this guy has been in contact with me for over a year. even when i was in my past serious relationship.
we have only kissed eachother.
he always texts me when hes out in town and i do the same. nothing is planned. if we are not out we always say so.
i was out in town this weekend and i text him to see if he was out. he didnt reply. this has happened before.
once we have met up, i dont hear from him for a while and he ignores my texts. i then dont text him anymore and he comes back texting me again as normal.
what does this mean???
i really like this guy.
he is 29 and single.
i have heard that he has never had a girlfriend before and that he likes the chase.
when we are together he always wants to be with me and he always pays me compliments.
he does know that i came out of a serious 6 year relationship with my fiance 9 months ago.
2006-12-18 06:27:56 · 8 answers · asked by Special Little Girl xxx 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
could he be worried that ill get back with my ex???
2006-12-18 06:30:30 · update #1
It sounds like he wants to be a good friend, and when you guys spend a lot of time together he gets a bit scared, either he doesn't want a relationship, or that he is getting feelings for you and doesn't know what to do about it. I had a guy friend that did that to me, and finally I just sat him down, let him know how I felt, he said he just wanted to be friends, but 2 months later he asked me out, and now we're engaged! I suggest that you have a talk with him and see what's going on, if he is really a good friend he will let you know, no harm, no foul.
Hope this helps!
Good Luck
2006-12-18 06:38:39 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seems to me like he's playing games with you. Once you get close he backs off.
True, unfortunately, the chase is a big thrill for most men and he seems to want total control over the situation. If you have strong feelings for him, tell him and see how he reacts. If he just wants to be friends then at least you know where you stand. The world's a big place and full of guys who might be more than right for you.
Good luck x
2006-12-18 06:35:56 · answer #2 · answered by Steve D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You say you got out of a 6year relationship 9mth ago,yet your getting completely confused over this guy,he knows your not in a relationship,you text him,you even kissed him,that still don`t mean he is ready for real commitment does it
2006-12-18 06:34:21 · answer #3 · answered by barnowl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Could be. My impression is that he wants you to do the running just so that he knows you are interested, but also it seems that he may be insecure in himself. If you really like him then arrange to meet up and talk things through
2006-12-18 06:36:48 · answer #4 · answered by paul M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think he a player and use you and whenever he has someone with him he ignore you and when he has no one around he text you and meet up move on,
2006-12-18 06:48:32 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-18 15:31:38 · answer #6 · answered by hillis 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like he's hooking up with someone when he's not talking to you, and not hooking up with anyone else when he is takling to you. just tell him how you feel!
2006-12-18 06:37:08 · answer #7 · answered by should be working 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DID I NOT JUST ANSWER THIS ???
DEJA VU?
2006-12-20 21:02:02 · answer #8 · answered by Brown_Sugar 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋