There's a lot of drama concerning marriage right now, my parents are getting divorced, and i just got officially divorced in october (after a long seperation). my mom & her side of the family don't approve of my partner for various reasons that shouldn't be their concern, but i didn't want to tell the rest of my family & not them. So we ended up getting married without telling anyone in either of our families & now i'm worried that my mother will find out on her own & be even more upset at me for not telling her. i know i need to tell everyone, but i don't know how at this point! we just got married two days ago.
2006-12-18 05:40:13 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I would take a picture of yourselves either in front of where you got married or holding up your ring fingers, put it into a nice frame, and give it as a Chrismas gift. I would include a note that says "I am very happy, and I hope that you can be happy for me so that we can build a strong marriage and a great future."
2006-12-18 05:44:59 · answer #1 · answered by kramerdnewf 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The best thing to do is to just tell them. As you already know, they will soon find out anyway and be more upset that someone else had to tell them. Don't let them intimidate you about your choice, show them that you have made your decision and they will just have to accept it.
2006-12-18 05:46:41 · answer #2 · answered by jerrycarr99029 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
write everyone a nice card with holiday themes on them, keep it simple and just say, I hope you will be happy for us, for we truly found happiness in and with each other!"
Your life is your own, sometimes your family is not a supporting worm accepting environment so you might need to get on with your life, make yourself and your husband happy, and whomever has a problem with this can kindly take a hike.
Congratulation, be happy and good luck.
Irene
2006-12-18 05:47:11 · answer #3 · answered by artist-oranit.com. 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i are conscious of it could be frustrating for you. i dated somebody interior the millitary for an prolonged time. i are conscious of it particularly is frustrating. yet think of approximately it first. confer with people who understand you properly and understand your relationship. get their opinion too. additionally, locate out out of your loved ones why they do no longer look to be in help. possibly you do no longer choose their opinion, yet they'd have some stable reasons. how youthful are you? marriage is a extensive step. confident, you could spend greater time jointly, yet it particularly is a LIFELONG dedication, no longer purely a convenience to make your relationship much less difficult. i'm no longer saying which you're feeling that way, i'm purely attempting to get you to think of approximately issues heavily. i jumped into getting married and now i break up and left to develop an toddler by using myself. it particularly is purely me, yet i'm saying, purely be careful how speedy you progression into getting married. you do no longer opt to sense sorry approximately it later.
2016-10-18 11:01:06 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're grown just tell her that you got married end of story. You can object but what can she really do now. Oh, by the way congratulations.
2006-12-18 06:24:11 · answer #5 · answered by kitcat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you love him what does it matter what people think. You have to live your life not them. Tell them and if they dont like it too bad b/c its already done.
2006-12-18 05:54:24 · answer #6 · answered by daprty1 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well if your not concerned about what they think be honest and just tell them.They are going to find out soon enough anyways.
2006-12-18 05:57:12 · answer #7 · answered by gblue52 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop trying to impress these people and be yourself.
2006-12-18 05:43:35 · answer #8 · answered by Rip 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
mom, I would like for you to meet your new son in law. that should do it.
2006-12-18 05:44:35 · answer #9 · answered by SKYDOGSLIM 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it is hard but u should tell him
2006-12-18 06:04:55 · answer #10 · answered by koolcat252002 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋