Family & Relationships - 18 December 2006

My fiance is living with me and my parents during winter break. I'm really not sure what to do when I'm invited out with my friends (should I bring him along even if he's not invited?) What if it is a party? So far, I've just been playing it by ear, taking into account whether these people are mutual friends and how big the gathering is.

Today is my best friend's 21st birthday. I am going bar-hopping without my fiance. He's upset that he's not coming too, but I told him that my best friend picked these people for his birthday, and that I can't just invite him along. Who is right?

If it makes any difference, my fiance and I are not "officially" engaged (ie, there is no ring and no date, though we are absolutely getting married). Also, my fiance has many friends in the area, yet for some reason he rarely hangs out with them.

2006-12-18 06:35:02 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My brother is 14 and doesn't spend much time with video games he's more hands on creative type person and with this much snow can't be outside as much as he would like. What should I give him thats keeps his mine working so he doesn't get bored?
I don't have that much to spend.

2006-12-18 06:34:19 · 9 answers · asked by Crystal Blue 3 in Family

Or does your partner do it ? Did you know alot of breast cancer has been found by the woman's spouse ? This is very important .

2006-12-18 06:34:12 · 1 answers · asked by IT'S JUST ME ! 7 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-18 06:34:05 · 9 answers · asked by princessnicole161616 1 in Singles & Dating

...when I rushed over to the children's department. This ever happen to anyone else?

2006-12-18 06:33:41 · 3 answers · asked by ChesterTheMolester 1 in Singles & Dating

I mean..it gets all sentimental and all....well, you know what I mean.

2006-12-18 06:33:15 · 29 answers · asked by Studmuffin 3 in Singles & Dating

Hey! So im looking for a site where i can meet new people and exchange emails and im and just talk. Anyone know of one?

2006-12-18 06:32:00 · 8 answers · asked by iluffheartsnsand 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-18 06:30:57 · 11 answers · asked by princessnicole161616 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm 26 years and I know I have still have time but for the past several months I have had this desire to get married and start a family. I'm not in a serious relationship right now but this the only thing that I can think about lately. I don't know if it because I'm single or a lot of people I know are getting married. It is very hard for me to meet new people, I am shy and I can't talk to people openly or start a conversation, which is why I only have a few close friends. I feel like if I don't do this soon, I will never do it. I would like my children to know my mom and grandparents and I don't know what to do any help would be appreciated.

2006-12-18 06:30:24 · 11 answers · asked by polish_princess_26 2 in Singles & Dating

its my buddies and he said he wanted me to be an usher?

2006-12-18 06:29:16 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

Hi~ I've been married for over 10 years. I got married when I was 21-young and naive. He told me he never wanted to get married but asked me to be his girl and we lived together. After a year and a half, I was restless and told him we had to get married or forget it. He said OK and we got married. He also said he didn't want kids but a year later I had our only child.

Fast forward 10 years......

He's had trouble keeping a job (though he's a good worker) he's immature, smokes pot, and I'm the main caretaker of our child. He loves us but he acts trapped and when we got into a huge fight he blurted that he told me he never wanted this but I was the one who didn't listen.

My question now is should I just end it since it's all been a facade? i feel like a fool.

2006-12-18 06:29:14 · 28 answers · asked by javagirl 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Do guys find overweight women sexy?
Not women who are skinny and then get fat, i mean women who are fat when you meet her...Would guys ask them out?
I really want to know

2006-12-18 06:28:43 · 38 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

this guy has been in contact with me for over a year. even when i was in my past serious relationship.

we have only kissed eachother.

he always texts me when hes out in town and i do the same. nothing is planned. if we are not out we always say so.

i was out in town this weekend and i text him to see if he was out. he didnt reply. this has happened before.

once we have met up, i dont hear from him for a while and he ignores my texts. i then dont text him anymore and he comes back texting me again as normal.

what does this mean???

i really like this guy.

he is 29 and single.

i have heard that he has never had a girlfriend before and that he likes the chase.

when we are together he always wants to be with me and he always pays me compliments.

he does know that i came out of a serious 6 year relationship with my fiance 9 months ago.

2006-12-18 06:27:56 · 8 answers · asked by Special Little Girl xxx 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

keep their cell-phone for a week. I know I wouldn't LOL.

2006-12-18 06:27:24 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My husband and I desperatly want custody of his 4 1/2 yr. old daughter since her mother keeps neglecting her both physically and emotionally. She almost cries when we drop her off, since her mom has primary residence custody. She's told us of so many things that her mom and her mom's boyfriend do to her so we placed a report with Child Protective Services in the summer and they didn't do anything about it. We don't have the money for a lawyer, how can we do something so that her fulll custody is granted to us?

2006-12-18 06:27:04 · 7 answers · asked by chiklatin_03 1 in Family

ok, before you take the girl out to eat, u make sure u eat something, dat way you order the "salad" or watever is cheap that way the girl will ask, "is dat all your eating" and most likely she wont want to look like a pig and eat more than you......would this save us money?

2006-12-18 06:26:58 · 29 answers · asked by Mr. Right 3 in Singles & Dating

its a reach

2006-12-18 06:26:49 · 12 answers · asked by Renegade Of This Time and Age! 2 in Singles & Dating

I then realised thatall those booing were booing at the original booer .
Can you believe that?

2006-12-18 06:26:26 · 27 answers · asked by mickeok 1 in Singles & Dating

I would like my wife to be on top of me while we mate, I want her to ride me rather I do it every time but we are unable to do that, can any body expirenced suggest me please?

2006-12-18 06:26:20 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My husband and I have always been close. I have always been heavy but after my pregnancy I got up to 285lbs, and exercise and diet did not help much. He was always supportive and NEVER said anthing about my weight. He always said as long as your happy, Im happy. Well I wasnt and I finally lost all the weight. I am 5'3 and weigh 135lbs. I must admit I look and FEEL great!! He had to go out of state for 9 months to work. 700 miles away. He ended up having a 5-6 month affair. We are going through counseling, and he realizes how stupid he was. He has begged for forgiveness, and is VERY remorseful. Said he did not know what he was thinking...but that it was just sex..nothing more. I am learning to deal with this. But the one question I have is for the 8 yrs of our marriage when I was fat he never cheated and then I lose weight and look a lot better...he cheats! What gives. Please SERIOUS answers only please. Thanks!

2006-12-18 06:25:14 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I have even had to change the sperm bank that I donate to several times because all sperm banks limit the number of children a specific donor can produce. I have been blessed with the physical and mental traits that are desirable. My educational background also helps I am sure. I say that not to brag butt to be a donor at any good sperm bank have to undergo rigorous tests, including physical exams, blood and urine analysis and regular blood draws -- as often as every two or three months. I have never had any issues with passing these. I have 3 children with my wife. The oldest just turned 5. Over the past year I have started to feel some guilt about not telling my wife. Should I tell her?

2006-12-18 06:25:08 · 14 answers · asked by Brian 5 in Marriage & Divorce

I live with my boyfriend, some days are good and some are BAD. I love him terribly and don't want to be without him....BUT.....I feel unappreciated! I am sexually frustrated! And tired of going between him and my family (Who, by the way, HATE HIM)! If he would just change a few things about him....he and I would be great! How do you get him to see that he really does need to change?

2006-12-18 06:24:53 · 34 answers · asked by Sherry P 2 in Singles & Dating

Okay, my body is very noticeable and my butt is a real eye-catcher. Since I don't go anywhere but to home and school, all the attention is focused at school. When the guys bring up discussions about butts, i'm usually in it. My boyfriend also goes there and he usually cusses me out because of what the guys talk about. How can I let him know that what the guys talk about is their problem and that to not let their discussion come between our relationship?

2006-12-18 06:24:36 · 8 answers · asked by Candice C 1 in Singles & Dating

he just sticks his tounge in and out, nothing else!it gets boring!

2006-12-18 06:24:17 · 11 answers · asked by Katy kins 2 in Singles & Dating

me and my ex have been 2gether 4yrs. We were both 16 when we started. We never fought but out of nowhere 2 mouths ago she broke up with me. Since that time we both been on a roller coster ride from hell. She comes back she loves me next week we're just friends. Then after a wk of not talking she calls agian asking 4 help. I go and we for that day get back 2gether. last monday she does it agian and wants to be just friends. I see her last night and we talk and we seem like friends. I called her today and we talked. I asked her want she wanted and she just wants to be friends, she says she nolonger loves like she use too and she sometimes has the mixed feeling but she thinks she is over it. I told her i still love and i want to marry her. I would still take her back. Now we agreed to not see or talk to each other 4 a long time. I guess for me to get over her. I still feel it why do i still love her? I dunno what to do. I dont want to move on. but i guess i have no choice.

2006-12-18 06:23:14 · 9 answers · asked by detox_denny 1 in Singles & Dating

My ex broke up with me after 7 years together, when i was going through a hard time, possible redundancy at work and my nan had just had a stroke.He told me that he didn't love me and that he wanted to stay friends, then he started to blame me for the break up, that i didn't do enough for him and that he didn't want this anymore (all said nastily), and even though he was still attracted to me he saw me like a sister. Yet we are due to go on holiday abroad with my family and he still wanted to go!. I can't stay friends, as it hurts. Am i right in telling him not to come on holiday, even though he will lose money??

2006-12-18 06:22:53 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

My boyfriend and I have been dating for over two years and I'm 18, almost 19. While I was at college this fall, my boyfriend spent the night at my dorm all the time and my parents knew. Now that Im back, everytime I spend the night at my boyfriends place, my parents freak out and try to take things away from me (car keys) so that I'll still listen to them. Ive been dating him for so long that I thought they would be use to this and that its not that big of a deal. Everytime I try to talk to them they just treat me like a child. How can I convince my parents that I can spend the night at my boyfriends place? I feel like they'll never stop treating me a child ever.

2006-12-18 06:22:29 · 31 answers · asked by J 2 in Family

got divorced recently and am down in the dumps so to speak with no one to talk to..i guess ppl dont have the ti me for others ppls problems or they simply dont give a ****.

2006-12-18 06:22:01 · 5 answers · asked by ytee 2 in Marriage & Divorce

i dont want to be mean and say hey dude your not my type cus your ugly but it seems like the nicer iam the more they try to get with me iam 20 and only old ,fat and african dudes wanna talk to me i hate it i want a guy my age who is at least decent looking

2006-12-18 06:21:44 · 16 answers · asked by hope t 1 in Singles & Dating

When I met her she was cool, I went to her house and she had 4 stockings up but none had my daughter's name on them and that's her grand-daughter..then she had a pic of the EX and her kids (which there his also) but I was currently with him at that time it wasn't on a frame and it was an 8x10 pic that was almost about to hit the floor.
When I go to her house to drop off the baby for a visit she doesn't let me in the house, when she comes to drop of the baby to me she always has an attitude, she trys to get info from me to tell her son (dead beat dad) I was there for her son when the chips were down in his life drugs everything and I took care of him and that EX GF wasn't there for him at all..why is the mother hating on me bro and its been 8 years now I was there for him not the EX..does hse hate me cause she know's deep down her son loves me?

2006-12-18 06:21:42 · 5 answers · asked by Wendy 2 in Marriage & Divorce