Okay, my body is very noticeable and my butt is a real eye-catcher. Since I don't go anywhere but to home and school, all the attention is focused at school. When the guys bring up discussions about butts, i'm usually in it. My boyfriend also goes there and he usually cusses me out because of what the guys talk about. How can I let him know that what the guys talk about is their problem and that to not let their discussion come between our relationship?
2006-12-18 06:24:36 · 8 answers · asked by Candice C 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
baby girl, it's pretty much up to him to trust you. keep expressing that your relationship is base upon trust. and that's all you can offer him. if he can't accept that, then it would be his problem.
2006-12-18 06:28:15 · answer #1 · answered by harmony 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him. Reassure him that what they say doesnt matter, that you care about him. And if it bothers him so much, maybe he should stick up for you and say something to the guys that talk.
Tell him that what other people say doesn't define your relationship. What happens between the two of you does. He's just feeling insecure, stroke his ego and make him feel important and let him know that he is important to you and the others are not.
2006-12-18 06:31:57 · answer #2 · answered by nightstar114 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Schools out!
2006-12-18 06:26:39 · answer #3 · answered by I know for sure 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try sitting him down one day, take both of his hands in yours, look him in the eyes( its all about eye contact) and let him know how much he means to you. how much you dont care what other people think of you or you and him together. all that matters is how you feel about him and how he feels about you. make him feel special and ask him why he is so uncomfortable about it. guys love talking about themselves. and next time you hear someone talking aboout you, say something to them, make sure they know you dont like it and that you mean business. stand up for yourself because there wont always be someone else to do it for you.
2006-12-18 06:29:48 · answer #4 · answered by Jezyka Isabella 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him 2 get over it it`s not ur fault u was blessed wit a butt and if guys want 2 talk bout it it`s not ur fault
2006-12-18 06:29:35 · answer #5 · answered by smack_that_517 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell him. be lik hey i am only talking to them we are at school and you know nothing is happening there.. since you dont go anywhere else than school and home he knows where you are at so he knows you arent with them. just be open with him and tell him to chill
2006-12-18 06:28:00 · answer #6 · answered by jones 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
have him kiss your buttt
2006-12-18 06:27:35 · answer #7 · answered by Illeagal Alien 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
they are crazy
2006-12-18 06:31:22 · answer #8 · answered by khs_7f 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋