Plaese Tell me
2006-12-18 06:43:27 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
NO!!!! 17 is very young. If you LOVE him and he loves you then when you are a little older and don't have to ask if you should get married then you will, If it's right
2006-12-18 06:46:21 · answer #1 · answered by SHERRI 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Absolutly not. I married at 18 and divorced a year later. I remarried at 24 and we are still together. I can honestly say that you will change the way you think and become a more mature person and develope so much from now till 18 then even more once you are 21 and so dramatically life will seem different from then till 30. You can't see it now...but life is so so so long. Too long to make choices this young. I know you will do whatever your heart desires...but just remember, marriage is meant to be forever. Forever is a long time. You don't want to bring kids into that before you know who you are. It's too hard. Just pray about it. If God wants it for you then go for it. Otherwise...love will last a few years for graduation and growing up if it's real.
2006-12-18 14:49:06 · answer #2 · answered by BellaLuna 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No you are way to young to marry you are still a child and not even old enough to vote let alone be a wife and future mother. If you really love this guy date for awhile finish school and the college/university. Do not become a statistic getting married having a baby then living off the government because you have did not finish school think of your future and a career do not let yourself be a stay at home mom and to rely on a guy for everything be your own lady and get educated marriage can wait. God Bless and Good Luck.
2006-12-18 15:04:13 · answer #3 · answered by Livinrawguy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do not think that would be the smartest thing to do just yet. wait until you have finished school and I would stay single for a year or so after that. think about all the different people u may meet at college. the 2 of u may go to different colleges and may have to spend some time apart--that would be really hard being married, especially at such a young age. but if u 2 really love each other then u will know when it's time 2 make that BIG commitment. just make sure this isn't a teenage love thing--make sure it's TRUE love!!
2006-12-18 14:53:49 · answer #4 · answered by crazyk 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly if you need to ask other people's opinions, you are probably not ready to get married. You obviously know that you are pretty young for doing this, although lots of people have married at this age and had long happy marriages. My first reaction is to say NO. Finish High School at least, especially if he is your age. If you both truly love each other, you will still be together long after that and you will be more likely to be able to support yourselves. If you break up before then, you have dodged a bullet and you don't have to deal with a divorce before you are even in college. Take your time and make sure it is right.
2006-12-18 14:49:12 · answer #5 · answered by PDH 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your to young to marry now, but if you love him stay with him, go to school and learn about the real world, how to pay bills and maintain a job and get an education. After that see who you are and if you feel the same way about each other, people change alot in 5 years at your age. I think you are better off waiting and growing a bit before you make such a big decision.
Good Luck
2006-12-18 15:10:15 · answer #6 · answered by sharing 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, take it from someone who knows. I got married when i was 17 had 2 kids by 21. Now I feel like I never lived my life. However I love my kids dearly and want them in a family with a mom and a dad. So here I am stuck. Don't do it. Live your life first. If it is meant to be it will happen down the road.
2006-12-18 16:58:33 · answer #7 · answered by KH 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is a powerful thing. But the best thing is not to rush in to getting married. You two are both young, and the best thing to do is wait first to make it more wonderful. And make sure every thing is stable like your incomes, a place, and live with each other for a good year at least to see if the marriage is what you two really want. Sometimes living with each other for a year or more helps to see if you two could really get along with each other and could make you too even more closer for a longer loving relationship.
2006-12-18 14:56:43 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would sincerely advise you not to get married at 16/17. Even if you love him, you need more time as you are too young and people change with age. I think you should think about marriage once you are in your 20s and have completed your graduation.
Best of luck
2006-12-18 14:46:59 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
you're way too young, you may not think so now. but a marriage is hard to keep and you need more than love to stay together. As
people get older people change, now everything might be great in
a couiple of years that can change. focus on your education you'll benefit more from more than getting married. Why the hurry to get married anyway? you have your whole life ahead of
you ! I wish I were your age, I would change some many things, and getting married would be one of them!
2006-12-18 15:04:15 · answer #10 · answered by Fiesty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, absolutely not ! Marriage is a lifelong committment, and you probably haven't been with enough men to figure out what you want in a relationship. Many girls make that mistake when they're 16 and 17. Sounds like you're looking for attention you're not getting at home. Think about it.
2006-12-18 15:28:37 · answer #11 · answered by Big Bear 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋