I have a curvy frame... not fat, but not skinny. I'm 5'3 and 135 pounds. My mom is always hinting to me that I'm not "skinny enough". But she's a size 2!! I think I'm just a little fuller than her. I have an hourglass shape and am very proportionate, I just have a larger bust, hips, and thighs... but i don't have a large waist!
Should I be concerned about my weight? Is it unattractive?
2006-12-18 06:49:36 · 13 answers · asked by live*laugh*love 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
it doesn't matter what other people think about you. it is how you think and feel about yourself
2006-12-18 06:52:17 · answer #1 · answered by angeleyes3535 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
properly, in the event that they meant it to be an insult, then they ought to have an exceedingly unusual thought of what's an captivating physique shape. Hourglass is in all possibility the main needed physique shape by using women and females, and yet purely 8% of the inhabitants certainly very own an hourglass discern. So i could say it particularly is compliment and you need to count extensive style your self fortunate : )
2016-10-18 11:04:39 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you comfortable with yourself? Just because your Mom is a size 2 doesn't mean you have to be. I am a size 2 and I prayed that my kids wouldn't get stuck with the hereditary gene of thinness as I call it. I hate it. And my boys are thin but they are not tiny like me. They have an average body build for their ages. It's not what you look like on the outside it whats inside that counts but if your healthy and aren't ashamed of your body type then don't let it bother you what your Mom says.
2006-12-18 06:56:48 · answer #3 · answered by Karen A 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
dude, I'm sure you look fine. 135 is not disportionate to your wieght. Find a BMI calculator online and see for yourself.
Don't let anyone take away your self esteem, in this world, all you have is yourself. Nobody's going to stick up for you but you.
It's sad that your mom's like that but you have to move on.
2006-12-18 06:54:29 · answer #4 · answered by Whitnae 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are fine, great actually, next time she makes a negative remark about your waist size, tell her she isn't busty enough. Hopefully it will be the hint she needs to stop buggying you about your very healthy/attractive weight.
2006-12-18 06:52:01 · answer #5 · answered by bluechick 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
okay, it isn't unattractive, you shouldn't be worried about your weight, the average woman is like a size 5-10, so your mom's smaller than most, be yourself, tell your mom that what she thinks is thin and what you think is thin are two completely different things.
2006-12-18 06:52:41 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Here's a quick way to determine if you are just fine or a bit heavy. When you walk, do your inner thighs rub against one another? Does your butt jiggle a bit too excessively when you walk? If so, then you are a bit on the plump side.
2006-12-18 07:06:06 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
if you are happy with the way you look then to heck with everyone else. Beauty comes from within not from the way others see you. Just be happy
2006-12-18 06:54:15 · answer #8 · answered by masterzuaba 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no actually alot of guys like that i have an hourglass shape as well an my boyfriend LOVES my body !!!!!! so ur fine congrats live to love ur body gurl!!
2006-12-18 07:07:21 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats a nice shape! Dont let other people ideas of what you "should be" taint your confidence!
2006-12-18 06:52:41 · answer #10 · answered by ladierockett 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you sound like in great shape im 5'5 and weigh only 130 and i look good i bet you look good too. dont listen to your mom!
2006-12-18 06:53:10 · answer #11 · answered by Babydoll 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋