Family & Relationships - 18 December 2006

2006-12-18 07:18:40 · 20 answers · asked by tom 1 in Singles & Dating

my friend is dateing a total ***** and iv seen her making out with other guys and if i tell him he will never talk to me again and wouldent believe me and if i dont tell him he will find out and find out i knew and he will be pissed and he will be crushed and never talk to me again.

2006-12-18 07:18:32 · 22 answers · asked by mac 1 in Singles & Dating

ok . . . my gf broke up with me back in march and said she wanted to date around and see whats out there and all that good stuff after a 2 year relationship. . she starts dating this kid i went to high school with 2 weeks later . . . i hate the kid so its obviously a bad situation for me . . . so i try to get her back for about 2 months and in the middle of june i went NC . . on our 2 year anniversery at the beginning of july she send me a text that says . . "today was two year" just to remind me of it i guess . . . and ever since that text she has been calling/texting/leaving voicemail/or emailing me once atleast ever 2-3 weeks . . . a few times in was 2-3 times in a week . . . i have not responded to her or anything . . . so its been 5 months and its still going on .. .she is still with this same guy so she obviously knows we cant be friends be cause of the situation.. . . . . .so why does she keep trying to contact me?. .

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21 minutes ago
when they first started dating she even admitted part of the reason was because he was there and she hates being alone

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49 minutes ago
this is her latest message

hey (name)!! hows it goin? boy, youve sure been hard to get a hold of lately! i was thinkin about stoppin by sometime, so unless i hear otherwise from you ill see you soooon!! k byeee!!

<3 (name)

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2 days ago
i dont want to know what u people think i should do . .. just want to know what u think she is thinking

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25 minutes ago
this is the latest message i just got tonight

heyyyyyyy (name)....are you done not talking to me yet?? just wonderin if you wanted to hang out sometime or atleast come visit and see my house!! well please get back to me and let me know!! :)

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19 minutes ago
she just sent me another email saying that she wants me to come to her birthday party . .. now why would she want me to come if he is going to be there . . . it would only cause trouble and be really awkward on top of that

2006-12-18 07:16:45 · 9 answers · asked by cbs2904 1 in Singles & Dating

well i have been trying to get over my ex b/f.but its hard because everytime i see him and talk to him my same feelings come back to me!!and i stilll like him ALOT and want to be with him but i thinks its for the best if i move on because he cheated on me.but i kind of frogave but i dont know what to think anymore.im so confused on what i should do.im always asking myself this and i dont really know what to do.can u help??thnx so much

2006-12-18 07:16:25 · 5 answers · asked by roxygirl 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-18 07:15:41 · 8 answers · asked by stabra 3 in Singles & Dating

We have been together for a month now and I realized he is not my type. I have fallen out of love with him. I want to break up with him in a polite and nice way. What do you suggest? Thanks!!!

2006-12-18 07:14:24 · 14 answers · asked by operajester 2 in Singles & Dating

So, here is the story. A friend of mine introduced me to a friend of his that was in need of a roomie. Being in need of a new place to live, I happily agreed and all went well. Life was grand. My new roomate and good friend (Flavio), then got serious with a girl he had been seeing for a while and was living in the shared apartment. After a few months of 3's company....Mr Hyde quickly appeared and my Flavio went missing. Insansity ensued. The final straw in Flavio's relationship occured in a 12 hour standoff arguing the merits of a threesome with the inclusion of another female at Flavio's insistance. Flavio and his girlfriend parted ways and extreme grief soon entered Flavio's life. He "found Jesus" that day and decided to get counseling and change his ways.

Flavio's ex-girlfriend and I have since become very close friends and I have developed a want for something more. She seems on board but Flavio thinks this is wrong.

Dear Diary, what can I do in this situation?

2006-12-18 07:13:53 · 11 answers · asked by greg 1 in Singles & Dating

3 years ago, we got married. We have 7 childre (he has 6, I have 1)from 12 years old to 21. I am a step mother of 6, and I do everything as a mother and wife does. One day, he told me that he would like to leave the house to his children, while I could get his RRSP after he dies. I don't know how much he has with his RRSP Account. My husband and his deceased wife bought the house we are living in. I know I didn't contribute a tiny bit to the house. But I work to support the whole family with him. And also, I am helping his deceasesd wife to raise their children, even though they are not that young. I don't think it's fair to me and I don't feel the same as before. I feel like I am just a helping hand instead a part of the family. I don't want to talk to him on this, because I feel like I am a greedy person that way. Please help me out, thanks.

2006-12-18 07:13:47 · 8 answers · asked by Hyacinth H 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My boyfriend has a 13 year old daughter and there's no love loss between them. His daughter only calls around her birthday and Christmas. She was forced to call him for his birthday and on father's day. He calls her and tries to talk to her and she just blows him off if she answers her phone at all. Forget about her returning a call. When he calls her he'll ask her why she can't or doesn't call him and she always says I don't know. I encourage him to continue calling her so she can never say that he didn't try am I wrong for having him do this? Should he just give up like he's said he's going and wants to do. He's said over and over that he's not getting her anything for her birthday or Christmas, her mother can get it out of the child support money. I told him he should buy her something, should he? Her mother and her family has told her that she's white even though she's half black and half white but my boyfriend is so light he looks white. Do you think she's ashamed of him?

2006-12-18 07:13:26 · 5 answers · asked by Pisces Princess 6 in Family

hi, i got married when i was 14 and i cheated on my husband 2 times before i was 15 and i recently told him 2 years ago and he does well for a while then he gets upset and we split but this time we haven't talked any. i talked to his mother still but not him. what can i do to get him to forgive me it was a stupid mistake that i regret and i love him with all my heart how can i get him to come back to me and how do i know if he even loves me any more.

2006-12-18 07:13:18 · 11 answers · asked by lonely wife 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm the mother of two, an 8yr old son & a 1yr old daughter. The problem? My parents. My parents keep my son every wkend and for the last 3 mnths, a friend of his too. On any break my son gets from school, my son goes with my parents. My daughter on the other hand has only spent 1 night with my parents since she was born and that was conditional (I had to put her to sleep at their house and be back the next morning at 7 before she woke up). I am a full time student, I work, and that is the equivelent of my life. My problem is anytime I ask them to watch my daughter, I get yelled and screamed at but on the other hand, they act like the sun rises and sets out of my sons behind. Even when I found out I was pregnant, my mom yelled at me and said "there's only one". My dad (who according to me is superman) doesn't have a problem watching either of my kids and mostly just does what mom says. How do I tell my mom that I feel this is unfair without it turning into a war?

2006-12-18 07:12:00 · 21 answers · asked by ricksgrl2005 3 in Family

i wanted to break up with my gf but was too scared cuz she was a real nice girl and i didnt want to hurt her feelings
i thought i might have given her a hint when i didnt reply whenver she said she loves me
but she didnt get the hint
me my m8s and my gf went on a camping trip
me my gf shared a tent with the girl who i really liked and we had kissed and everything
well when she was out of the tent i started kssing the girl and my gf caught us
this hapend week ago and she really upset and depressed
what can i do?????
i know i was wrong

2006-12-18 07:11:28 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have found several suspicious substances and pieces of paraphanalia in my house that suggest my fiance may be using something stronger than pot. What symptoms would someone exhibit if they were using crack or Ecstacy?


Okay, let me elaborate. I know that he sometimes sells stuff. I don't like it, but, hell, what can I REALLY do about it? Anyway...The other day, when I emptied the bathroom trash, I found a spoon that was blackened on the underside w/ residue on the front side, as well as several pennies that had a hardened residue around the edges. This of course screams CRACK, right? I suspect that he may be using E because of some pills that I saw him with, but don't know what E really looks like. The closest I could find to compare it to on the web was a pill that looks like Klonapin (sp?) I'm just asking what the symptoms of somebody using either or both of these drugs may be.

2006-12-18 07:11:07 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Why does he talk to me in public?
Why does he talk to me in public?
this guy at my school who attends they same school as i, always stares at me and i feel its disrespectful; and i feel embarrassedl. he has done plenty of times ,everytime im by myself, he could even be in a group of girls and he does it and when he's by himself. he never says anything which perplexes me.i looked at him one time when he did and he continued to stare. but for some strange reason he speaks to me in public everytime i might happen to see him around. i dont understand, does he dislike me for some strange reason? And i know and heard he's a male whore

2006-12-18 07:11:04 · 6 answers · asked by youngj042004 5 in Singles & Dating

if your husband tell you stay home take care of the house and the kids. he will pay all the bills and he'll give u 500 dollars weekly.

2006-12-18 07:11:02 · 23 answers · asked by kency 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-18 07:10:46 · 5 answers · asked by Devyn C 1 in Singles & Dating

the story is simple... i fell in love with my really good friend....we have been friends for like 5 years..... but when i finally told him, he said he i was just a friend nothing more...and he cud never see me as anything else...
well that broke my heart and i was depressed cuz i had fallen hard for him...but after sometime i kinda saw things in focus again...and continued with my studies... hey the guy was honest with me...

but then he called me with his gf problems as usual and it hurts, still damn hurts...
so i told him i wud be unavailable for some time... i needed some time to myself....
he just texted me right now... he needs me....(or is using me?) it will be again some gf probs...
should i reply?

2006-12-18 07:09:13 · 12 answers · asked by L W 1 in Friends

i ask this question..not because I dunno what to get.. but, I want the perfect gift...not something that she woul like 2-3 days..somethig that she will like and keep forever :)

2006-12-18 07:08:21 · 5 answers · asked by speed_uhh 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Does it matter to you if your B/F gets big squirts or just little dribbles when he ejaculates?

What do you like better?

2006-12-18 07:07:19 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

the story is simple... i fell in love with my really good friend....we have been friends for like 5 years..... but when i finally told him, he said he i was just a friend nothing more...and he cud never see me as anything else...
well that broke my heart and i was depressed cuz i had fallen hard for him...but after sometime i kinda saw things in focus again...and continued with my studies... hey the guy was honest with me...

but then he called me with his gf problems as usual and it hurts, still damn hurts...
so i told him i wud be unavailable for some time... i needed some time to myself....
he just texted me right now... he needs me....(or is using me?) it will be again some gf probs...
should i reply?

2006-12-18 07:07:12 · 6 answers · asked by L W 1 in Singles & Dating

after we talked for about a month....and when she saw my pic she said that I am "quite handsome".....did she realy mean that...or she just doesn't want to spoil what we have already started online....cyber thing...

2006-12-18 07:07:02 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My wife is threatening me that if I divorce her then she will sue against me on mental and physical abuse.

--How realistic is that ? do you think the court will buy this ?
She is trying to make false witness which I can sense but
just to be carefull I checked her , and when asked openly about divorce she clearly told me that if I file a divorce then she will file
domestic violance/mental abuse etc against me.

2006-12-18 07:06:54 · 16 answers · asked by sehzad 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Well, I really don't know so I really need help!

2006-12-18 07:06:52 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Well I said something that my gf took the wrong way and now she is ok, but I still need to prove how much I'm sorry, any ideas on what I can do/get/say/make/anything?

2006-12-18 07:06:32 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

My Best Girlfriend disappointed me over work. We had some issues and before but this was the end of it. Since then I can't completely trust her and I'm distant. But she never made out with a boy I like. My other recent friend (which I know 10 yrs) is very good and understanding unlike my first BF, but she by accident made out with the guy, but she is sorry, was apologizing... Well, now I'm acting very strangely and can't decide to who to trust... Should I go one with my first friend which is my best friends for 2 years but we fight for every little thing, or should i go on with the other which is similar to me, we don't fight and even about this thing we kind of just talked about it?

2006-12-18 07:06:16 · 1 answers · asked by Dijan4eto 2 in Friends

2006-12-18 07:05:57 · 13 answers · asked by Kristen W 1 in Friends

then be distant but still e-mail almost daily? It's been 7 months that we have been e-mailing. What is going on? Does he have feelings and got scared? Why continue e-mailing me?

2006-12-18 07:05:49 · 3 answers · asked by ronnie 2 in Singles & Dating

God, I would much rather be an only child, I feel like I live in my brother's shadow. He gets better grades, is better-looking, younger, and a golden-child to my parents. (I'm 19 BTW) WTF man. For those of you who are only children, CHERISH IT!

What do u think:?

2006-12-18 07:05:27 · 6 answers · asked by Greg S 3 in Family

My boyfriend and I are working on are 4th year being together and we are very happy, We have a baby due in May and at the begining he wanted to get married and i said lets what till after the baby is born, now i wantto get married. How do i bring it up to him?

2006-12-18 07:05:04 · 9 answers · asked by skw1559 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Call me old-fashioned but to me the first date the guy pays. To me it'd be just awkward to offer to split or whatever on a first date, especially if the guy asks you out.

On the second date I'd be happy to invite. But I've come to notice that some guys think that if you don't offer to pay you're expecting them to always pay and that you're going live off his salary or something. It's sort of a bad first impression. I wanted to see if I was wrong about that.

If I asked the guy out, that's a whole other story (that rearely happens, though, I mean girl asking guy out). I'd pay beacuse I suggested going out.

Ultimately the one that asks out, pays the bill.

Where do you stand?

2006-12-18 07:04:16 · 29 answers · asked by mackenzie 3 in Singles & Dating