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Question

when someone you are seeing is over his ex gf??

they broke up about a year ago.

and now he is seeing so many other girls.
i like him alot , so i put up with it.

we never actually go out to see a movie, it's always at his house that we actually hang out. like 3 times a week.

he tells me he like s me alot when he sees me and that he missed me. he's affectionate in person

but he is pretty mean to me and non affectionate on the phone. etc.

what should i do??
is he over his ex?

they went out for 2 years..he was madly in love with her. and he says he is never going to fall in love agian

Answer 1

I don't think it has anything to do with his ex. He isn't treating you the way you deserve to be treated period. Why do you allow him to see other girls? He will never want to be exclusive with you because you've allowed him to see other people before. Leave him, use this as a learning exp., know that you are worth more, and move on.

Answer 2

I don't think it is a question is he over his ex, it is more a question on why is he treating you like that? I would confront him and let him know of his behaviors. Why he wines and dines you in person and acts like a jack*ss on the phone. If the answer isn't good enough for you then it might be time to move on. Besides you said he is seeing so many other girls, it's time now to get rid of him and find yourself a good guy.

Answer 3

I think what the guy is going through is that... he's trying to manage his time by balancing all the women he has met with. I'm not sure how many but it sounds like if he can't make plans to see you one day... or you feel he is mean because you are intruding his 'privacy' with other girls... then basically... it tells you about this character.

Or in other words... you still like him that way because he is attractive to you and hot to you. So you tell yourself... why bother?

So if you can deal with him being with other women... then that's your choice. Otherwise it's your loss or gain.

Answer 4

He's been over his ex for a long time. He's just not that into you, and since you don't care how many girls he dates, he has no respect for you. Guys don't respect girls they can act mean to. You should find someone better.

Answer 5

its sounds like hes over his ex unless hes still seign her often.
and even still it may be hard to tell.

i would invite him to some public place and taht way you could see how he reacts to your affection in front of others.
or if he declines..

most likely not..
but there is the possiblity that he could have another girl and thats why hes never seen in public with you.

like i said most likely not.
i woudlnt worry until youve invited him out several times and hes declined every one.

then ide ask him if he doenst like to go in public with you and why?

but over the phone, it may just be who he is.
some people are phone and internet people.
and others are simply in person conversationalists.

so i wouldnt worry just yet.
im sure he likes you.
:] good luck.

Answer 6

This guy sounds like he's using you.
Whats up with he's seeing other girls?Don't you want to have an exclusive relationship where he treasures the time spent with you and you yourself?My advice is find someone else who apreciates and spoils you...
Goodluck...

Answer 7

he's mean to you and is seeing tons of other women? are you sure he's good dating material? .....that being said, the biggest clue as to whether a guy is over his ex or not is whether he still seems bitter about their breakup. if he's truly over her, he won't still get emotional when thinking about how things ended.

Answer 8

look guys like that just want to get in ur pants he never takes u out its just at his house hes over his x but you should forget him he just wants to get layed like every other guy

Answer 9

Drop this guy. That is probably what his ex did.

Answer 10

i think you need to tell him how you feel, it may just be that he doesnt like talking over the fone, not if he is over his ex's