I just got out a realtionship about 2 months ago. My boyfriend passed away. I met this guy on a personals site but we both live in 2 different states. I was not looking for a relationship but just a companion. When we met it was like love at first site. We talk all the time and we both have the same goals. We both want marriage and a completed family. What should I do.? He is also pushing towards marriage.
2006-12-18 06:53:45 · 9 answers · asked by Shenika B 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think a month sounds a little soon. You may be moving kinda fast which could cause problems in the future. You said your boyfriend passed away just a few months ago. I'm not saying that you shouldn't get over him but a few months doesn't seem like a long enough time to fully get over somone dying. You haven't known him too long and he already wants to get married. I guess all I can say is make sure it's what you want and that you're ready for it.
2006-12-18 06:59:39 · answer #1 · answered by angelicasongs 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You can't really know someone after just one month. He might seem look a good guy, and you might have a number of similar goals, but there's a lot you still don't know about him.
Just enjoy dating and don't move in with him until you've been seeing each other at least six months. If he's worthy, he'll understand.
2006-12-18 07:17:08 · answer #2 · answered by Blenderhead 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
THERE'S A BUTTON JUST ABOVE THE SHIFT KEY WHICH YOU CAN USE TO TURN CAPSLOCK OFF
A month is rushing it a bit. You can't really get to know people in a month, and while you may think "but we're different", you probably aren't. I'd wait a while. Consider moving nearer each other, but stay in seperate houses for now.
2006-12-18 06:58:54 · answer #3 · answered by Tom :: Athier than Thou 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Girl please don't do it. I have been with my boyfriend for 4 years and we had been in a long distance relationship for the last two. He just moved in and I hate it. You have no privacy. Also this man may be a maniac. He is subject to get you in the house and straggle you to death. Just playing, but seriously, you don't know him personally so you should think twice about living with him.
2006-12-18 06:59:43 · answer #4 · answered by brickhouse_042000 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you feel in your heart that he is the right man for you then I would go for it. I do however feel that it is a little early to be discussing marriage....you do not even know eachothers habits at this point...live together for awhile and then discuss marriage.
2006-12-18 07:01:55 · answer #5 · answered by Stacy H 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should wait until you really get to know him , because remember u never get to finish knowing someone!
I also think that you should wait because you might be confused sinc eyour boyfriend passed away not too long ago.
2006-12-18 07:00:04 · answer #6 · answered by Nelly. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IF YOU DO MOVE IN AFTER ONE MONTH YOU CANT BE MAD WHEN YOU WAKE UP AND HE HAS A KNIFE AT YOUR THROAT FOR NO REASON
2006-12-18 06:55:43 · answer #7 · answered by the one 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
TOO EARLY!WAIT AND GET TO KNOW HIM A LITTLE BETTER.
2006-12-18 06:57:58 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
IF YOU LOVE EACH OTHER,WHY NOT?
2006-12-18 06:55:36 · answer #9 · answered by dce1dg 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋