happy with the reaction which you won, you could google it ,call it ,keep it for greater data,throw it away,or take it to the subsequent point. stable success!
2016-10-18 11:01:15 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with Martin. Sounds like he went to a strip club and had some control issues.
2006-12-18 06:35:30 · answer #10 · answered by koogle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok... lemme get this straight. He gets mad at you for asking him about his day???!!! This is a HUGE RED FLAG, If he starts a fight with you because you ask him a question, He is DEF guilty of something!
2006-12-18 05:48:30 · answer #11 · answered by Angel Eve 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋