I am married and fed up with life. My wfe gives me strife about her family everyday in India...I should look for husbands for them, sponsor them to Canada...I don't care about her feelings..I will smile, but I am sad and dead in inside. what to do????
2006-12-18 06:46:02 · 6 answers · asked by Anil P 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Is she wanting you to participate in the search for husbands or foot the bill to move them to Canada? If not, what support is she looking for from you that you are not willing to give?
You say that you don't care about her feelings - but I think you do, otherwise you wouldn't just smile and nod...you'd say, "Hey, that's nice but I don't care".
I'm sorry you feel dead inside - but I think you need to figure out where the "deadness" is coming from. I doubt it's simply your wife and her family - a "dead" feeling usually comes from deepression - and I'm sure that depressions stems from inside you - not your wife. You need to speak with a counseler.
2006-12-18 07:03:11 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Me, too. Wanna jump off a bridge with me?
I almost won the lottery. I am never going to get another chance. I am hurting all over. The clues were right in front of me. I was a idiot for missing them. I am no better than a straight guy now! I have to die to stop the pain and the shame and the humiliation, and the disappointment. I really hurt too much. And you think you got problems besides the fact of your being a goon?
An easier solution would be to turn some other woman into a lesbianwoman by engaging in sexual intercourse with her. I'm surprised that your wife hasn't turned towards the better yet. You'l get some relief out of it, and that other woman will come towards a realization that will profoundly change her life forever. The woman will become a super heroine. She'll be ...
...LESBIANWOMAN!!!
You will have committed a triumphant act for both womankind and humankind as well by dyking her up. Pardon my French! You shouldn't use words like "dike" being that you are already a cockroach apple-sucker.
Do you see why I need to be dead right now? Can you imagine how much pain I am in?
2006-12-18 15:10:00 · answer #2 · answered by fieldscharlie 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well, you gotta let your wife know that you are not married to her to find husbands for the rest of her family. The marriage Is for the two of you to grow Into. Maybe she tells this to you because your a good guy you can find guys just like yourself. This Is not reality, every man Is different from the rest. Say you find someone for one of her family members then, this guy treats her family like crap, who gets the blame for this? You need to explain the truth to your wife that you don't want to be Involved In no ones personal life but your own and this subject alone Is tearing you two apart. If this doesn't work maybe you should try talking to a counselor to work your problems out. This maybe helpful to see why your wife Is so obsessed to getting her family here.
2006-12-18 14:59:55 · answer #3 · answered by passion 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your not happy then get out.You said you don't care about her feelings so what have you got too loose.Find yourself happiness elsewhere.
2006-12-18 14:51:16 · answer #4 · answered by Nookie bear 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start reading the Bible and start praying.
2006-12-18 14:49:06 · answer #5 · answered by Nik-Nak 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i feel the same way so i share ur pain! sry to matters worse! : |
2006-12-19 04:40:40 · answer #6 · answered by monaUK 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋