me and my ex have been 2gether 4yrs. We were both 16 when we started. We never fought but out of nowhere 2 mouths ago she broke up with me. Since that time we both been on a roller coster ride from hell. She comes back she loves me next week we're just friends. Then after a wk of not talking she calls agian asking 4 help. I go and we for that day get back 2gether. last monday she does it agian and wants to be just friends. I see her last night and we talk and we seem like friends. I called her today and we talked. I asked her want she wanted and she just wants to be friends, she says she nolonger loves like she use too and she sometimes has the mixed feeling but she thinks she is over it. I told her i still love and i want to marry her. I would still take her back. Now we agreed to not see or talk to each other 4 a long time. I guess for me to get over her. I still feel it why do i still love her? I dunno what to do. I dont want to move on. but i guess i have no choice.
2006-12-18 06:23:14 · 9 answers · asked by detox_denny 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I called her saturday we kept on talking about this whole thin now she says she want to only be friends. I made a praniond remarks. In the end we oth agreed to stop bugging each other. I want to call her agian but i didnt , however i did send her an email telling her how i feel about this whole thing.
2006-12-18 06:25:52 · update #1
get on with your life,move on,find someone else,she is not the right person for you,she openly told you that she doesn't love you like before.
2006-12-18 06:27:09 · answer #1 · answered by dra shelley 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It does sound like you have no choice in this matter, at least at this point in time. I know the seperation must be very painful. She seems like she's making an effort to be honest about her feelings though; it's only natural that she would have conflicting feelings about the two of you and she probably has alot to figure out. As hard as it must be, you need to focus on your own needs. You seem like a kind person that would not intentionally cause her further pain although you are suffering now. I commend the character you have demonstrated by not reacting with anger or wanting to be spiteful. Putting some distance between you may be helpful in the healing process. It may also help to get rid of any reminders of the relationship. In time, you can get past this and find a new path. Good Luck
2006-12-18 14:31:03 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get off the rat wheel.. you both got into a heavy relationship early..now you both are taking steps into the great cold unknown world of singledom and baby "it's cold outside"..So you both get cold feet and run back to each other (it's common behavior). But that's life, it's cold sometimes, but you're never going to know what it really offers till you get out in it.
2006-12-18 14:27:23 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think U 2 is made 4 each other b/c she stills call u & after 4 years u jus dont be frends u r husband & wife i hope u 2 make up
2006-12-18 14:29:11 · answer #4 · answered by Monica 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be strong and move on. Resist the urge to call her. It's obvious that she's not in a relationship place right now, regardless of how you feel. She's just going to continue hurting you.
2006-12-18 14:28:11 · answer #5 · answered by jframeisu 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have been hearing this type of BS more and more.
I dont know what its all about, but I would move on.
2006-12-18 14:26:15 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell her well... you have been in circles to many times just break up w/ her.
2006-12-18 14:27:18 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
bang her
2006-12-18 14:25:00 · answer #8 · answered by CJ W 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
bang her. then dump her.
2006-12-18 14:25:50 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋