I've been going out with my boyfriend since Friday Dec. 8th. So it's been a little more than a week. When should I tell him that I love him, because I really do.
2006-12-18 06:38:54 · 28 answers · asked by sassysassle 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
After a week..you LOVE him? Oh Geez!
2006-12-18 06:41:07 · answer #1 · answered by BiancaVee 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Be careful, those three little words as you call them can mean different things to different people and can break up a relationship as well as help it. You might be getting too serious, or you may just be infatuated with him and not know it.
I would advise being coy, if asked say you are fond of him or you like him ...wait to use love at least over 3 months ... that seems to be the breaking point in most new relationships. Say it when you know you mean it.
2006-12-18 14:42:03 · answer #2 · answered by themountainviewguy 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
First off... You are infatuated with him. It might feel like love, but love is VERY DEEP and takes TIME to feel. If you tell him now, after only 1 week... He is going to think you are CRAZY. TRUST ME... this is infatuation, NOT LOVE. Dont tell him for at least 3 months, and NEVER EVER tell a guy first.... He should be the one to tell you. What if he doesnt feel that way, then he might feel obligated to say it back or he might feel that since he doesnt feel that way and YOU DO, that you two are on the wrong page... always ALWAYS wait for the guy to say it first. Good luck
2006-12-18 14:42:05 · answer #3 · answered by Angel Eve 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
say it, if you mean it, but i just hope you don't scare him away. try sneaking it in, ask him what does he feel about you....ask him how has this past week been for you. if comes close to the same feeling you have, then say it. if not, wait a little while longer and see how the relationship goes. I remember when my boyfriend told me he loved me, on the first date! congratulations on finding love!!
2006-12-18 14:42:35 · answer #4 · answered by ** i Am hiS giRL ** 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Slow down...i know you probably can't stop thinking about him and you sit around smiling to yourself when you do. And i know there's probably this undying urge to just scream it to the world and wrap your arms around him whisper it in his ear. I've been there. but you have be patient thats just the flames at the start of a new relationship. For guys its different...if rush into saying "i love you" he'll pull away. Even if he does love you back he might not be ready.
2006-12-18 15:20:37 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Been dating a little over a week and you're in love? I think not. I'd wait at least a few months unless you want to scare him away.
2006-12-18 14:45:34 · answer #6 · answered by ♪ ♫Jin_Jur♫ ♥ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you need to wait a little longer for yourself to make sure. Those 3 little words are thrown around so lightly these days. I think you should wait at least a few months or so.
2006-12-18 14:41:21 · answer #7 · answered by Jayne 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
About 2 months.
2006-12-18 14:42:11 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
In my opinion it's too soon and you'll scare him off. How long have you known him for? Maybe you should take it a bit slow in order to find out if the feelings are reciprocal.
2006-12-18 14:41:28 · answer #9 · answered by Don't dream it's Over 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i would say the three little words when you have known him alot longer than 10 days. if you still feel the same in june of next year then you could say the three little words
2006-12-18 14:45:49 · answer #10 · answered by ken s 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ok so its been 10 days now.. thats not true love... yet. yeah you could really really really like him but loves more then that hun. hope you sort your thoughts out. tell him when you really do love him.. but think of what the word LOVE really means
2006-12-18 14:48:31 · answer #11 · answered by soccerwarrior00 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋