So, here is the story. A friend of mine introduced me to a friend of his that was in need of a roomie. Being in need of a new place to live, I happily agreed and all went well. Life was grand. My new roomate and good friend (Flavio), then got serious with a girl he had been seeing for a while and was living in the shared apartment. After a few months of 3's company....Mr Hyde quickly appeared and my Flavio went missing. Insansity ensued. The final straw in Flavio's relationship occured in a 12 hour standoff arguing the merits of a threesome with the inclusion of another female at Flavio's insistance. Flavio and his girlfriend parted ways and extreme grief soon entered Flavio's life. He "found Jesus" that day and decided to get counseling and change his ways.
Flavio's ex-girlfriend and I have since become very close friends and I have developed a want for something more. She seems on board but Flavio thinks this is wrong.
Dear Diary, what can I do in this situation?
2006-12-18 07:13:53 · 11 answers · asked by greg 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
no, hun it is called an "ex"
2006-12-18 07:20:18 · answer #1 · answered by Lucky#11 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you still live with Flavio then this would make a very uncomfortable living environment for you, Flavio and his ex. If you really are serious about this girl you may want to consider moving out and away from Flavio.
2006-12-18 07:17:31 · answer #2 · answered by Jayne 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeahhh.
If you want to get involved with this girl, move out of Flavio's space. It's the only choice. He probably will dislike you very much once you start openly seeing her, and dislike is not a good emotion to instill in a roommate.
Also, you might want make sure she's really into you, because you'll probably be losing a friend.
2006-12-18 07:25:37 · answer #3 · answered by Blenderhead 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That could be a hard one. Despite the fact that she nonetheless loves you she could no longer want to be with you cause it sounds like you do not trust her. However on the othe hand in case you back off and be supportive she may come back. I suppose that she wants some respiratory area. Why have you ever not spoken to her in a week? Honostly I really consider that each one she wishes is trust, house and to exhibit her that you may maintain everything that's giong on. My boyfriend and that i broke up twice and now we are married. Repeatedly it takes time and if no longer then you'll in finding someone else and believe of this as a studying experience. Just right luck!!
2016-08-10 02:06:22 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on how good a friend you are with Flavio and if you want to keep it that way. But, the fact remains that he let her go. I think he is in a "if I can't than you can't" state of mind. Personally, I'd tell him to grow-up and start seeing her.
2006-12-19 04:43:41 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
NOOOOOOO, stay away from that one. No future in it homey. Move out of there if you want a relationship with her, but expect big trouble if you stay.
2006-12-18 07:18:11 · answer #6 · answered by bigbro3006 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just say NO. Don't do it. You are going to be stuck living with someone who will be furious with you. And if you let her stay over... or whenever she comes over. It will be awkward and well, just wrong.
No. No. No.
2006-12-18 07:16:30 · answer #7 · answered by fluffomatic24 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if it does not bother you fine. sleep with your friend's ex. sticky situation, i won't like to be in. find a chick of your own. gone for the day. seem i had enuff of this. laterz
2006-12-18 07:18:35 · answer #8 · answered by stacy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay away from her or move out if you have to be with her.
2006-12-18 07:17:36 · answer #9 · answered by FF Geek 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO WAY! Find Yourself another girlfriend and keep YOUR FRIEND.
2006-12-18 07:19:47 · answer #10 · answered by ♥ Loving My Babyboy ;) ♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stay away from her, and don;t talk to her it the best for all of you
2006-12-18 07:18:05 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋