Family & Relationships - 18 December 2006

I just got out a realtionship about 2 months ago. My boyfriend passed away. I met this guy on a personals site but we both live in 2 different states. I was not looking for a relationship but just a companion. When we met it was like love at first site. We talk all the time and we both have the same goals. We both want marriage and a completed family. What should I do.? He is also pushing towards marriage.

2006-12-18 06:53:45 · 9 answers · asked by Shenika B 1 in Singles & Dating

i cant trust my mom she goes all my stuff and she is always thinks i am lieing what should i do

2006-12-18 06:53:12 · 2 answers · asked by vanessa w 1 in Friends

The couple lived together 6 years, the child is 4 and the mother was the only one who ever worked and the house, utilitities, and car were all hers and in her name. Her parents are the ones who gave all the help, now the father wants equal custody even after he did nothing and has showed all kinds of violence. since the split? After they have been apart for 5 months, the guy still doesn't work, lives with his parents, is doing drugs(which we can't prove), and is becoming more and more violent towards his parents every day, only they keep protecting him so help right now is not an option. Also, what kind of rights do the grandparents have?

2006-12-18 06:53:01 · 2 answers · asked by sherricustard 1 in Family

Call me old-fashioned but to me the first date the guy pays. To me it'd be just awkward to offer to split or whatever on a first date, especially if the guy asks you out.

On the second date I'd be happy to invite. But I've come to notice that some guys think that if you don't offer to pay you're expecting them to always pay and that you're going live off his salary or something. It's sort of a bad first impression. I wanted to see if I was wrong about that.

If I asked the guy out, that's a whole other story (that rearely happens, though, I mean girl asking guy out). I'd pay beacuse I suggested going out.

Ultimately the one that asks out, pays the bill.

Where do you stand?

2006-12-18 06:52:07 · 12 answers · asked by mackenzie 3 in Singles & Dating

I KNOW I HAVE A PROBLEM! Please No rude answers! Im jealous, so jealous I dont want him talking to any other woman as well as looking.It drives me crazy! Ugly or pretty is just dosent matter.Like if were watching a movie and naked girl pops up I just get insanely jealous! And if he likes the movie,its worst becus I think that was his favorite part in the movie! Im afraid he might find another girl pretty or prettier then me.We have been together for 2 years & a half.Its come to the point where he wont even watch movies just to please me and he wont talk to other females or even look at them! He dosent even hang out! And I feel really really bad. I dont want to have him like this.Its not fair and its not how he should have to live his life.I want to change 4 the better.Can someone please tell me how do I stop being jealous like this?! Guys, what do you think when you see a naked girl in a movie.Do you think about it later or compare her to your girl?Girls HELP!!

2006-12-18 06:51:27 · 19 answers · asked by ♥ Loving My Babyboy ;) ♥ 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-18 06:51:12 · 1 answers · asked by bubba b 1 in Singles & Dating

I wanna tell him how I feel, but I'm too shy. Plus, he hates me, and I pretend to hate him back.:(Can you guys help me?

2006-12-18 06:50:31 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

he haven't respond back,so what should i do next?

2006-12-18 06:50:24 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

This question was removed when I asked it before. Why was it removed?

2006-12-18 06:49:39 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I have a curvy frame... not fat, but not skinny. I'm 5'3 and 135 pounds. My mom is always hinting to me that I'm not "skinny enough". But she's a size 2!! I think I'm just a little fuller than her. I have an hourglass shape and am very proportionate, I just have a larger bust, hips, and thighs... but i don't have a large waist!

Should I be concerned about my weight? Is it unattractive?

2006-12-18 06:49:36 · 13 answers · asked by live*laugh*love 4 in Singles & Dating

He wants to spend all his time with his brother and guy friends. Never wanting to give you quality time or loving time. What would you do? Honest answers, please. Oh, by the way I'm very attractive.

2006-12-18 06:49:30 · 15 answers · asked by kitcat 6 in Marriage & Divorce

I am married, 11 years now. In that time our relationship has had more than its share of ups and downs. I have always questioned whether this was the right place i should be but stuck it out because he is a good man. I also have a very good friend I've known since grade school and we've talked openly (to my husbands knowledge) for years. Recently, my friend has shared his true feelings for me and said he's held them back out of respect for my marriage. Unknown to him, I've always had some feelings toward him as well but kept them undisclosed because of my marriage. Now I feel I am in this dilemma. I wonder whether I should meet with my good friend to see if there is any "chemistry" there. I dont want to "hook up" or just sleep with one another. I am merely saying that since we havent seen one another in a while it may be a good idea to meet for a day and share some time talking. I NEED HELP! Im soooo lost. Thanks.

2006-12-18 06:48:56 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I ask him if he want a baby and he said yes I DIDN'T exspect that answer what should I DO

2006-12-18 06:48:25 · 4 answers · asked by dollface 1 in Singles & Dating

I love my boyfriend. I know that he wants to get married. We've only been dating like 4 months but he said that he only wants to fall in love with one person and he has with me. I'm 17. i'm pretty sure when he does ask me it will be in one year. My friend thinks that maybe 18 is a little too early cause she wants to be forsure 19. I think its not too young but some people think it is. My boyfriend hasn't really talked about an age. I'm pretty sure if we were dating longer now he would ask me. so since him and I are ok with it then it doens't really matter what some one else thinks right?

2006-12-18 06:47:32 · 26 answers · asked by Heather 3 in Singles & Dating

I am married and fed up with life. My wfe gives me strife about her family everyday in India...I should look for husbands for them, sponsor them to Canada...I don't care about her feelings..I will smile, but I am sad and dead in inside. what to do????

2006-12-18 06:46:02 · 6 answers · asked by Anil P 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

ok . . . my gf broke up with me back in march and said she wanted to date around and see whats out there and all that good stuff after a 2 year relationship. . she starts dating this kid i went to high school with 2 weeks later . . . i hate the kid so its obviously a bad situation for me . . . so i try to get her back for about 2 months and in the middle of june i went NC . . on our 2 year anniversery at the beginning of july she send me a text that says . . "today was two year" just to remind me of it i guess . . . and ever since that text she has been calling/texting/leaving voicemail/or emailing me once atleast ever 2-3 weeks . . . a few times in was 2-3 times in a week . . . i have not responded to her or anything . . . so its been 5 months and its still going on .. .she is still with this same guy so she obviously knows we cant be friends be cause of the situation.. . . . . .so why does she keep trying to contact me?. .

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21 minutes ago
when they first started dating she even admitted part of the reason was because he was there and she hates being alone

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49 minutes ago
this is her latest message

hey (name)!! hows it goin? boy, youve sure been hard to get a hold of lately! i was thinkin about stoppin by sometime, so unless i hear otherwise from you ill see you soooon!! k byeee!!

<3 (name)

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2 days ago
i dont want to know what u people think i should do . .. just want to know what u think she is thinking

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25 minutes ago
this is the latest message i just got tonight

heyyyyyyy (name)....are you done not talking to me yet?? just wonderin if you wanted to hang out sometime or atleast come visit and see my house!! well please get back to me and let me know!! :)

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19 minutes ago
she just sent me another email saying that she wants me to come to her birthday party . .. now why would she want me to come if he is going to be there . . . it would only cause trouble and be really awkward on top of that

2006-12-18 06:45:21 · 11 answers · asked by cbs2904 1 in Singles & Dating

I have dated nice men But I always feel compelled to stay with the ones that are abusive. Why do I do this?

2006-12-18 06:43:45 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Plaese Tell me

2006-12-18 06:43:27 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i was singing last night and i had my eyes closed for a minute and my boyfriend came up to me and kissed me. do girls do things that make guys want to kiss them

2006-12-18 06:42:49 · 9 answers · asked by annamariecreed 1 in Singles & Dating

i was skiing so i went up and half way down i ramed into this guy and fellover he said you want a hand i was like yer but the bad thing is i went up the hill and crashed into him again i was like sorry he laughed and said thats ok wat does this mean ???

2006-12-18 06:42:40 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Me and my ex-boyfriend still talk alot like we are still together...He wants to get back together but I really dont. Because it is so many things I dont like about him...But for some reason I cant help to call him everyday. What should i do?? Should I jus cut him off?? Or should i jus be his friend??

2006-12-18 06:42:28 · 3 answers · asked by lovher 2 in Singles & Dating

Every ones always telling my mom that im really georgous and my friends always tell that im the so beautiful which i dont believe and i denied it when i went out with my boyfriend and he said that always be proud of your beauty. But now hes long gone and i miss him but now that im single why dont guys come to me

2006-12-18 06:41:37 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

When I meet girls they tell me they are single, but later I find out they have a boyfriend. Why can't they just say straight up that they have a boyfriend?

2006-12-18 06:41:09 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my bf cheated on me a few months ago and i have never been able to get over it! I then found out that the day i went back to college after summer break, he had planned on having a girl meet him at our apt while i was in classes. I am not a cheater and never will be. Is it wrong that i think i have fallen in love with some one else?

2006-12-18 06:39:39 · 1 answers · asked by vet/tech/turned/nurse 2 in Singles & Dating

Did you end up developing feelings for them later on? Did it work out and if, not how long was it before you gave up and called it quits?

2006-12-18 06:39:24 · 10 answers · asked by serenity113001 6 in Singles & Dating

I've been going out with my boyfriend since Friday Dec. 8th. So it's been a little more than a week. When should I tell him that I love him, because I really do.

2006-12-18 06:38:54 · 28 answers · asked by sassysassle 1 in Singles & Dating

I have been firends with this guy for a while. At times he is really nice but sometimes he would completely ignore me. And, then when he realizes that I felt bad or offended for whatever he did he would be nice to me again. He would behave like he never ignored me before. I don't know what to think about this as? I mean is he just being good to me so that I'm not offended or is he really into me.

2006-12-18 06:37:56 · 6 answers · asked by americarac 1 in Friends

A guy I have been seeing's grandmother passed away last night. I want to do something to let him know I'm thinking about him. What should I do?

2006-12-18 06:37:03 · 11 answers · asked by Jen_n_TX 3 in Singles & Dating

this is my female family member...i wanna kick her new husbands azz...what do i do??? what do i say??? i am kinda lost??

2006-12-18 06:36:33 · 27 answers · asked by the one 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-18 06:35:43 · 17 answers · asked by gary21042 1 in Marriage & Divorce