We have been together for a month now and I realized he is not my type. I have fallen out of love with him. I want to break up with him in a polite and nice way. What do you suggest? Thanks!!!
2006-12-18 07:14:24 · 14 answers · asked by operajester 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Quit being nice.... that is, ironically, the nicest way to do it. If you are nice to him, he'll think you care and may not get the hint. Just be blunt and tell him you don't want to see him anymore. Tell him its over and not to call you. It will sting, but he'll be able to get over you more quickly and move on with his life. If you're nice he'll think there is still a possibility and it will string him along, causing him more pain in the long run. If you want to be nice, make a clean break and let him off the hook.
2006-12-18 07:19:44 · answer #1 · answered by slap_shot69 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-05-06 02:58:01 · answer #2 · answered by Rebecca 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its hard anyways you do it, the feelings are the same, but it can go easier by HOW you do it. See him to his face, its a lot nicer. If you can't see him a lot, then the phone is next- its hard and not all that good that way, but its better to break things off now, if this is how you really feel, then to hurt him more later after he's loved you all this time. DO NOT break up online or through email- its the most hurtful thing anyone could do, it was partially done to me and it was devastating. Good luck
2006-12-18 07:19:35 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well just go up to him and tell him from start that you got some great news and go take him out to a place out in the open, and have a great time with laughs and sorrows than have him tell you the worst moment that his ever had, and than when he askes you your worst moment than you'll cut to the chase and tell him right than and there that now is the worst moment of your life because you want to break up with him because of the problem and etc.... than go on about how happy you were but it's not working out for the both of you.. than give him a kiss and hope you'll still be freinds.. and that what you could try or tell him your seeing someone else.
2006-12-18 07:25:21 · answer #4 · answered by Tilly 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Tell him that you need to have an important talk with him. Tell him the truth. It's the best thing. Put him on a pedestal before you break up with him. Tell him that he is a great guy and he'll find somone he really has a connection with. Give him complements.
2006-12-18 07:19:12 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think most of us never intentionally mean to hurt another but when the feelings arent there, they arent there. I feel the best thing for you to do is not sugar coat it and just let him know. Be upfront, honest and direct. You dont need to tell him a bunch of fluff or say, "lets be friends" please God, dont do that to him! ahahah. Good Luck. Im sure since you know what you want, you'll do what has to be done and all will be well in the end.
2006-12-18 07:17:34 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, im sure as you know that its not an easy thing to do. I think its one of the hardest things to handle, just tell you bf that you think of him more as a friend. You still like him a lot, but you dont think its working out so well. good luck and best wishes!
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2006-12-18 07:17:41 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It took you a whole month to realize that you and him aren't compatible? What were you doing prior to that, gazing at the stars or burying your head in the sand? When I was dating, I knew in the first week if we were compatible or not. Jeez, grow up!
2006-12-18 07:20:11 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell him that you dont feel a conection with him and its nothing he did but you feel that staying with him is not posible he needs to find someone that will love him back and if he doesnt mind being just friends then you can do that but other than that its not fair to either of you to stay togther
2006-12-18 07:22:21 · answer #9 · answered by lovingmychris 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's alot like taking off a bandage...short & sweet
2006-12-18 07:17:24 · answer #10 · answered by jim 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋