ok . . . my gf broke up with me back in march and said she wanted to date around and see whats out there and all that good stuff after a 2 year relationship. . she starts dating this kid i went to high school with 2 weeks later . . . i hate the kid so its obviously a bad situation for me . . . so i try to get her back for about 2 months and in the middle of june i went NC . . on our 2 year anniversery at the beginning of july she send me a text that says . . "today was two year" just to remind me of it i guess . . . and ever since that text she has been calling/texting/leaving voicemail/or emailing me once atleast ever 2-3 weeks . . . a few times in was 2-3 times in a week . . . i have not responded to her or anything . . . so its been 5 months and its still going on .. .she is still with this same guy so she obviously knows we cant be friends be cause of the situation.. . . . . .so why does she keep trying to contact me?. .
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21 minutes ago
when they first started dating she even admitted part of the reason was because he was there and she hates being alone
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49 minutes ago
this is her latest message
hey (name)!! hows it goin? boy, youve sure been hard to get a hold of lately! i was thinkin about stoppin by sometime, so unless i hear otherwise from you ill see you soooon!! k byeee!!
<3 (name)
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2 days ago
i dont want to know what u people think i should do . .. just want to know what u think she is thinking
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25 minutes ago
this is the latest message i just got tonight
heyyyyyyy (name)....are you done not talking to me yet?? just wonderin if you wanted to hang out sometime or atleast come visit and see my house!! well please get back to me and let me know!! :)
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19 minutes ago
she just sent me another email saying that she wants me to come to her birthday party . .. now why would she want me to come if he is going to be there . . . it would only cause trouble and be really awkward on top of that
2006-12-18 07:16:45 · 9 answers · asked by cbs2904 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Wasnt this question posted months ago...wait I will check and see.
2006-12-18 07:21:30 · answer #1 · answered by Ivory_Flame 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Fuking amatuer! Get over her once and for all. Good that you haven't responded to her. Grow some balls and just toss her forever. Would you reuse a dirty kleenix after you thew it in the trash? NOOOO, so don't go back with her for any reason. She's dependent on boys and she is just going to be a huge problem. Let some oother shmuck deal with her. Be rational. She banged all the guys she could have and now she feels guilt and peobably shame, therefore she is trying to get in contact with you. Man up and delete her number from your cell.
2006-12-18 15:23:25 · answer #2 · answered by Chris from West LA 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Firts of all you need to either move on, talk to her or get a hobbie besides typing your problems for the world to view. obviously you are not over her and she is not over you so DO SOMETHING ABOUT IT!! Either call her and get things straight and get back together or call her and tell her to move on with him! You are young and worring with every 19 min for the last five months is going to ive you a stroke my friend. Isn't there anohter girl that you have at least had your eye on? Try talking to a new girl to get your mind off of the current situation and see how things go from there.
2006-12-18 15:26:22 · answer #3 · answered by Chelly M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is not worth the pain!!! There are plenty of other fish in the sea!! Get out there and find yourself a better woman!
2006-12-18 15:22:50 · answer #4 · answered by Bex 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you know what your being a dumb *** about this whole situation. did it ever hit you that mabe she is trying to be friends with you, but see your like sitting there saying she's stalking you. my gosh forgive someone for trying to be a friend
2006-12-18 15:24:16 · answer #5 · answered by Sammy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my ex did the same thing and said she hates bieng alone awwwww! she might me a bit of a slu+
2006-12-18 15:21:12 · answer #6 · answered by luckydo6 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She may not want you or even be sure what she wants. What she does want is to keep you on standby. {It's like I don't want you but I don't want anyone else to have you.}
2006-12-18 15:24:20 · answer #7 · answered by BBblondeWia 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay the course, she's trying to use you to make him jealous.
2006-12-18 15:20:32 · answer #8 · answered by FF Geek 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I already anwered this question. Why are you asking it again?
2006-12-18 15:19:47 · answer #9 · answered by Chrissie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋